Take the Test - Language of LoVe

Did you know that we all speak different love languages?
There are 5 of them, and while we are usually dominate in one of the languages, it's common to score fairly close between different ones...in that case, you could consider yourself bilingual in love languages.

Take this quiz to find out what your primary love language is.

http://www.afo.net/hftw-lovetest.asp

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I took the test and got -

30% in both Physical Touch & Quality Time...... with Words of Affirmation coming in third at 23%.

Receiving Gifts only got 7% with Me - as I would rather have Time in a Bottle with the one I LoVe.

Test Results:

Percent Language Score
30%
Words of Affirmation 9
23%
Quality Time 7
0%
Receiving Gifts
13%
Acts of Service 4
33%
Physical Touch 10

How to Interpret Your Profile Score

Your highest score indicates your primary love language. Your second highest score indicates your secondary love language. If two scores are identical, you are bi-lingual(you have two Primary love languages). If the scores of your primary language and your secondary language are close(for example, 10 and 9 respectively), it indicates both are important to you. The highest possible score for any one love language is 12.

Having a clear picture of your primary and secondary love languages will explain much of your past behavior. Think back over the past and ask yourself, "What have I most often requested of my spouse?" Chances are your answer will lie within the scope of your primary and secondary love languages. You have been requesting that which would meet your deepest need for emotional love. Your requests, however, might have come across as nagging or criticizing and thus drove your spouse away

This was mine, almost the same as yours Rhap .... physical touch and affirmation mean a lot to me .... much more than gifts!

Jinny xx

Percent Language Score
30%
Words of Affirmation 9
27%
Quality Time 8
3%
Receiving Gifts 1
20%
Acts of Service 6
20%
Physical Touch 6

yeah apparently i have the need for gifts i dont know how tht could be i didnt truely understand the test the wording of some of those questions cuz truely gifts are not big thing for me i prefer to spend time with the one i love and just her saying she cares is enough or she loves me

Percent Language Score
30%
Words of Affirmation 9
27%
Quality Time 8
3%
Receiving Gifts 1
20%
Acts of Service 6
20%
Physical Touch 6

yeah apparently i have the need for gifts i dont know how tht could be i didnt truely understand the test the wording of some of those questions cuz truely gifts are not big thing for me i prefer to spend time with the one i love and just her saying she cares is enough or she loves me

Test Results:

Percent Language Score
20%
Words of Affirmation 6
33%
Quality Time 10
7%
Receiving Gifts 2
33%
Acts of Service 10
7%
Physical Touch 2

Percent Language Score
10% Words of Affirmation 3
27% Quality Time 8
7% Receiving Gifts 2
20% Acts of Service 6
37% Physical Touch 11

Your highest score indicates your primary love language. Your second highest score indicates your secondary love language. If two scores are identical, you are bi-lingual(you have two Primary love languages). If the scores of your primary language and your secondary language are close(for example, 10 and 9 respectively), it indicates both are important to you. The highest possible score for any one love language is 12.

Having a clear picture of your primary and secondary love languages will explain much of your past behavior. Think back over the past and ask yourself, "What have I most often requested of my spouse?" Chances are your answer will lie within the scope of your primary and secondary love languages. You have been requesting that which would meet your deepest need for emotional love. Your requests, however, might have come across as nagging or criticizing and thus drove your spouse away.

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I don't know... I guess I already knew this... beccause physical signs of affection are the most lacking in my relationship.

~Ally

Interesting post, thanks for sharing! I'll do the test later and may or may not post my results!

I got down to question 15 and still couldn 't pick one or another ,, So I clicked test results and it said I had to choose at least two ,, >> I GAVE UP >...

10%
Words of Affirmation 3

27%
Quality Time 8

17%
Receiving Gifts 5

10%
Acts of Service 3

37%
Physical Touch 11

30% Quality Time 9
23% Physical Touch 7
17% Receiving Gifts 5
17% Acts of Service 5
13% Words of Affirmation 4

I just read the book a few weeks ago. And it really opened my eyes to why my marriage has so many problems. We simply aren't speaking the same language. My score:

33%
Physical Touch 10
23%
Receiving Gifts 7
20%
Quality Time 6
20%
Words of Affirmation 6
3%
Acts of Service 1

So it's no wonder that my husband and I have problems. I think I have determined that his "Love Language" is Acts of Service. He does the laundry, cleans the toilets, takes out the garbage, without me asking him. I think that is his way of showing he cares enough to do things so I don't have to. I try to tell him that I appreciate it, but I don't know how far it goes.

He is very much NOT physical. Which is why I feel so starved in our marriage. My love language is physical touch. Not just intimacy, but any kind of touch. That's also probably why I have such a bad relationship with my parents - they rarely, if ever, hugged us.

And that's why I love my psych nurse...she gives really good hugs!! Sometimes I just really crave that physical closeness, with anyone.

Anyhoo...if you haven't read the book, I highly recommend it. There is also a Men's Edition, and a book-on-CD version. Amazon.com has good prices on it. Or heck, if you want to borrow mine, send me a PM and I'll even mail you my copy (if you promise to mail it back after a while!)

Percent Language Score
27% Words of Affirmation
23% Quality Time
23% Receiving Gifts
13% Acts of Service
13% Physical Touch

Ha! I need to HEAR IT first. This is no surprise because my H doesn't communicate much. I have to drag everything out of him. I also am not surprised by the quality time tie because he works away from home several days per week and I miss him a LOT.

I love getting presents........and the acts of service (?) tied with touch is curious to me.

Percent Language Score
23% Words of Affirmation 7

37% Quality Time 11

7% Receiving Gifts 2

13% Acts of Service 4

20% Physical Touch 6

WMD you can go back and redo it, don't worry because overall, it will score you correctly (there are enough of the same variables throughout.)

My test results:

37% Words of Affirmation 11
27% Quality Time 8
3% Receiving Gifts 1
13% Acts of Service 4
20% Physical Touch 6

I totally just found this.

20% Words of Affirmation 6
40% Quality Time 12
13% Receiving Gifts 4
7% Acts of Service 3
20% Physical Touch 6

And this is why I'm a sociable person, lol.

I wish there was a "not applicable" choice for some, but here's how I scored:

Words of Affirmation: 37%
Quality Time: 30%
Receiving Gifts: 3%
Acts of Service: 20%
Physical Touch: 10%

23% Words of Affirmation 7
27% Quality Time 8
0% Receiving Gifts
13% Acts of Service 4
37% Physical Touch 11 

Test Results:

Percent Language Score
17%
Words of Affirmation 5

27%
Quality Time 8

3%
Receiving Gifts 1

20%
Acts of Service 6

33%
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