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Feb 12, 2006, 09:31 PM
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I am not gonna pursue the new guy, who is much older than me. He may be what I need sexually and as far as friends go, but I don't think I could be romantically involved with him. Is that so terrible? I'm kinda bummed that it won't work out, but I guess I just can't go there. He's like 20 years older than me. I thought it might work out, but I'm starting to think it won't now. He spent the weekend here with me and my bf. I got to know him a little better and all, but there was just not that special spark between us that I was expecting.
 I have talked to my bf. Yeah the jerk. Since he knew our relationship was on the line, he wants to talk more, work things out, and try to fix all the things wrong in our relationship. Before, I didn't think all this was possible. That's why I went looking elsewhere. Maybe if I didn't spend all my time online things would improve. Me and my bf are getting along quite well right now. We're talking a lot more, too. Things are going much better now. He's even apologized for everything he's said and done in the past. I never expected that. He's done more since we had our talk, where I tried to break up with him, and has been more understanding. Things really seem to be clicking. Yeah, I get irritated with him and all that, but I guess that's normal with every relationship. Although we are still having some problems, I don't think they cannot be worked out. Thanks for listening.
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Feb 12, 2006, 09:38 PM
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{{{{{{{{{LEXI}}}}}}}}} WOW I am soooo proud of you for this ! Even though I've disliked your bf for the things he's done to you.. I am glad that you are trying to work things out first before you give up.That shows alot of maturity on both your parts. I know how hard it is to do this. I've been married for 16yrs now and we are in marraige therapy. Its very hard work. I commend you for wanting to do this for yourself and for the both of you! GOOD GOING!!!!!!! And keep up the good work! Keep us posted!
Hugz~ Bethy ps.. may I tell you this also that over the past few months I have really seen you grow as a person. Its been so neat! Good going on that too!
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Feb 13, 2006, 12:54 AM
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Feb 16, 2006, 04:38 AM
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Hopefully the prospect of losing you has opened his eyes...I wish you both the best. {{{{{Lexi}}}}} =)
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Feb 16, 2006, 04:47 PM
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Thank you guys so much!
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