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Old Jun 28, 2014, 01:29 PM
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Anyone have any tips on how to orgasam more than once during any given time? I've heard of women being able to do it, but not sure how...

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Old Jun 28, 2014, 07:00 PM
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Ive done it a few times. I was awesome!!! I had a hard tine getting my Knees to coordinate with me with I needed to get up. LOL

How did I do it. Ummmm luck!? I was told doing planks are suppose to be good. I do some when I work out. Ben Wa Balls help strengthens the pelvic muscles. Have you tried those?
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Old Jun 30, 2014, 06:01 AM
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I would suggest clitoral stimulation for your 1st orgasm, then regular penetration with your partner (or sex toy) depending on if you are single or not to achieve your 2nd orgasm.
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Old Jun 30, 2014, 04:09 PM
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At times hubby will insert fingers inside me and work my G spot and I work my clit with my finger or a mini vibe (Vibe my favorite) Give it time and it will rock your world. Then hopefully you will get another one through intercourse.
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Old Jul 15, 2014, 03:36 PM
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Okay, Im going to try to be sensitive here, but are you saying that you only have one orgasm the WHOLE time you are having sex? Like a guy does?
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Old Dec 20, 2014, 08:59 PM
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During sex or during masturbation?
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Old Dec 23, 2014, 05:34 PM
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Yup only once. If I'm lucky, during sex
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Old Dec 23, 2014, 08:38 PM
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There is a book called Sex for One that is really good at helping women and men, but more so women learn about masturbating and pleasing themselves. Once you read the book and play, literally play with yourself, you will have multiple orgasms, very long orgasms and whomever you choose to share that experience with is going to love it. Don't be afraid to buy some toys. Vibrators and dildos are great. Try one penetrating and one for clitoral stimulation...you will flush all over. Yikes!!
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Old Dec 23, 2014, 10:35 PM
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Okay, Im going to try to be sensitive here, but are you saying that you only have one orgasm the WHOLE time you are having sex? Like a guy does?
That's not an accurate portrayal of everyone's experience. My guy has multiple orgasms usually. Because of my sexual issues, I've never had one. I'm not completely convinced it's possible to have ONE with a partner, let alone multiple. I guess most women orgasm super easily then? Maybe some of us physically can't orgasm more than once no matter what we try (I think I've been able to orgasm twice in a day on my own but they had to be separated by multiple hours). Sorry I'm not all that helpful, but don't forget how lucky you are to even get one orgasm with a partner. P.S., I hope you figure it out though…I'm sure your body is normal, unlike mine.
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Iv have had multiple one with partners but by myself I am lucky to get one. Which is sad I know.
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Wow. Multiple orgasms. I can only dream of doing that.

When I was with my ex, I never orgasmed during sex. I think the only time I orgasmed for him was when he preformed oral on me, and only one time. I think it made him feel....less than happy as he could never sasisfy me in that way. Maybe a contributing factor as to why he and I broke up. I dunno.

On a related note, any tips to a gspot orgasm while masturbating? I want to experience a new level of pleasure as I'm kind of getting tired of the same old clitoral stimulations and orgasm via my vibes.
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Old Jan 15, 2015, 05:47 AM
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I've had multiples but I think that trying to will decrease the likelihood of it happening.

Also, it might be a hormone thing. When I was pregnant, I could only have one and then I was done. I was fine with that because that's what my body wants at the time.
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Old Jan 15, 2015, 09:19 PM
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doggioo believe it depends who and how your are making out. It is very pleasurable to have more than one as a female.... not always necessary. Often one is enough and depends how strong they are. As long as you make her happy... you should be fine.
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Old Jan 16, 2015, 11:57 AM
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I cannot remember the last time that I had a "real" orgasm! With a toy, I might get some of the build-up, but never get to the O. I cannot do it with my husband either...he does what he needs to do for himself then takes a shower.

I think this is in part due to my first child. Labor over 12 hours, she was 10lb 2oz and the doc was not expecting it, no episiotomy, torn from stem to stern. The doctor apparently thought that my labia was too large and while repairing the damage cut lots away. I never healed. At 9 months out he did a repair surgery. My body healed, but my clitoris is very difficult to find now and I just don't get the sensations that I used to.

But I know it is not completely impossible. I do tend to dream about having them...
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Old Jan 18, 2015, 08:12 PM
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I cannot remember the last time that I had a "real" orgasm! With a toy, I might get some of the build-up, but never get to the O. I cannot do it with my husband either...he does what he needs to do for himself then takes a shower.

I think this is in part due to my first child. Labor over 12 hours, she was 10lb 2oz and the doc was not expecting it, no episiotomy, torn from stem to stern. The doctor apparently thought that my labia was too large and while repairing the damage cut lots away. I never healed. At 9 months out he did a repair surgery. My body healed, but my clitoris is very difficult to find now and I just don't get the sensations that I used to.

But I know it is not completely impossible. I do tend to dream about having them...
Are you on any medication? I went two years with this problem before I figured out it was my birth control pills. Got a copper iud. There were some anti depressants I switched off of for the same reason.
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Old Jan 21, 2015, 07:34 PM
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I do take many medications and have no doubt that they play a role in it. But my desire and sexual appetite have not been affected at all. It is simply that I need to have one so badly, I need that release.
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Old Jan 27, 2015, 10:41 PM
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Doggiedo,

When you say multiple orgasms do you mean a chain of orgasms or multiple orgasms within a single session/short time span?

I think if you can have one you can have multiple in a session. As others have said, it helps to stimulate differently/space it out so you're not tiring out any particular area. Try lots of toys! Many are pretty inexpensive on Amazon and you don't have to deal with the embarrassment of going to a store (it's also worth going on Amazon just to read through the reviews…people go into all kinds of details). Then you can have fun trying them out.
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