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Okay a while ago I started seeing this guy and things went well for a while. He said he was starting to fall for me. Well after a bit a mutual friend started a bunch of crap between us and he and I broke up. Well he and I didn't talk for about 3 months and then we got back together. Well things went well for a while and then I hurt his feelings. I pulled away when he wanted me to let him in. And then I went to my ex's to pick up my stuff and that hurt his feelings too. So now we haven't spoken in about 3 months and I've been told that he still likes me but yet we haven't spoken. I asked a friend why he hasn't called me if he likes me so much and they said its because he wants me to call him since I'm the one that hurt him. I still like him and want to be with him. What do you think?
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If he likes you that much, he'd call you. Doesn't matter who hurt who. Personally, I think he's being childish.
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If you both like each other why does it matter who calls who! He is being childish but both of you are playing games. And the first argument was started because of some crap someone else started. Why let someone else mess up your relationship!?
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I would look and see why, starting up the relationship, why it would be different this time and if I thought it would be, I'd give him a call, tell him I was sorry he felt hurt (not that you hurt him; his hurt is his problem but you can still feel sorry he was hurting) and invite him to meet you somewhere or something to get a bite to eat and talk, see if you all wanted to get together again.
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Is there a reason you haven't called him? If so, does that reason out weigh your feelings for him? If not, then call him, silly.
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