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thats an awful place i heard. im so sorry.

you know greenoaks? ive been there a few times. its where they take all the drug addicts and homeless
Yes I know of Green Oaks and after my daughter's stay at Timberlawn I was told that she could have received better treatment at Green Oaks. I don't know if that is true or not and am glad we never had to try it out.

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She is doing much better now. Abilify made her do things she never did before and have very scary visuals. Once I took her off that medication that all went away. I had to be the one to taper her off because the stupid pdoc at the time wanted to keep her on it despite all the extra symptoms she starting having from taking this medication. I had to get right up in this pdoc's face and demand that he write a prescription for a lower dosage of the stuff so that I could do the taper. That was a very scary time for my daughter and for me as her mother. Now she takes a very low dosage of 20mg of Citalopram. That has worked for her. She had a lot of therapy during that time too and was blessed to have a really great therapist who taught her coping skills and really helped her pull up out of the deep depression that she had been in.
Im very glad she is doing better too. Its a scary thimg to have to watch and try to help your child.

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Old Feb 04, 2014, 07:41 PM
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For Bean, we had little choice. She has been in 3 times with chronic psychosis. She does not remember much but did ask me why girls in there would cut themselves. But she is young. I worry about when she is a teenager and may need to go back in....teens trade ideas at times...

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Yes it is sad that these places are suppose to help but when there they also receive an education from other patients.
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Old Feb 04, 2014, 07:42 PM
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Yes I know of Green Oaks and after my daughter's stay at Timberlawn I was told that she could have received better treatment at Green Oaks. I don't know if that is true or not and am glad we never had to try it out.
you dont really receive better treatment there. they got a lot of people to deal with and they have no activitys besides 1-2 groups a day. they were hauling people off to Terrell State Hospital by the handful to stay for months.

west plano has a program that has better care called the Seay Center. they have the best care. they take people outside AND have the nicest doctors. and a workout/art room. etc.

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Im very glad she is doing better too. Its a scary thimg to have to watch and try to help your child.

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Yes it is hard as a mother to watch your child go through something and you cannot fix it and make it all better for them. That for me was the hardest part.
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Change your diet?
I'm trying to eat properly and regularly. I added some new foods such as nuts and more fish to my diet. I'm a picky eater.

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I cannot explain it in words how much it hurt but I can say that I hope and pray that we never have to go through that ever again. My daughter and I are very close so I pray that she would come to me and tell me if things were getting bad for her again.
My mother helped me through the despondency I just went through. Having that support was really helpful. There were some very challenging days. It got so bad in the middle of January, that I thought about asking my psychiatrist about hospitalization. My mom helped me through those awful feelings. Without her support I would have ended up in the hospital.

My mom is a great support. She always tells me to talk and reach out.
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Old Feb 04, 2014, 07:46 PM
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you dont really receive better treatment there. they got a lot of people to deal with and they have no activitys besides 1-2 groups a day. they were hauling people off to Terrell State Hospital by the handful to stay for months.

west plano has a program that has better care called the Seay Center. they have the best care. they take people outside AND have the nicest doctors. and a workout/art room. etc.

just saying
Knowing what I know now, I will do everything in my power not to ever have her back in a hospital. I hope and pray that she never gets that bad again. But with Mental Illness I know I cannot predict the future. There is a long line of Mental Illness in our family. So the odds are against her.
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My mother helped me through the despondency I just went through. Having that support was really helpful. There were some very challenging days. It got so bad in the middle of January, that I thought about asking my psychiatrist about hospitalization. My mom helped me through those awful feelings. Without her support I would have ended up in the hospital.

My mom is a great support. She always tells me to talk and reach out.
I try to be there for my daughter and encourage her to reach out to me when and if needed. I think having a great support person is very important.
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Old Feb 04, 2014, 07:49 PM
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Knowing what I know now, I will do everything in my power not to ever have her back in a hospital. I hope and pray that she never gets that bad again. But with Mental Illness I know I cannot predict the future. There is a long line of Mental Illness in our family. So the odds are against her.
yes
and please dont let her go back.
BUT if she ever HAS to just think back to that post.
im just trying to help.
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Old Feb 04, 2014, 07:52 PM
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I'm trying to eat properly and regularly. I added some new foods such as nuts and more fish to my diet. I'm a picky eater.

