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#51
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No, who on earth said that?
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No, don't have the money for the wedding we want to have saved up yet.
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I have a boyfriend named Daniel who I met on Facebook and we have been together since March 6th, 2019. He has Asperger's Syndrome and a master's in homeland security studies and a 4.0 ![]() Diagnosis: Borderline Personality Disorder Schizoaffective Disorder PTSD ADHD Social Anxiety Disorder Medical problems: Fibromyalgia Lupus IBS (Irritable Bowel Syndrome) Asthma Psych meds: Haloperidol 15 MG Desipramine 75 MG Bupropion 150 MG Prazosin 1 MG Lamotrigine 200 MG Benztropine 1 MG ![]() |
#53
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Yeah, I'm pretty excited about it.
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I have a boyfriend named Daniel who I met on Facebook and we have been together since March 6th, 2019. He has Asperger's Syndrome and a master's in homeland security studies and a 4.0 ![]() Diagnosis: Borderline Personality Disorder Schizoaffective Disorder PTSD ADHD Social Anxiety Disorder Medical problems: Fibromyalgia Lupus IBS (Irritable Bowel Syndrome) Asthma Psych meds: Haloperidol 15 MG Desipramine 75 MG Bupropion 150 MG Prazosin 1 MG Lamotrigine 200 MG Benztropine 1 MG ![]() |
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I have a boyfriend named Daniel who I met on Facebook and we have been together since March 6th, 2019. He has Asperger's Syndrome and a master's in homeland security studies and a 4.0 ![]() Diagnosis: Borderline Personality Disorder Schizoaffective Disorder PTSD ADHD Social Anxiety Disorder Medical problems: Fibromyalgia Lupus IBS (Irritable Bowel Syndrome) Asthma Psych meds: Haloperidol 15 MG Desipramine 75 MG Bupropion 150 MG Prazosin 1 MG Lamotrigine 200 MG Benztropine 1 MG ![]() |
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I would move in there because I have always wanted to live there and did at one point for a short time. And yes, it would save us more money living in that house together. I don't know what you mean by a retirement plan? We do not share assets now, sometimes he gives me money for my birthday or holidays or buys me stuff I can't afford but that's it. And I don't know what you mean by a 50/50 state? I live in Phoenix, Arizona.
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I have a boyfriend named Daniel who I met on Facebook and we have been together since March 6th, 2019. He has Asperger's Syndrome and a master's in homeland security studies and a 4.0 ![]() Diagnosis: Borderline Personality Disorder Schizoaffective Disorder PTSD ADHD Social Anxiety Disorder Medical problems: Fibromyalgia Lupus IBS (Irritable Bowel Syndrome) Asthma Psych meds: Haloperidol 15 MG Desipramine 75 MG Bupropion 150 MG Prazosin 1 MG Lamotrigine 200 MG Benztropine 1 MG ![]() |
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I have a boyfriend named Daniel who I met on Facebook and we have been together since March 6th, 2019. He has Asperger's Syndrome and a master's in homeland security studies and a 4.0 ![]() Diagnosis: Borderline Personality Disorder Schizoaffective Disorder PTSD ADHD Social Anxiety Disorder Medical problems: Fibromyalgia Lupus IBS (Irritable Bowel Syndrome) Asthma Psych meds: Haloperidol 15 MG Desipramine 75 MG Bupropion 150 MG Prazosin 1 MG Lamotrigine 200 MG Benztropine 1 MG ![]() |
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#57
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Yes, I know what marriage is.
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I have a boyfriend named Daniel who I met on Facebook and we have been together since March 6th, 2019. He has Asperger's Syndrome and a master's in homeland security studies and a 4.0 ![]() Diagnosis: Borderline Personality Disorder Schizoaffective Disorder PTSD ADHD Social Anxiety Disorder Medical problems: Fibromyalgia Lupus IBS (Irritable Bowel Syndrome) Asthma Psych meds: Haloperidol 15 MG Desipramine 75 MG Bupropion 150 MG Prazosin 1 MG Lamotrigine 200 MG Benztropine 1 MG ![]() |
#58
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He agreed we will live alone unless/until he inherits the house his parents and him own which when his parents do die the house will go to him as he is the only child.
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I have a boyfriend named Daniel who I met on Facebook and we have been together since March 6th, 2019. He has Asperger's Syndrome and a master's in homeland security studies and a 4.0 ![]() Diagnosis: Borderline Personality Disorder Schizoaffective Disorder PTSD ADHD Social Anxiety Disorder Medical problems: Fibromyalgia Lupus IBS (Irritable Bowel Syndrome) Asthma Psych meds: Haloperidol 15 MG Desipramine 75 MG Bupropion 150 MG Prazosin 1 MG Lamotrigine 200 MG Benztropine 1 MG ![]() |
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It doesn't I was just curious.
