confused hubby

Hubby ranted and raved about being tied down with the horses, and couldn't go away when he wanted. Now, they are gone cause I couldn't stand listening to that any more. Now, he is saying that everything is gone and this is the worst year of his life. Before, he said all I talked about was the horses, so I cured that. They aren''t here. Can't please him no matter what I do. I think he is depressed, but can't get through to him. Some days I am just ready to leave, but know that would be wrong. Anyhow, I guess everyone has their hard times. This is a tough one. I am happier at work than I am hearing him complain all of the time.

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Have either one of you two really set down and had a real heart to heart talk about what is causing the burden in him and the distance in you? - for IMO complaints are not ever meant to be NAGGING in nature, but rather a hurting persons only plea left.... a plea of needing to be heard and understood - to be validated, both as a person and as a spouse with unmeet wants / needs / desires.


LoVe,
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