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#252
Apr 22, 2019, 10:09 AM
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We need to understand one thing.
We are not dead, that we still can do great things. But we are not fully capable either, that we can never do the greatest things. I think finding balance in our way of thinking will adjust everything in our life. |
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#253
Apr 22, 2019, 10:31 AM
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fuzzy we can share our suffering and good times on the bus...sometimes it helps to just say it the way it is....what is true...and we have some valium...and I have some wine... |
| Anonymous40127, Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, Rohag, Thirty shades
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#254
Apr 22, 2019, 01:00 PM
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 I have some wine.. My supplies of Valium are running out.. I’m punished when I speak my truth... If I wasn’t so stupid I would be a “success” And loved by all.... Others are allowed to speak their truth and even praised for it.. But my truth makes me a “lesser” person.. Why? Because I’m hated by the family ..... I wish they hadn’t ever bothered to reproduce They didn’t want me. They wanted a toy to abuse and shut away in a cupboard While pretending to be nice and kind people 
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| Anonymous44144, little turtle, Rohag, Thirty shades
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#255
Apr 22, 2019, 09:22 PM
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| Fuzzybear, little turtle, Thirty shades
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#257
Apr 23, 2019, 10:10 AM
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I am reading about the prefrontal cortex and
how to protect it....I want to be able to choose wisely... |
| Fuzzybear, Rohag, Thirty shades
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#258
Apr 23, 2019, 10:15 AM
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A doctor told me I’m “the worried well”
And gave me no help, I don’t hate doctors. They are all superior to me... I’m inferior and “weak” 
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| little turtle, Rohag, Thirty shades
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#259
Apr 23, 2019, 10:20 AM
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“Choosing” implies we have some worth...
Some of us have been told repeatedly by experts we have No Worth We are dead to those experts I don’t want this life  (((((((( little turtle and all on the as is bus )))))))
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| little turtle, Rohag, Thirty shades
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#260
Apr 23, 2019, 12:39 PM
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Thank you little turtle and all on the as is bus for graciously allowing all here to speak our truth, as is. If anything can offer hope and healing, it’s that. As is.
Love to all
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| little turtle, Rohag, Thirty shades
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#261
Apr 23, 2019, 12:57 PM
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Maslow speaks the truth
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| Anonymous40127, Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, little turtle
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#262
Apr 23, 2019, 01:04 PM
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And for all you share Much love
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| Anonymous40127, Anonymous44144, little turtle, Thirty shades
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#263
Apr 24, 2019, 07:46 AM
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that maslow pyramid looks like good stuff....thanks for that...
I started reading my new book STARING AT THE SUN by the psychiatrist Irvin yalom....overcoming the terror of death... I don't think I will ever get there....my fear is too great.... |
| Anonymous40127, Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, Rohag, Thirty shades
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#264
Apr 24, 2019, 08:44 AM
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I am trying to be kind to myself this morning...
this is very hard today...but I am almost ready to forgive myself for breaking down in 1973... that was the big one...I could no longer practice psychiatry....sounds strange...I have been blaming myself.. that is not right...and I blame psychiatry for its awful ways....it happened...I still don't know why.. it doesn't matter now...my breakdown is ok...ok.. no fault breakdown...it is ok LT...as is...you are ok.. this stuff takes a lot of practice...it just doesn't happen without focus on kindness and patience... |
| Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, Rohag, Thirty shades
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#265
Apr 24, 2019, 10:02 AM
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Death of an idol
I agree, Little Turtle. Death can be such a cruel thing. I have a friend who looks like Eddie Redmayne, who stars as Stephen Hawking, in Dr.Hawking's biopic, The Theory of Everything. I sorta have feelings for him (forbidden, since I am a boy also) and I cannot stand the fact that time will eventually erase our relationship and we'll both grow old and die. But hey... life was never supposed to be perfect. You would not want to suffer forever by living forever. I miss my childhood as I will miss my youth in my 40's. That's why it's said you only get one shot. Me and him, will never be. I know. But I don't lose my sleep over it anymore. You can't change the Universe's laws, little turtle. |
| Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, little turtle, Thirty shades
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| little turtle, Thirty shades
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#266
Apr 24, 2019, 10:44 AM
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 Good luck with reaching your finishing post of forgiveness LT. Self love AS IS... It has given me some light at the end of my tunnel to work towards I will travel kindly and patiently... |
| Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, little turtle
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#267
Apr 24, 2019, 10:45 AM
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Much love and kindness to you AS IS
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| Anonymous44144, little turtle, Thirty shades
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#268
Apr 24, 2019, 10:47 AM
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Much love to all AS IS
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| Anonymous44144, little turtle, Thirty shades
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#270
Apr 25, 2019, 07:11 AM
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thanks fuzzy....major problem with wife and me...turned out to be
a major problem that I have...I need to own it...I have so much GUILT about breaking down and not working ....started in 1973... lasted about 4 years...........I have been BLAMING myself over and over...now I really NEED THE AS IS BUS and all my friends in it... I have been so ASHAMED and that is not good at all... |
| Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, Rohag, Thirty shades
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#271
Apr 25, 2019, 07:41 AM
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Our health is not our choosing By accepting ourselves AS IS We become stronger The light is waiting for us
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| Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, little turtle
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#272
Apr 25, 2019, 08:25 AM
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Can't say about anyone else, but I've learnt an important lesson in my life.
Look, if you had one shot, one opportunity To seize everything you ever wanted One moment Would you capture it or just let it slip? You better lose yourself in the music, the moment You own it, you better never let it go You only get one shot, do not miss your chance to blow This opportunity comes once in a lifetime You better lose yourself in the music, the moment You own it, you better never let it go You only get one shot, do not miss your chance to blow This opportunity comes once in a lifetime you better (... lose yourself) If I had studied harder, ignored all my troubles, I could have been a better place. That does not mean I cannot do it now and get admission into one of the most reputed research institutes for my PhD. I'll try. It's everything I can do. Also, I miss the good parts of my past. I don't feel lonely, but I still feel pain when I think where I'll be by three years from now, by the time I finish my BSc. My friends, they'll be scattered and hard to come in contact with. We'll forget and move on. It's so sad for me. |
| Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, little turtle, Thirty shades
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#273
Apr 25, 2019, 10:19 AM
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Hugs to all ... love to all AS IS
Little turtle, do you have an inner young little turtle?
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| Anonymous40127, Anonymous44144, little turtle, Thirty shades
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#274
Apr 25, 2019, 11:48 AM
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Why is love so hard to comprehend for some?
It’s very sad  I’m grateful for all the wonderful people here on pc
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| Anonymous40127, Anonymous44144, little turtle, Rohag, Thirty shades
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#275
Apr 25, 2019, 11:56 AM
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I’m grateful for little turtle and Rohag
And all on the as is bus Who never judge Never harm Never hate Are always kind
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| Anonymous40127, Anonymous44144, little turtle, Rohag, Thirty shades
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