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#1
May 14, 2008, 09:30 PM
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I was abused by my step-dad ages 5-7 (possibly younger), my male babysitter ages 8-10, and my older brother at age 8.
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#2
May 14, 2008, 09:59 PM
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my best male friend (age12)
his best friend (6months later) The first one's brother (age 13)
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#3
May 14, 2008, 10:15 PM
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Physically, mentally and Emotionally - Step mother from age 3-12
Sexually by her father from 8-12
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May 14, 2008, 10:27 PM
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sexually:
mom 3 dad's mom 3 dad 3?-11 teacher 8 some boys 8 friend's dad 9 neighbor 12 boyfriend 18 emotionally: dad 0-27 mom 0-now boyfriend 18 dad's mom 6- 28 physically: same as emotionally
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#5
May 15, 2008, 03:18 AM
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Sexually: Exboyfriend - 18-20 years old.
Emotionally: Exboyfriend - 18-20 years old, Family - 16 years old to present. Physically: Dad - once this year (last January), but it was traumatic. I'm 20. To everyone who has suffered any form of abuse, may we all get by our sad days. ;] <font color="purple">Clandestine</font> |
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#6
May 15, 2008, 07:07 AM
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Sexually:
Dad (since I was really young until just before I turned 10) Dad's dealer (?-7) Priest (7) Door-to-door salesmen (7) Doctors (7, 14) Half-brother (10-18) Half-brother's buddies (10-12?) Friend (Recent) Friend's friend (recent) Physically: Dad Dad's dealer Priest Half-brother/his friends Sports coach Friend/friend's friend |
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#7
May 15, 2008, 08:14 AM
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this is hard
sexually abused cousin ? - 16 others brother used to watch me ? _ 16 emotionaly both brothers ? - 16 cousin and his sister ? - 14 peers 11 - 16 there might be other stuff but its shut away
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#8
May 15, 2008, 08:20 AM
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I forgot to add in, but there's this stranger at the moviehouse who abused me sexually. I was 14 then. ;[
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May 15, 2008, 08:37 AM
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emotionally ...... from when i could understand, talk to last year by my mother.
sexually by my mother a couple of times 8 and around 13/14 sexually by my mothers pdoc from 8 - 15/16 he also hypnotised me, emotionally abused me and used emotional blackmail all the time. sometimes emotionally abused by my dad but not to the extent of the above and he sure didn't mean it .... just his way, he's always been there in times of trouble for me apart from the sexual abuse which he didn't know about. Jinny xx |
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#10
May 15, 2008, 08:57 AM
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babysitter and his friend 5-9 molested, physical
dad ?-10 molested mom's boy friend 7-11, 15-17 sexual relationship unable to say no. great grandmother 7 molested date 19 date rape (violent) husband 21-30 sexual abuse, verbal abuse, physical abuse, rape, sodomy various drunk family members and friends of family ?-12 molest, rape self 7-51 cutting, food, hair pulling, scratching, scalding
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May 15, 2008, 12:48 PM
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"this is hard "
yeah, it really is - take care of you . i really triggered from it too.... stay safe
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#12
May 15, 2008, 12:50 PM
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((((((((((((((((((((all))))))))))))))))
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May 15, 2008, 02:35 PM
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yeah.. hard for sure
Even if it's all in the past parents s.abuse (5/6 - 14) physicall abuse, neglect etc - until we where placed in fostercare august last year S.abuse & physical abuse many people father brought home or at 'parties' (6/7 - 14) fosterparents - 14 (including blindness in 1 eye) boy 17 years who lived at same fosterfamily at the time - 14 pfooh.. I've been staring at this for a couple of minutes now so I'm gonna hit reply before I erase it all again
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#14
May 15, 2008, 08:13 PM
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"pfooh.. I've been staring at this for a couple of minutes now so I'm gonna hit reply before I erase it all again "
exactly. (((((blue))))
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May 15, 2008, 10:55 PM
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I'm sorry , I had no intention of triggering anyone.
I am new here and was just wondering if there were people on board who had experienced abuse by those very close to them. I should have placed a trigger warning, I apologise. Hanging on
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May 16, 2008, 12:06 AM
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stepmother:emotionally and im not sure physically
self: cutting, scratching and using tattoos and piercings for pain
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#17
May 16, 2008, 12:09 AM
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yeah, you can add a trigger label, but it was my choice to enter the thread =) it was pretty clear from the title. plus, you can mouse over the title lines and it will give a preview of the post - i had fair warning - my choices are my own. I have been in this state of a lot of things coming up and i read this knowing what th effects would be. no worries!
</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font> hangingon said: I'm sorry , I had no intention of triggering anyone. I am new here and was just wondering if there were people on board who had experienced abuse by those very close to them. I should have placed a trigger warning, I apologise. Hanging on </div></font></blockquote><font class="post">
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May 16, 2008, 08:27 AM
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yeah, no worries
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May 16, 2008, 09:31 AM
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parents, ex husband, son
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#20
May 16, 2008, 10:09 AM
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I should add that my mom and step-dad were also drug addicts and alcoholics.
My mom was emotionally abusive, neglect etc...and my step-dad was physically, sexually, and emotionally abusive. It landed myself and my siblings in foster homes twice. Their lifestyles have changed and they no longer drink or do drugs, but my mom still can't accept the fact that I am in counseling, she says that its the past and I should leave it there. That affects me alot ,as I feel she is still so unsupportive, I have pretty much given up and accepted the fact that she is never going to be the mom I wished her to be....... My step-dad is still married to her but he and I have no relationship whatsoever, apart from a simple hi when I see him... Hanging on
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May 16, 2008, 01:03 PM
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...my dad totally denies everything. well, i didn't even hve words for the sa that was going on. my mom kept asking me if anyone ever touched me wrong or anything - i just shook my head. besides, through all that i was zoned out of my body - completely left it - so i didn't know what to tell her. it was a seperate life - one my dad created and told me didn't exist after each time. seems like everyone knew but me. and yet, everyone's still in denial about it. so i never reported. no one ever did. now, he can't understand why i don't talk to him.
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#22
May 16, 2008, 11:20 PM
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my mom didn't protect
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#23
May 17, 2008, 11:25 PM
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((((((((((lyn)))))))))))))))
aye... my mom.... *cries*... she asked me all the time who touched me... but *SHE* did when i was 3. She was one of the first ppl to do so. our boundaries are so emmeshed and messed up.
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#24
May 18, 2008, 01:25 AM
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sexually, mentally, physically, cult,
my dad's mom and her 5th husband from age 3 - 16 any man, woman, that wanted me to things for them, then married at 19 and sexually and physicall for almost 20 years till i divorced. |
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#25
May 18, 2008, 02:29 AM
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For me it is easier to answer....... Who Did NOT Abuse YOU.
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