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Old May 06, 2020, 08:57 PM
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I want to ask that the Moderators please not move this thread as this forum is my home on PC and I need support of friends.. Thank you.

My husband has been ill almost 3 weeks now we tried an antibiotic and it wasnt helping, So chest xray, labs and sputum culture, started a new antibiotic while we waited on culture to grow out.. Well 3 days later another antibiotic based off what the culture grew out...

He has Stenotrophomonas ( Pseudomonas) Maltophillia an aerobic Gram-negative bacillus.

No idea how he caught this.. Its mainly something you catch in the hospital by way of irrigation solutions, IV fluids, medical implants or Aquatic enviroments ... Which he has had none of these since last August while in the hospital. This is not something that just lingers in the body and pops up months later.

I ran by the Oxygen company we use and picked up doubles of Oxygen tubing and nebulzing cups and tubes. They will be cleaned daily and changed out..

He is now on Oxygen fulltime not just at night as his oxygen level is far to low. He is beyond exhausted. Hes awake for me to feed him, Make sure he takes his meds, Nebulizes and I wake him every 2 hours to keep him pushing fluids at a minimum of at least a gallon a day.

Vital signs every 4 hours around the clock.

We see our Doctor again on Monday unless he spikes a temp or his breathing gets worse while using oxygen 24/7 ...

This is a nightmare.
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Old May 06, 2020, 08:59 PM
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Old May 06, 2020, 09:05 PM
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I am very sorry to hear that, Christina.

I hope your husband gets better soon. His situation sounds immensely stressful on the both of you.

For what it's worth, I think you've been doing an excellent job of hanging in there for the past 3 weeks, especially given your own stressors brought about by chronic pain flare ups and COVID-19. You're very caring and selfless, and your husband and family are very lucky to have you and your supportive care. Best wishes.
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Old May 06, 2020, 09:08 PM
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Old May 06, 2020, 09:09 PM
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Christina, that sounds so horrible! Sending positive thoughts and strong wishes of healing to your husband. Sending hugs to you to stay strong during this great challenge, as well. You are clearly a wonderful wife (and nurse) who loves your husband very much. He is lucky to have you! If at all possible, please find some little time for you to relax during this stress. We care very much about you here and know that your husband wants you well, as well.
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Old May 06, 2020, 09:32 PM
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Thanks Everyone for the support and kind words, they truly mean alot.. He just has to be okay and get better, He HAS too...
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Old May 06, 2020, 09:33 PM
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Thoughts and prayers. It sounds really stressful.
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Old May 06, 2020, 09:34 PM
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Oh, my. I'm so sorry. I will certainly pray--and wish you both well.
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Old May 06, 2020, 09:42 PM
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Old May 06, 2020, 09:44 PM
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Old May 06, 2020, 09:59 PM
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I'm sorry that your husband is so ill. You are doing a phenomenal job taking care of him these past few weeks. Major ((HUGS))
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Old May 06, 2020, 10:34 PM
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Oh sweetie!!!! How horrible and stressful! And you are being an amazing trooper with all that is going on. You both will be in my thoughts. I fervently hope the situation improves. And soon!!
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My prayers and thoughts are with you both! Hopefully, he will recover soon. Please don't forget to take care of yourself too!!
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Old May 07, 2020, 09:26 AM
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You both must feel exhausted. I am sending you loving vibes and high hopes for your husband's recovery. Please Christina, take care of yourself, too
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Old May 07, 2020, 12:35 PM
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Hugs and LOVE and Prayers.

I am here for you anytime and in any way in which I can help.

It's beyond time for you AND Steve get a long well-deserved break.

Love and healing for both of you!

Truly, there are no words, yet I am trying to find some which might approximate my thoughts and feelings.
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Old May 07, 2020, 02:47 PM
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How is Steve doing today? What about yourself?
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Oh my god I’m so sorry! I hope he gets better ASAP! We live you on here so much! Please don’t worry about coming on here and responding to everyone unless you want to as a distraction. I truly hope everything turns out ok.

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Old May 07, 2020, 04:56 PM
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I want to Thank each and everyone for such Support and Well wishes..

He is not worse today so I am grateful. His vitals are stable and no Temp, He is on Oxygen 24/7 right now....This is going to be a long haul to recover from.. I just have no idea where this has come from...

I am using every distraction that I can think of.

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