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Old Jul 17, 2013, 04:09 AM
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I bring this up because recently someone in my midst joked that she wanted a tattooed man with a big penis, and from that I was reminded that there is a lot of variation in that particular organ and that with that comes a lot of insecurity for a lot of men.

I wonder if there is something similar with women and their vaginas. I have only had access to the one, but the ones i've seen on film (porn) all look pretty much the same to me.

So, are you happy with your vagina?

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Old Jul 17, 2013, 04:52 AM
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Yeah I am happy with mine. I don't have to worry since I don't think I'll have it.
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Old Jul 17, 2013, 12:40 PM
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No, I'm highly self-conscious of my vagina and I don't even like touching it or tasting it. It grosses me out and I could not let another man go down on me at this point in my life.
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Old Jul 17, 2013, 01:44 PM
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I'm pretty sure porn stars ummm how to say this... have been altered and are high maintenance. Surgery, bleach, wax etc.
I can understand that... you take care of the tools of your trade.
It is an interesting question. You should google "the perfect vagina" to get an idea of how serious an issue this is to some women.
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Old Jul 17, 2013, 01:47 PM
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Considering all the controversy of how big a man's penis should be, I can't imagine what guys think of how our vaginas are supposed to look like or taste like.

I don't know the answer to that question...how AM I supposed to taste like?
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Old Jul 17, 2013, 02:36 PM
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I'm pretty sure porn stars ummm how to say this... have been altered and are high maintenance. Surgery, bleach, wax etc.
I can understand that... you take care of the tools of your trade.
It is an interesting question. You should google "the perfect vagina" to get an idea of how serious an issue this is to some women.
Tools of the trade... Hmmm...

So, in the good ole USA of mine, would this genital reconstruction be tax deductible for a porn star?

...and not all porn stars are that diligent. Last time I saw Jenna Jameson in a film, her equipment was NOT looking too good.
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Old Jul 17, 2013, 03:13 PM
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Tools of the trade... Hmmm...

So, in the good ole USA of mine, would this genital reconstruction be tax deductible for a porn star?

...and not all porn stars are that diligent. Last time I saw Jenna Jameson in a film, her equipment was NOT looking too good.
I'm pretty sure it would be tax deductible being that it's a business expense. Bleaching the **** region would be too I'd think. Not sure about breast implants but if she makes good money, has a lawyer and accountant then probably so.
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Old Jul 18, 2013, 07:45 PM
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I'm an RN. I find that there is much less variation in the way vaginas look, as opposed to penis size.

There is variation in labia color and length, but a 'gina is pretty much a 'gina.
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Old Jul 18, 2013, 07:48 PM
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I have always been completely happy with my vagina, vulva, etc., and I do not look at porn and have no idea what the industry standards are. Whatever.

I do not do oral sex these days, but back when I did, I was told that I (that is, my secretions) was (were) sweet and enchanting. It made sense to me. I also very much like my smell (and, the smell of men, too).

It is bizarre to me that women would worry about such things, because behind worrying about such things is the idea that somehow nature did not set them up correctly from the start and they need to make alterations (surgery, covering the true smell with fragrances (which are probably horrible and clearly men should be more drawn to the smell of the natural female secretions than to the smell of synthetic fragrances), piercing, bleaching, etc. etc.). It is bizarre - it shows some sort of disbelief in the wisdom of the evolutionary process. I just cannot reconcile it with my deeply held idea that the evolutionary process is good enough and I am one of the many fine enough culminations of the evolutionary process.

I can understand bleaching for the purposes of porn, as in a job requirement, though. I mean - a job is a job, and if you need to perform a surgery or something along those lines to qualify for a job, then sure some people would do that. Some people restrict their own freedom by not using drugs when they are employed at companies that mandate drug-testing, other people wear uniforms to work because they have to, etc. - same thing, sacrifices in order to keep a job.

