Holding Onto Your Virginity an Issue

I still say saving one's virginity until the wedding night is a huge mistake. You really need to know if you're sexually compatible or not. What if the guy has a kink that you discover on that night that is majorly disturbing to you? Something so disturbing that you find him repulsive because of it?

Yeah, it's much better for the relationship to NOT wait until that night to avoid just such a situation. Besides, it's not really worth waiting anyways. You just have to find a special way to lose it is all. I gave up my V-Card to my first boyfriend when we spent a vacation at the beach. It was fun and special too.

No thanks. Its called COMMUNICATION and talking things out and all the details of different kinks and this and that can be DISCUSSED way before sexual intercourse even happens on the honeymoon/wedding night.

How long will you give yourself to live with your parents if you don't find this perfect man?

What if the guy isn't open to talking about sex? Some guys aren't really all that touchy-feely with that aspect of themselves. And don't say the right man for you will be open to communication because from what you expect of your mate, listening to heavy metal music and whatnot, that they will not want to wait.

I feel you are limiting yourself too much and are expecting too much from a guy. You need to get out there and lower your expectations a few notches.

losing your virginity is a personal choice. I know plenty of people who decided to wait until marriage to lose it, and they have perfectly healthy, happy relationships. you shouldn't have to change your beliefs for a man. or "lower your expectations" when it comes to finding someone willing to wait for you.

For your information I am currently talking to a couple of guys and they do listen to metal and love going to concerts just like me, and they too want marriage as well. We will discuss sex later on down the line.