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I have a boyfriend named Daniel who I met on Facebook and we have been together since March 6th, 2019. He has Asperger's Syndrome and a master's in homeland security studies and a 4.0 ![]() Diagnosis: Borderline Personality Disorder Schizoaffective Disorder PTSD ADHD Social Anxiety Disorder Medical problems: Fibromyalgia Lupus IBS (Irritable Bowel Syndrome) Asthma Psych meds: Haloperidol 15 MG Desipramine 75 MG Bupropion 150 MG Prazosin 1 MG Lamotrigine 200 MG Benztropine 1 MG ![]() |
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Is he ok with open marriage too?
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You did. You explained you've recently become a Wiccan and were going to have a Wiccan/Pagan ceremony in the fall around Halloween.
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No one is intentionally being rude to you. Everyone is rather confused.
You've changed plans so many times that it's hard to keep it straight. At one point you were getting married at Disney. Then on Halloween. Then on Christmas Day at Disney world. Now it is a hand fasting which isn't including a legal component. A hand fasting without the whole legal marriage is a commitment ceremony, not overly viewed as a wedding/marriage. Especially considering that you have a non-monogamous relationship and have zero plans to live with each other. There's nothing wrong with the relationship as it is, nor having a hand fasting. Legal marriages come with various legal benefits, so to have a legal marriage and yet have no indications of a marriage within the relationship - well yes, that will be viewed as weird. Because marriage is people commuting to each other and being part of a team. But you and your guy don't seem to want any of the team aspect, which makes the legal aspect of marriage seem pointless. And really, if you don't want to hear people's actual opinions, you probably shouldn't ask.
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#64
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Yes, it is weird.
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Eskie wasn't being rude, she asked valid questions, because this whole situation is REALLY confusing.
One of them you answered, kind of, by telling her off and stating your fiancé is happily agreeing to this arrangement and has known the score for 8 years.. The other question, "what exactly are u committing to? Is just as valid. Because if you are not in a committed relationship, what exactly IS your commitment here? To not leave him? (That's not sarcasm, I'm actually curious) Again, to each their own, I'm just trying to understand, and if you're offended by the responses received, you probably shouldn't post questions you know the answer to, or if you know there's a good chance you'll dislike the answers. It's just practicing good self-care, protecting yourself from feeling victimized, not censorship. So don't take that the wrong way please.
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Honestly I would not count on inheritance ( that house), as they might live another 40 years till they are a 100. Or they might sell their house etc I wouldn't put much hope in inheriting anything.
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Hmm. Is this inheritance coming from your family, or your fiancé's family? If it's your fiancé's family it's never going to technically or legally be bequeathed to you unless you're legally wed. Better continue saving up for that legal marriage and good luck!
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#68
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It is his family . I am engaged myself and would have a problem if my fiancée planned on me inheriting my parents house. I would have a problem if he didn't want to live with me until I inherit my parents house. It doesn't sound right. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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[QUOTE=divine1966;4967241]Honestly I would not count on inheritance ( that house), as they might live another 40 years till they are a 100. Or they might sell their house etc I wouldn't put much hope in inheriting anything.
That's our family motto: "Don't count on an inheritance!" ![]() Sorry, Angel, I got confused. it sounded like you were having your commitment ceremony at Disney. It's a small world after all...
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It seems like an excuse to be lazy. Its easy enough to hide an unkempt house (which you may try to justify as "your style" or a lazy lifestyle from someone you just see once in awhile. It seems like you are hiding from accountability vs commitment.
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#71
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Yes, he knows I have a girlfriend. It's not serious seeing as she's not living in Arizona where I live she lives in New York so currently only in an online relationship but hope to find a woman I can actually be with in person.
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I have a boyfriend named Daniel who I met on Facebook and we have been together since March 6th, 2019. He has Asperger's Syndrome and a master's in homeland security studies and a 4.0 ![]() Diagnosis: Borderline Personality Disorder Schizoaffective Disorder PTSD ADHD Social Anxiety Disorder Medical problems: Fibromyalgia Lupus IBS (Irritable Bowel Syndrome) Asthma Psych meds: Haloperidol 15 MG Desipramine 75 MG Bupropion 150 MG Prazosin 1 MG Lamotrigine 200 MG Benztropine 1 MG ![]() |
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Yeah well, **** changed and happened. Why are we dwelling in the past? Oh, and I never fing said I recently became Wiccan. I have been Wiccan since December 2009. Seriously, stop putting words in my mouth.
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I have a boyfriend named Daniel who I met on Facebook and we have been together since March 6th, 2019. He has Asperger's Syndrome and a master's in homeland security studies and a 4.0 ![]() Diagnosis: Borderline Personality Disorder Schizoaffective Disorder PTSD ADHD Social Anxiety Disorder Medical problems: Fibromyalgia Lupus IBS (Irritable Bowel Syndrome) Asthma Psych meds: Haloperidol 15 MG Desipramine 75 MG Bupropion 150 MG Prazosin 1 MG Lamotrigine 200 MG Benztropine 1 MG ![]() |
#73
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Sorry, this thread is being closed for administrative review.
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