I only like cunnilingus as an act of a man's enjoying the woman's genitals, enjoying the smell, taste, intimacy, etc. I do not like cunnilingus as a man's attempt to please the woman (nor do I orgasm from it). I simply liked being loved by a man in this very intimate fashion. It was very touching.
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Old Jul 18, 2013, 08:29 PM
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Nope, no worries here. My former BF was well endowed and high libido and he always said that I had, "snapper p*****" because it had great elasticity. Yay, me!!
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Old Jul 18, 2013, 09:05 PM
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I bring this up because recently someone in my midst joked that she wanted a tattooed man with a big penis, and from that I was reminded that there is a lot of variation in that particular organ and that with that comes a lot of insecurity for a lot of men.
The variation in the shape and size of female breasts (which are, unlike vaginas, publicly visible even when clothed) is probably a closer analogy. I think that from that standpoint, men have it easier these days - they do have insecurities, but they do not have to face those insecurities just by walking down the street - the penis is not publicly visible.
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Old Jul 18, 2013, 09:24 PM
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So... this guy is in the locker room and he notices this other guy and says, hey your gf's name is wendy too? The other guy says no mon my tattoo says Welcome to Jamaica Have a nice Day
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Old Jul 19, 2013, 12:36 AM
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Nope, no worries here. My former BF was well endowed and high libido and he always said that I had, "snapper p*****" because it had great elasticity. Yay, me!!
What were his dimensions?
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Old Jul 19, 2013, 01:37 AM
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The variation in the shape and size of female breasts (which are, unlike vaginas, publicly visible even when clothed) is probably a closer analogy. I think that from that standpoint, men have it easier these days - they do have insecurities, but they do not have to face those insecurities just by walking down the street - the penis is not publicly visible.
I think this is very true. Men might think it's difficult feeling insecure about their penis size, but women who are insecure about their breasts can't really hide their size.
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Old Jul 19, 2013, 02:02 AM
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I think this is very true. Men might think it's difficult feeling insecure about their penis size, but women who are insecure about their breasts can't really hide their size.
Yeah, and think of this:

- how many minutes a day total is a man who is insecure about his penis ' size exposed (sexually or in locker rooms with other males)?

- how many minutes a day total is a woman who is insecure about her breast size exposed?

a huge difference
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Old Jul 19, 2013, 01:30 PM
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I'm an RN. I find that there is much less variation in the way vaginas look, as opposed to penis size.

There is variation in labia color and length, but a 'gina is pretty much a 'gina.
Huh?! I disagree with that one.
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Old Jul 19, 2013, 04:45 PM
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I'm an RN. I find that there is much less variation in the way vaginas look, as opposed to penis size.

There is variation in labia color and length, but a 'gina is pretty much a 'gina.
I disagree as well. I've seen quite a wide variety. In my opinion, there are a lot of differences both in appearance and in... well... other ways. Why I think so? Well, I'm a lesbian, and I also have a photographer friend who made a book out of pictures of different vaginas. Look at the book-- lots and lots of variation!
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Old Jul 19, 2013, 07:05 PM
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I think this is very true. Men might think it's difficult feeling insecure about their penis size, but women who are insecure about their breasts can't really hide their size.
The thing is, if a man doesn't like small breasts, he won't approach a woman with small breasts. A woman could really like a man but not know his penis size until it's revealed. She could then reject him based on his size and that could really hurt him. A woman doesn't have that problem because a man that doesn't like small breasts isn't going to approach a woman and say " hey, I find you unattractive because your breasts are small " unless he was an insensitive ***.

Also, penis size can often coincide with vaginal orgasms. A man can have an orgasm inside a vagina, it doesn't matter how big or small her breasts are. Also, at least a woman knows there is surgery out there to increase breast size. There's not much if anything you can do except get minimal penis size gain by surgery. So men are stuck with a small penis, women at least know there is a solution to small breast. But many men don't even care about breast size like myself anyway. But many women do care about penis size.
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Old Jul 19, 2013, 07:18 PM
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The thing is, if a man doesn't like small breasts, he won't approach a woman with small breasts.
...and that might be enough for that woman to feel inadequate ..
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Old Jul 19, 2013, 08:07 PM
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PS women size each other up. So it is no consolation that men would not approach women to just opine negatively on their breast size - it is also the dynamic between women that is important. My understanding is that the complaints about treatment of less-endowed men in locker rooms report the same thing - people of the same gender size each other up, sometimes forming unfavorable judgments, and it hurts less endowed people, regardless of the amount of attention they are getting from the opposite sex.
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Old Jul 19, 2013, 08:36 PM
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...and that might be enough for that woman to feel inadequate ..
But she won't know.

It's a bit like a women not finding bald men attractive. Unless she tells him so, no harm done. With penis size it's different, because the woman could really like the guy looks wise and personality wise, but when he pulls down his pants that could be the dealbreaker and he will know why.
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Old Jul 19, 2013, 09:27 PM
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What were his dimensions?
About ten inches erect; never measured circumference but we were a good match. Although sometimes after prolonged love making I would find myself sore when I would sit down. Ahhhh the good old days........
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I've never given it a thought until now but, I'm stoked with mine. It's pushed out two babies just the way it's supposed to
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Nope, no worries here. My former BF was well endowed and high libido and he always said that I had, "snapper p*****" because it had great elasticity. Yay, me!!


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So... this guy is in the locker room and he notices this other guy and says, hey your gf's name is wendy too? The other guy says no mon my tattoo says Welcome to Jamaica Have a nice Day
I hate it when I think I get a joke but I'm not quiiite sure
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Old Jul 19, 2013, 10:26 PM
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About ten inches erect; never measured circumference but we were a good match. Although sometimes after prolonged love making I would find myself sore when I would sit down. Ahhhh the good old days........
That sounds pretty good. How old were you guys then?
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