[eyesclosed]

here we go im pissed my divorce attorney said if we can't agree to not include my ex to be wife's house she sold to her daughter then she would no longer represent me i said bye. she lived in my house ten years and never paid a bill.

The pejorative 'crazy' is considered inappropriate in a psychiatric support forum; please substitute a more sensitive descriptor, like 'differently sane'.

[Artchic528]

Originally Posted by Lefty the Salesman

The pejorative 'crazy' is considered inappropriate in a psychiatric support forum; please substitute a more sensitive descriptor, like 'differently sane'.

I think "sanity challenged" is more appropriate.

Unfortunately, the law is not always interpretted as being in our favour. It is likely you will receive the same advice from other counsel. My advice would be to listen to all that the lawyer has to tell you while asking them to explain those things that trouble you with it. Make sure they also explain to you the likely legal tactics your ex's own attourney would be counseling her. Remember, your lawyer would be in their job if they didn't know what they are doing. Again, calmly ask s/he to explain that which troubles you. Also, remember you are not alone. I think most people in a breakup find the legal system to be not on their side.

[eyesclosed]

I have to tell u more, this was a pro- bono lawyer or attorney, I live a no fault divorce state no kids ten years of passive aggressive narcsists abuse she also has 2 accounts she opened while we were married One of them id a cd with her mother as power of attorney her mother works at a highly regarded law firm and is a tax expert I'm thinking it has some kind of tax issue I don't even want to look at our taxes she done them every year and also her ex husband lived with her daughter I would probly say the rent he paid her was never recorded as income this is just a a bad situation and they want me to let it go. I'm getting a atty a real one

[TishaBuv]

How did she sell the house to her daughter without you signing to agree to sell?

Gawd Lefty....
Thank you so much for this!

OP I have the same question as Tisha.
And please forgive me because I hear how distraught you are, but your posts are a little tough to read.
I am confused, but it may just be me.

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I see what your saying let me clarify, this house was owned by my- ex wife to be she was divorced I was divorced so when we got married we moved her into my house and rented her house to her daughter she eventually sold it to her daughter for $30,000 the deed was in her name so I wouldn't have to sign anything because we were married it is now marital property. Her ex husband lived there also with her daughter, I later found out that he lived there while we were dating. I knew she sold the house to her and he lived there they had a few dates while we were married. U lefty never made a mistake in your life u feel like a real big shot kick me out bigshot

Do I understand this that your name was never on the house? In the laws here that would not be considered marital property. Nether would it be herre if it was shown you had made no payments or investment into it. Your name has to be on things for a division of those assets to be made.

I'm pretty sure most lawyers provide a free consultation. It would be wise I think to see another for their own opinion. In order to make the most use of their time take with you as much documentation as you have.

Also, is your marriage a common law relationship? Rules differ from place to place when it comes to time cohabitating and entitlements within the relationship. In some places while the union is legal it has limitations (I really got kicked in the teeth with respect to this despite 16 years together).

I get how distraught you are, eyesclosed. I can clearly read it.

I am not speaking from any personal experience here so, FWIW.

The law is not the same as what may seem right. Sadly, we all have to lead our lives by what the laws are. Even if we don't agree with them.

Divorce (I have friends who are) is very emotional. Lawyers are not. I suggest you find one you trust so that you can get through this.

Venting here is a good thing, though....

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Thanks for understanding I'm overwhelmed by 1.my divorce 2. My recovery of a abusive wife. 3. health the have made progress with no diagnosis except menieres disease in over a years time. No income filed ssd denied so appealing. Health ins after the Divorce. I'm currently on medicare hmo. WI is a no fault divorce state all assets aquired during the marriage are marital property and is 50/50 because she sold her house during our marriage she has to put it in her financial discloser the money from the saleof the house. Her name isn't on my deed to my house my house is paid off even though there was 27,000.00 left to pay when we were married It's fair market value is 57,500.00 that is what I have to put on my financial discloser so she sold her house for 30,000.00 she has to put that on the finacial discloser so thats it

Ah, thanks for the clarification.

Sometimes, life sucks so much. It's a wonder we manage to come through, really.

I wish you only the best in finding an attorney with a full knowledge of the laws. (I think you mean community/equitable property as opposed to no fault?).
Keep posting and try to take the problems one day at a time....we can all encourage you here.

Do you have a therapist to help you see clearly with all of these issues?

Originally Posted by Lefty the Salesman

The pejorative 'crazy' is considered inappropriate in a psychiatric support forum; please substitute a more sensitive descriptor, like 'differently sane'.

This was a characteristically sarcastic, flippant, and hypocritical response to the OP, which he apparently took seriously; I regularly use the politically incorrect descriptor 'crazy' in my own posts, usually to refer to myself or my own actions or circumstances. I sincerely apologize to eyesclosed.