It's your fault.
You deserve this.
You're weak and this is your punishment.
Stupid kids like you need this.
This is all because of you.
You're the reason why.
You're a worthless pig.
All kids have this happen to them, it's normal.
You don't matter, no one cares about you.
You're crying, that means you don't deserve to live.
I bet when you grow up you'll be just like me.
You're a coward.


I was just a kid.
But I think they were right.
Stupid worthless me dragging the few people who like me down
Deserved it all. Maybe it was my fault. Who am I kidding when I try to tell myself it's not.

[Fuzzybear]

((((((((((((( griffe ))))))))))))))
the old tapes are completely, utterly wrong.
but I know how you feel because I have them too

[tigersassy]

we have them also vince, they make Tig hurt lots when she listens to them. sometimes she really does hear them now though. we are trying to get her someplace where she won't have to listen to them and she can make new old tapes... maybe you should try vince. any time anyone says anything bad about you you can change it to a good thing such as "you deserved that" you can change that to "no one deserved that and they just misunderstood my actions" does that make sense? if it doesn't let me know my name is selena hope you can do something that Tig is struggling with cause if someone else can do it then i think that she might see it's worth fighting for the change instead of continuing to give up like she is

[Blue93]

((((((((((vince))))))))))
it is NOT your fault
and we WILL keep saying this until you are ready to believe it yourself

blue

Griffe .... does the last post remind you of anything, love you sweetie, we will all keep telling you until you believe it ....

those old tapes are out of date, wrong, lies and you mustn't listen any longer .... look to the future ... we will all help you

hugs, Jinny xoxoxoxoxoxoxo

Thanks everyone. Sorry to be stupid.

Thanks Selena for the suggestion, but for me to turn around and say it wasn't my fault I'd have to believe it wasn't...

Keep hearing it all... over and over... telling me how worthless I am... how stupid I am... how I deserved what they did to me... how no one cares. They made me into this dumb unlovable hated coward that I am. Or maybe I made myself into that

Old tapes are always there... always reminding me. Keep seeing so much in my head... can't get it out. Keep seeing the horror... keep reminding me of things

That I'm stupid.
That I'm hated.
That I'm a burden.
That I deserved it.
That I'm all to blame.
That I'm pathetic.
That I'll never amount to anything.

[bchlyn]

griff those are the lies your abuser filled your head worth... try and replace them with the truth... even if you don't believe it... if you tell yourself the truth enough you will replace the lies...

it's your fault... the truth is it isn't your fault it's your abusers
your weak and this is your punishment _______________

your really brave to be able to write out the lies... lyn

[Fuzzybear]

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griff those are the lies your abuser filled your head worth... try and replace them with the truth... even if you don't believe it... if you tell yourself the truth enough you will replace the lies...

it's your fault... the truth is it isn't your fault it's your abusers
your weak and this is your punishment _______________

your really brave to be able to write out the lies... lyn

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[Merlin]

You are responsible for your actions and yours alone. No one deserves abuse, not as a child, not as an adult. You do not have to do anything to be of worth. And sometimes time most courageous thing you can do is to live.

You are smart
You are well loved and like - we all love you, so does kate, the twins etc.
You are a bonus, not a burden.
You didn't deserve ANY of it, you deserve to be happy
NONE of it is your fault
You're brilliant
You already amount to so so much

Stupid stupid stupid stupid stupid.


Head ache from hearing it too much.
So hard to imagine that it's not true when you hear it so much.