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#51
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Japan scares me in every single way.
My worst fetish is probably knife play. |
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I know with knife play some people get off on the percieved fear. Others on the sensation of the cold steel touching them. There's also some skillful cutting as well I believe? It's not an area I know much about tbh. Being suspended by flesh hooks can look quite cool, it actually hurts more pushing things through the skin from the inside than from the outside. Not that I've used flesh hooks. I've played with needles and pins a bit though ![]() |
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Anime porn is stupid. It's a cartoon, not a real person.
I like the touch of cold steel. I like the sting. Things like kissing her while she cuts my leg. |
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I like Anime Porn
![]() Phreak-husband doesn't want to go for counseling because as far as he is concerned i am the one with mental problems. But thank you. Just taking it a day at a time. One day it will probably come out. And i do verbalize well, am rather capable of getting my point out without being hurtful. So, when that day comes, i will handle it as well as possible. |
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I just don't get animated porn I guess. It's paint and paper. Not human flesh you'd actually want to touch.
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#56
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I like porn in books too though, erotic stories, imagery.. can't really touch that either
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Clearly it's not you, it's both of you, but guys like being needed. Also you're luring him under the guise of sorting yourself out to make him happier. I guess it's true about people with BPD we do know how to manipulate ![]() Ultinately you can only bang your head against a wall so much before getting bored and giving up ![]() |
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Know thy enemy, play to thy adversaries weakness. After all you'd already tried the proper way of doing things - honest, direct discussion. Oh and you're welcome ![]() |
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oh good a new thread on this.
I'm in the lifestyle and have been for about 5 years. Haven't played alot lately, but I was dealing with much bigger issues. I'm a practicing SadoMasochist Bottom. But I do switch it up quite a bit and I'm naturally dominant. I love to relax and let someone else do the flogging and provide the sensations. Recently told my therapist about my proclivities. This is the first therapist I've ever revealed that part of my life to. It was very insightful. I was not, nor did I expect to be judged for it. I think its a fabulous part of my sexuality. And I think it's likely the same for most who are in the BDSM community. As long as it is part of a balanced life, I don't see an issue. |
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How can you tell if a guy is submissive/dominant sexually without asking them? I mean, guys like to play the 20 question game with me and they ask about my fantasies, but so far I've gotten mixed responses when I talk about Nazi fetishes (some like it, others don't really care), and I haven't even mentioned strap-on fantasies yet. How do you even bring that up?
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My gf had a strapon from her previous relationship with a girl that she'd never had chance to use (her gf cheated on her), I let her try it on me ![]() |
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I just can't see myself asking that unless *I* was drunk enough! Maybe when the relationship is solid I'll ask him. Knowing me, I think I will end up with a guy who is naturally submissive.
Or I can lubricate him the old fashioned Miss Emma way: lube him up, hold him down, and tell him to hold the f*** on! LMAO just kidding xD |
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![]() Decide yourself how important certain aspects are to you right at the start of a relationship, there's no point hoping for the best and crossing your fingers on things that you don't want to go without. Submissive men are a dime a dozen. Women acting dominant are like gold dust. Basically be picky, you can afford to be. |
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#68
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Honestly, I should probably try it, but I want a boyfriend, not just a sex partner.
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#69
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Far easier to find a bf who's into what you like. Than to find a random guy and hope he'll be up for it.
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this is hysterically funny, thanks
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You can still request a 1000 word application in addition to the questionnaire, to the extent that one might want to read more prose. The general approach is promising. |
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passive aggressive is bad news
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What is the connection between touching or being touched by unusual objects (wax, knives, etc.) and sexuality? I can see how one might enjoy the sensation of such touch, and, how one might get some sort of an interesting experience from the danger side of it, but none of it seems remotely sexual in nature.
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The mind is the most eroganos part of the body to play with. N.B. If anybody decides they want to play with candles for the first time, get special purpose made candles as they burn at lower temperatures. |
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![]() That is the only thing of all that I can understand, because I like caressing the flame of a burning candle. |
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