Trying to let go, But yet the awful feeling of being alone!

Hello! Can anyone tell if me they have any resouces or any info on letting go when your heart has been broken, And also why am I so afraid of being alone? Hope someone can PM or post something to help me!

Letting go of someone is not an easy task. Time is the only thing I know for sure that can ease the pain...if even a little.

I have a terrible fear of being alone, yet I always seems to be pushing people away. Go figure.

Your not alone here though. We are always here to listen and support you in any way that we can. Being alone, feeling lonley is devastating and I am sorry your feeling that way. I am here for you.

Pm if needed.

you are definately not alone ...I'm going through the same thing and have been for sometime. the only thing that helps me alittle is to remember all the bad stuff & realize how much better off I am in the long run, try to keep busy , focus on the good things going on in my life Kids, family,friends etc..I wish I knew the answer but please know that we are here for you ..sometimes just having someone to listen helps ...take care ...hugs

This is the one thing I've learned from my "mommie dearest", my entire life my mom has had different men, but was never able to spend more then a week by herself. I always knew, even as a young girl, that something was strange about that, because I always felt fine alone, still do.

I think the reason a lot of women have a hard time being alone is because they've kind of become emotionally dependant on their other. I'm not necessarily saying that's you.......but I know from my experiences with witnessing my mothers dependentsy.
I know there has to be some type of self diagnoses quizzes somewhere around here for dependentsy. I would check that out.
But if that's not it, and you just don't want to be alone, because it's lonely.......then that's normal. Nobody wants to be alone all the time. I think it would just take time and accepting of the fact that your alone. Then getting out into the community and making friends and doing things, to ensure you don't get to depressed.

I hope it all works out,
Desirae

When ones thinking and feelings do not line up with each other - the FEELINGS will always win out, and it does not matter if the feelings are right or wrong.... you must a line your mind and your heart, when they are in sink then you will be able to let go.

AND - only YOU can determine when that time will arrive.... at your own pace.

LoVe,
Rhapsody -

Book worth reading: Feelings Buried Alive Never Die, by Karol Truman.

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When ones thinking and feelings do not line up with each other - the FEELINGS will always win out, and it does not matter if the feelings are right or wrong....

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Rhapsody,

That is a very wise perception.

Good thoughts (and feelings!) M