Judging by looks

ACTUALLY...that is wrong.

I'm a not-so-beautiful person. But I am loud and at least give the impression that I am strong and intelligent. When I am in my classes with skinny *** little girls with their highlighted hair and make-up, Chanel bags and pointy shoes...I simply act like myself, like I belong there....as if I look no different then them. In most circumstances they have treated me the same.

You're judging. You're not right, you're closed.

All people despite their looks sense a person who doesn't like themselves....they can smell a bad self esteem blocks away okay. Subconsciously they'll think.....why should I like them and treat them well if they don't even like themselves.

Since your convinced your not-so-beautiful maybe people sense your weak esteem. Maybe you feel you can't relate to beautiful people and don't talk to them or treat them equal...maybe it's you.

Beautiful faces are just as flawed as all people....my best friend is a beautiful thin person and she's a damn looney crock pot.

If you can't see past your ways, or even consider them..well, you'll be screwed.

I think it's time to close this thread due to the direction it's turned to (argumentative and personal feeling comments), but also due to another reason.

I don't think it's OK to quote a thread out of the men or women's forum for rebuttal and discussion. There's a reason that women are asked not to post in men's and visa versa. It's taking a personal conversation, not meant for certain individuals and making it public. It also has the feel of bringing a personal disagreement to the public forums.

In the future let's refrain from doing this same thing. It's going around the guidelines in place for reason.

Thanks for your cooperation and participation.

KD