My mother is driving me nuts!!!!!

I always considered her strange when I was growing up and she has gotten a lot worse since my father died. She has never went to a Dr.for anything because in her eyes, she is just fine, everyone else is "possessed with demons of sickness".
The past few days she has called me about 5 times a day to tell me about this wonderful bed and breakfast that we could turn into a wedding chapel and such and she could live in the attic while we live in the main floor and it's only a half a million dollars. The Lord gave her this vision and that he said "Partner" and of course that meant ME. I have told her numerous times that i had no interest in living with her or being in a business with her, and also there was no way i could take care of a mortgage that big. Do you think that worked . NO way she just kept on yammering about her plans. Then she says she is going to talk to my husband (he already thinks she is a few quarts shy of a gallon) and calls him at work and told me he was "very interested". He told me he listened and then told her he had to get back to work. Well anyway it's pissing me off and making me want to disown her She has did alot of other things to me in the past couple of years that other people said they would have never forgivven her for. I have been diagnosed with moderate recurring depression in the past and have felt a little down lately (due to the weather I'm sure) rainy and cold alot lately. Her latest "thing" has just pushed me to far and now i am moody and weepy and now i feel like i need a cigerette, even though i quit over 2 years ago. On one hand I want to help her, but on the other hand I don't want anything to do with her because she has an opion on everything and "the lord said this and the lord told me to do that" all of the time. It just gets old.

Boy can I relate to that, When my mother was alive, she would call be at least 5 times a day and because she had issues herself I couldn't deal with her in a sensible way becasue I myself was having my own issues which also included her. She went to doctors to many of them inlcuding drug abuse and who knows what else. But when she got I made a sort of peace with her and she died two mdays later. What I am trying to say is maybe she tries to hard to gain acceptance from you. So be easy ewven knwoing it is never going to be easy.