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Old Jun 03, 2008, 08:13 PM
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I had a weird mental breakdown, I am now terrified of strangers.. Like unbelievable runaway adrenaline reaction, I get panic attacks at the thought of crowds of people > 5 people.. It is starting to become debilitating and I am afraid it will destroy my relationships.

I need some coping resources, can anybody with a similar experience please please help. Things are getting bad, I don't know what to do.

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Old Jun 03, 2008, 09:54 PM
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Hi ((((((((((CosmicPlatypus)))))))))))))))

It sounds like really bad anxiety. Have you managed to get yourself a therapist or a pdoc (psychiatrist)?

I don't like crowds of people, but I can manage in smaller groups for periods of time.
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Old Jun 03, 2008, 10:03 PM
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I had one in hospital (Checked in for crisis situation), I've never really suffered from anxiety before, this is really scary. Everyone seems like a threat , I'm beginning to feel that way towards people that I know as well. It feels like the world that feels safe for me is getting smaller and smaller and smaller. I have a pending referral for a new pdoc..
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Old Jun 04, 2008, 06:22 AM
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Yes, I definitely agree with Christina. Heightened anxiety is a horrible horrible thing to have to deal with. A Pdoc and/or therapist are good recommendations.

Take care,

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Old Jun 04, 2008, 09:13 AM
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(((cosmicplatypus)))

i think your heading in the right direction with professional help to guide you in solving this problem.

the best to you.

peace and calm,
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Old Jun 04, 2008, 06:24 PM
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CosmicPlatypus, I struggle with social anxiety. I do a lot of self talk and try to remember to breath. I also don't force myself into situations where I might have a problem. If I am feeling strong I will go socialize, if not, I give myself permission to relax. Take some time and try to relax and work on healing--hopefully your pdoc can offer some guidance.
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Old Jun 05, 2008, 04:36 PM
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I am not afraid of social situations, but sometimes when i go to the store to buy hair dye or makeup, i will wear sunglasses because i feel like guys are looking at me. It doesnt prevent me from going out, but, i dont know how to describe it, its weird.
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Old Jun 07, 2008, 07:43 PM
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Hey? Your not alone...I have to look around because I think people are watching me...I get all nervous and everything get's quite...My heart starts to race and the only thing in my mind is to get out the situation you know? Zoloft did wonders for me; If I were you I'd give it a try...
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Old Jun 12, 2008, 10:46 PM
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Thanks for the advice.
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Old Jun 19, 2008, 04:05 PM
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I, too, am panicky even at the thought of having to "deal" with people. I have more of a problem getting there and then it is better. It HAS kept me home, though. and getting help early is the best thing! I really wish I had then! good luck
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I live this life, the only thing I can tell is you is Seroquel is a miracle drug for me in this situation. Xanax and those type of drugs helped me cope, but not function. I still don't enjoy going out into society, but I am able to now and actually function. The longer you stay home insulated, the harder it becomes to leave.
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Old Jun 24, 2008, 09:26 PM
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I'm so sorry you're going through this. I also would get very panicky in social situations. I always felt I had to run (literally) from situations where I felt I was 'trapped' with people that I didn't know.
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