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Old Aug 23, 2013, 04:21 PM
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Old Aug 23, 2013, 05:00 PM
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Old Aug 23, 2013, 07:32 PM
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when it feels like the world has ended because someone (seems to be) ignoring you. Just wish I didn't care a less. People can be so horrid sometimes. Especially when it's not deserved. Like I haven't had enough going on today.
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Old Aug 25, 2013, 08:18 PM
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When you yell at someone who is getting ready to leave about something they said to you. As they're leaving you're overwhelmed by feeling more closely resembling sorrow or regret at their leaving. They see it and misinterpret it as the anger and the anger instantly comes back. Sigh....
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Old Aug 25, 2013, 08:21 PM
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When you remember things happening completely different then other people remember the same incident.
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Old Aug 25, 2013, 08:28 PM
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When you remember things happening completely different then other people remember the same incident.
Do not let them invalidate you! You remember it different because emotions were probably close to the surface and we tend to misinterpret people's intentions/facial expressions, etc. It doesn't mean you're stupid, not observant, "out to get people", forgetful, not paying attention or whatever people might tell you. No two people remember an event the exact same way....and how you saw it was your way....
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Old Aug 25, 2013, 08:33 PM
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when it feels like the world has ended because someone (seems to be) ignoring you. Just wish I didn't care a less. People can be so horrid sometimes. Especially when it's not deserved. Like I haven't had enough going on today.
I also have gigantic issues with being ignored.... You're not alone there.
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Old Aug 25, 2013, 10:23 PM
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When you take offense over simple things and feel a ridiculous amount of anger from it.
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Old Aug 26, 2013, 10:30 AM
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when someone continues to ignore you and the upset turns into anger
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Old Aug 26, 2013, 03:03 PM
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When you feel severe anxiety every time you log on PC....
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Old Aug 26, 2013, 05:38 PM
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when someone continues to ignore you and the upset turns into anger

I really understand how you feel. I don't like being ignored and when I am, even if its for a little while, I cant control that my emotions always turn to anger. I feel panicky at first and then instantly anger. I'm sorry you are going through this!
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Old Aug 27, 2013, 11:06 AM
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When you want the ppl who you dislike to like you
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Old Aug 27, 2013, 11:34 AM
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I really understand how you feel. I don't like being ignored and when I am, even if its for a little while, I cant control that my emotions always turn to anger. I feel panicky at first and then instantly anger. I'm sorry you are going through this!
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Old Aug 27, 2013, 12:48 PM
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When you have a really good one to place here that really fits how you feel at the moment, but are too paranoid to put it down.
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Old Aug 27, 2013, 12:49 PM
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When you have a really good one to place here that really fits how you feel at the moment, but are too paranoid to put it down.


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Old Aug 27, 2013, 12:51 PM
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When you write a positive thread for a change and receive almost no responses and are too paranoid to bump it back to the top, so even though people have been nice and responded in the past, you take that one time as proof that you're out of place here. Sigh....
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Old Aug 27, 2013, 01:01 PM
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When you write a positive thread for a change and receive almost no responses and are too paranoid to bump it back to the top, so even though people have been nice and responded in the past, you take that one time as proof that you're out of place here. Sigh....
Awww no! ((((((Maranara))))))) I think some posts get pushed to the bottom quickly and just gets missed! I am sure it is nothing personal
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Old Aug 27, 2013, 01:02 PM
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Awww no! ((((((Maranara))))))) I think some posts get pushed to the bottom quickly and just gets missed! I am sure it is nothing personal
I'm sure it isn't but it's just one of those things. Nothing like feeling ignored, regardless of the circumstances.
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Old Aug 27, 2013, 01:06 PM
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I'm sure it isn't but it's just one of those things. Nothing like feeling ignored, regardless of the circumstances.
I sooooo understand...been having my own being ignored situation lol quikly realising its them with the problem though lol

Sorry you feel this way

Also I think sometimes ppl struggle with what to say but I guess a simple sentence of acknowledgement wouldn't go a miss!
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Old Aug 27, 2013, 11:02 PM
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When you kept being drawn back to the BPD forum even though it gives you extreme anxiety and you know your mood can change in an instant with one misplaced or misinterpreted comment, but you keep coming back anyway because it's the only place you feel accepted.
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Old Aug 27, 2013, 11:09 PM
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When you have a million responses to an online forum titled "You know you're borderline when..." but become paralyzed with fear and indecision about whether to post, what to post, etc. because you're sure everyone will judge/reject/abandon you for whatever you DO post
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Old Aug 28, 2013, 07:44 AM
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You have no solid plans for the future, goal setting is nothing more than a broken dream and you feel so empty that nothing can fill the void.
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