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I would focus on reducing sugar. I don't know if you have a sweet tooth or not, but if you do, it might help. And it can't hurt.
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yes
and please dont let her go back.
BUT if she ever HAS to just think back to that post.
im just trying to help.
I will always do what is the best thing for her. I just will never ever allow her to ever go back to Timberlawn again. That place is worthless!
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Old Feb 04, 2014, 07:52 PM
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Yes it is sad that these places are suppose to help but when there they also receive an education from other patients.
Bean goes back to the same hospotal every time.
Four Winds Hospital here un upstate ny.
Park like setting, each little brown house is specific for age so kids are not allowed around others not their age. About 20 kids at a time and very strict.
Still....when there, you are not well so anything can happen.

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Old Feb 04, 2014, 07:53 PM
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I will always do what is the best thing for her. I just will never ever allow her to ever go back to Timberlawn again. That place is worthless!

i agree!
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Old Feb 04, 2014, 07:55 PM
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Bean goes back to the same hospotal every time.
Four Winds Hospital here un upstate ny.
Park like setting, each little brown house is specific for age so kids are not allowed around others not their age. About 20 kids at a time and very strict.
Still....when there, you are not well so anything can happen.

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That place sounds pretty nice. I hope it is helpful and Bean is able to receive the proper services she needs when there. And most importantly I hope there is good staff there that watches over her and protects her from others.
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anyone notice how mental hosptial names are named after earthy elements? four winds. green oaks. timberlawn. etc
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Old Feb 04, 2014, 07:56 PM
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Yes it is sad that these places are suppose to help but when there they also receive an education from other patients.
This makes me wonder if patients are getting misdiagnosed with disorders that have SI as part of their diagnostic criteria. For many people SI and the other behaviors are a phase they go through to cope with an overwhelming situation. I know for me it was.

I know for certain that if I did not start cutting, I would not have been diagnosed with a PD. I have autism spectrum disorder which can be easily mistaken for a PD (at a superficial level).
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Old Feb 04, 2014, 07:57 PM
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This makes me wonder if patients are getting misdiagnosed with disorders that have SI as part of their diagnostic criteria. For many people SI and the other behaviors are a phase they go through to cope with an overwhelming situation. I know for me it was.

I know for certain that if I did not start cutting, I would not have been diagnosed with a PD. I have autism spectrum disorder which can be easily mistaken for a PD.
SI can be considered a depressive state. which may be why im schizoaffective right now instead of being schizophrenia. i used to be diagnosed with paranoid schizophrenia. not too long ago. last year.
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Old Feb 04, 2014, 07:58 PM
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This makes me wonder if patients are getting misdiagnosed with disorders that have SI as part of their diagnostic criteria. For many people SI and the other behaviors are a phase they go through to cope with an overwhelming situation. I know for me it was.

I know for certain that if I did not start cutting, I would not have been diagnosed with a PD. I have autism spectrum disorder which can be easily mistaken for a PD.
That is a very good point. I bet there is a lot of misdiagnosing going on.
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anyone notice how mental hosptial names are named after earthy elements? four winds. green oaks. timberlawn. etc
Yes I see that now. I wonder if they think the name is suppose to help a person feel better? LOL!
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Old Feb 04, 2014, 08:02 PM
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oh cuz we all know hospitals are like a resort
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Old Feb 04, 2014, 08:05 PM
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anyone notice how mental hosptial names are named after earthy elements? four winds. green oaks. timberlawn. etc
Those sound like names of drug rehab centres. Hospitals here usually have boring names that are based on the community they are in, heads of state and other prominent people, religion, and universities. The one I was in was called the [City name] General Hospital.
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Old Feb 04, 2014, 08:06 PM
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well some of have names like that
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What is a behavioral centre? I have seen this term used on this site.
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Old Feb 04, 2014, 08:08 PM
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What is a behavioral centre? I have seen this term used on this site.

its the same thing as a mental hospital just by a different name.

like the one i went to was Seay behavorial Health Center
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oh cuz we all know hospitals are like a resort
Yeah that's the lie they want us to believe! LOL
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