Why are people so selfish???

The other night I was chatting to someone on MSN who is in the US. I got a message from a friend who lives about ten minutes walk from me, and he was in a bit of a fuddle with some personal issues. He was also high on weed, GHB and had been drinking.

I told my 'friend' on msn the situ and that I was gonna go spend time with my friend who just needed a bit of company and someone to chill out with.

He seemed ok at the time. But then next day starting making comments about how unfair I was to have left in the middle of our conversation and he had uncorked a bottle of chardonnay for no reason because of me.

He has been incredibly supportive of me and helped me a great deal in the past.

I'm so angry at the lack of respect that I have blocked him from my MSN and I don't feel the need to talk to him again.

WHY do people be your friend then suddenly try and make YOU a bad person when there is something u need to do?

(((DR UNK)))) That was your choice you made. I don't understand why you blocked him over this, unless he was abusive in his speech. You gotta think now, if the guy on MSN isn't a junkie, how he feels because he "knows" he's a better catch than the other guy. (From his perspective...)

I hope you find more and more friends, that you don't have to give so much support to!

But he isn't my boyfriend ... or anything like ... and he was just nasty and tried to make me feel stink ... i don't need that i just needed to go and make sure my mate was okay and not taking too much of anything.

i blocked him cos i just can't be bothered with that sort of crap, it's not what i need right now.

ty for reply

It does seem rather unkind. I mean if it were me, I would definitely understand. For one, you have never met this guy who you talk to online and you don't really know him. I mean we never know the people who are online. We may think we do, but can easily be duped. You know your mate IRL and it is understandable that you would want to go to his aid. I know I would.

The reaction that the MSN guy had was pretty extreme IMO. He could've just told you he was hurt that you had to go so soon or so quickly. He didn't have to put a guilt trip on you. I found that quite rude.

Please hang in there.

thanks lex ... i know it isn't a 'biggie', but i just can't believe someone would say i made them waste a bottle of wine they'd just uncorked.

grrrrr

Sounds like he got a little jealous because you left him to go help a friend who happened to be a guy. Men can be jealous sometimes, even whe they claim they are not.

But if he got all *****y about some stupid wine, then I wouldn't waste my time.

He sounds manipulative and possessive. I shudder to think what his IRL relationships must be like.

He is a plonker

I needed a little ****** to relieve those thoughts - thanks guys