WORTHLESS

I was told how MANY of my posts said how "worthless" I am

I wasn't aware of that?

But I am always wrong so others must be right.

So until the end of time....

Fuzzybear/J is WORTHLESS



and am not ALLOWED to say how I feel?

I am not allowed to say when I have been abused and disrespected and used and lied to and treated like a piece in a game of snakes and ladders

Then ground into the dirt

but others are

"Jo" is NOT NOT NOT worth it

Thank you for pointing it out to me.

Fuzzy, my friend

I'm sorry it hurts so much and I am sorry you feel you believe the lies others have told you. I hope you will be able to listen to the truths others of us have told you and keep telling you.
You are worthy.
You are a good friend and a good person.
You have the right to tell of your feelings, just like everyone else has.
When you feel like this, try to listen to your friends telling you how much we value you, how much we appreciate the times you have been there for us. Try to remember how you have corrected me when I have felt how you are feeling now. Try not to let the cruel or thoughtless words of others eat into you.

((((((((Fuzzy / J / Lucy ))))))))))))))

Caroline et al

((((((((((((((((fuzzy)))))))))))))))

i'm sorry you're hurting. you are worthy...period.

kd

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!! to those who are mean to you, Fuzzy!!!!!
You deserve cuddles and pampering-anything less is uncivilized.
(((((((((((((((FUZZY))))))))))))))))))))))

(((((((((Fuzzy)))))))) You are definitely NOT worthless, no matter what anything or anyone says.

Fuzzy it's inconsideate bores who are worthless, anyone who really cares would understand what your feeling and support you not try to reshape your thinking (hope I'm making sense)
Angie

(((((((((((Fuzzywuzzybear)))))))))))) Pay them no mind.

Lisa

Fuzzy, I understand that you are in pain...but you are not worthless. No one here is worthless! Although I feel the same way right now, I know I am not worthless.

Take care of you!

You are worthy and valuable to me Fuzzy.

Thanks for always cheering me up.



Petunia

((((((((((Fuzzy)))))))))))

Hi.

Wow. You are really feeling low. Try to brush the negative off of your shoulders. That's what I do when someone is belittling. me. I take my left hand and brush off my right shoulder..and then put on a smile. You don't have to stay in a bad place psychologically . Never.

Take good care!

~Dottie

My Dearest (((((((((Fuzzybear)))))))))),

Here's another way to look at it. Maybe people pointed out that you have called yourself worthless in some posts here. It sounds like they were reflecting something that you have said, not necessarily agreeing with it. Lots of us here feel worthless and call ourselves worthless. How many more people have told you that you have great worth, and we are glad to have you here to share our lives and our struggles and be our friend? Why shouldn't the message that you are worth a great deal win out above the other one?

I know, it's a lot easier to apply logic like this to other people than to yourself. But I care about you and I am glad that you are my friend. Does that count?

Love,
Rap

Hi Fuzzy...

I don't know exactly what happened... but maybe some people saw your posts and meant to say that you shouldn't think you are worthless???

Anyway no matter what they meant, I hope when you feel bad you will listen to all the people here who know you are not worthless. You are one of my favorite friends here and that alone is worth quite a lot to me. I'm sure you can safely multiply that many many times over with other friends here and elsewhere.

It is so sad how depression makes us feel and believe these negative things... so all I can say is when you are feeling bad, try as hard as you can to listen to those of us who know you are not worthless and try to remember that that is the truth.

((((FUZZY)))) you are worth bunches to me!!!

Anyone who can summon up a good growl when needed is certainly worthwhile to me!

gg

Fuzzy You are not worthless. And you are allowed to vent and have feelings. If u want to vent to me PM me. Im allways on in the afternoon and early evening. If you want my msn messanger name to talk to me any time im online pm me.

Please keep posting.

Fuzzy....
Member us talking about how sometimes people "project" what they are feeling about themselves onto others to gain some type of validation?
You my dear UK email buddy are far from worthless.
You are held very high in my regards and have saved me from slipping into a deep deep depression.
You my dear Jo are PRICELESS to me!

oh my fuzzy wuzzy honey bear.........you worthless?????..never in a million years........

Fuzzy,
What's up with this? You know you are not worthless, you mean a lot to so many people. Is depression distorting things, and making you feel like this? Then it is depression lieing to you, telling you all this bad stuff.
You are a special person, to me, and thousands here, and I'm sure in the 3d it's similar too.
In life, not everyone is going to like everybody, so we should never feel everyone has to like us, nor will we find ourselves liking everyone. Some, we may like, and even become fond of, and yet some, we just seem to stay away from, and not always in a bad sense either. Fuzzy, be kind to yourself, look at the Fuzzy we see, she brings smiles, giggles and comfort. That's the real you, eh?

Love,
DE

((((((((((((( Fuzzybear ))))))))))))))))))

(((((((((((((((( Fuzzy ))))))))))))))))))

You are NOT worthless! I think you've been making great progresss recently in expressing just how you're feeling and you shouldn't let any mean person stop that. None of your posts show you're worthless, because you're not. You're very valued and cared about here. Look how many people have responded to your post! Feel free to tell others when you feel others are taking advantage of you... you're doing a good job of it here!

I hope you feel better soon ((((((((((((( Fuzzy ))))))))))))))))

Thank you for your replies (((((((((((((((everyone))))))))))))))))))

When I feel someone has turned nasty and rejecting it is hard for me to just stf up and go away. I have tried to work things out in the past, with bad results My "stupid fault" cuz if I had given the people enough space things would have been more likely to be ok eventually.
But when triggered I USED to do things I didn't mean to

(should I delete this post and run? probably ...)
But the other day I found a negative scenario developing and I just walked away. Progress....... maybe
(difference is I hardly knew this person or they me so it was kinda easy ..)

I need to sellotape my mouth shut in future..... stupid bear

I suck,
Fuzzy

(((((((((((((Fuzzyfriend))))))))))))))))
I understand what you mean- it's hard to give up on people and situations sometimes even though it seems it would be for the best. You never need to keep quiet around your true friends. Sending you lots of love and bearhugs.

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO- no tape and you don't suck.
Fuzzy, we all make mistakes and do things that we don't mean to. Don't be too hard on yourself. (((((((((((((((((((((((Fuzzybear)))))))))))))))))))))))))))

I may be just babbling here because I don't know the specifics of the situation...

I do understand that sometimes "jumping the gun" may ruffle things, when maybe comments were not really meant or were misunderstood.

However just "walking away" could also be bad because maybe then you might never realize that those comments were misunderstood and may end up stuck to you as "the truth" when in reality some discussion might shed some light on the issue.

All in all I think it is good to share your feelings... I've never seen you be nasty to someone "in the heat of the moment" so I don't think that is a problem you have to worry about... it is always just about sharing how you feel which in my book is AOK.

If there are things that I don't understand that you think you need to "walk away" from sometimes I hope you will try to just get the space you need rather than "walk away" completely... because there's no room for "making up" and feeling better again if you just walk away.

Unless you are talking about someone who is just being nasty to you... in which case, yes, don't upset yourself, just listen to your other friends here. (like me )

Hope you are OK fuzzyness.