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Old Sep 24, 2019, 01:26 PM
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It was insanity
Paying hundreds of pounds to a private therapist..
only to be told i'm too ........
so 'should' be muzzled

i'd already heard that message many times
including before any conscious memories
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Old Sep 24, 2019, 01:35 PM
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Old Sep 24, 2019, 02:03 PM
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We're told...
It was a long time ago when I first "asked for help". I remember it was said or strongly implied that seeking help would not hurt me, and the help offered would most probably resolve whatever afflicted me.

I want to think seeking help hurts few and greatly helps many. My experience, however, has been a much less severe form of Fuzzybear's.

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Old Sep 24, 2019, 02:08 PM
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It was a long time ago when I first "asked for help". I remember it was said or strongly implied that seeking help would not hurt me, and the help offered would most probably resolve whatever afflicted me.

I want to think seeking help hurts few and greatly helps many. My experience, however, has been a much less severe form of Fuzzybear's.

I want to think the same...

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Old Sep 24, 2019, 05:07 PM
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I have also faced being told many times that I was born defective and that I have not recovered from my defectiveness, which is all my own fault for not trying hard enough.

I really must be

My snake has ideas to solve the problem but I resist them It is very tiring

Unfortunately my snake bites my goat who cries out the thoughts of my snake and this causes others to reject me further. Emoting is bad news, so I must buy a stronger muzzle for my goat.

I try to live a quiet life, it is not working out well due to being forced to come into contact with people IRL.
I wish I could stay in my hole at the back of the cave and

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Old Sep 25, 2019, 12:13 AM
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dear desiree.... i don't know what to say...i am just starting with mindfulness....
i am reading about it by[jon kabat-zinn].....but it is not easy reading..
.but there is some hope for us.....
Thanks little turtle.
There's a Mindfulness for Beginners book by Jon Kabat Zinn. Let's see if I can read that... maybe I can try 15minutes at a time?
I have ordered the book from Amazon India.
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Old Sep 25, 2019, 05:52 AM
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Thanks little turtle.
There's a Mindfulness for Beginners book by Jon Kabat Zinn. Let's see if I can read that... maybe I can try 15minutes at a time?
I have ordered the book from Amazon India.
desiree please let me know what that book is like....
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Old Sep 25, 2019, 08:26 AM
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desiree please let me know what that book is like....
Yes I will. 😀
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Old Sep 25, 2019, 09:39 AM
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Old Sep 25, 2019, 11:30 AM
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Old Sep 25, 2019, 01:48 PM
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hugs and love to all on the bus
Hugs and love to you fuzzy.
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Old Sep 26, 2019, 01:19 PM
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Love and respect to all who are true and as is
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Old Sep 26, 2019, 02:46 PM
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shudder 'the hospital'

this road iis bumpy and its very tiring

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Old Sep 26, 2019, 02:48 PM
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Being true and as is..
makes it impossible to 'please' everyone..
not that I would want to
having been forced into submission and erasure of self in cubhood
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Old Sep 26, 2019, 11:49 PM
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I agree @Fuzzybear, it really is impossible to please everyone. Even just one would be nice for me. It's a tough world to be in, but I wish you peace. And to everyone on the as is bus!
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Old Sep 27, 2019, 03:05 AM
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I agree @Fuzzybear, it really is impossible to please everyone. Even just one would be nice for me. It's a tough world to be in, but I wish you peace. And to everyone on the as is bus!
2daffodils, I find your posts kind and respectful. I am pleased you are here on the bus.

I agree the world is tough, I was not designed for it. Either that or people IRL lack the understanding to be able to be inclusive to all.

They make adjustments to their thinking for someone unable to walk but our brains are not allowed to be faulty. Instead we are responsible for our motherboard malfunctioning.

I am sending peace and harmony to you and all on the AS IS bus
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Old Sep 27, 2019, 04:20 AM
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life sucks and most people IRL are not nice...
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Old Sep 27, 2019, 05:44 AM
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life sucks and most people IRL are not nice...
A very good morning to you little turtle.
and to everyone else on the as is bus.
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Old Sep 27, 2019, 06:46 AM
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A very good morning to you little turtle.
and to everyone else on the as is bus.
i am really screwed up on the bus...
i continue to blame everyone and everything....
how about my little problems...how am i causing my depression...
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Old Sep 27, 2019, 07:38 AM
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i am really screwed up on the bus...
i continue to blame everyone and everything....
how about my little problems...how am i causing my depression...
I am sorry you are hurting Little Turtle

I can hear there is a lack of support for you IRL.

The bus is different, here we understand.

Little problems trigger large, difficult and troubling emotions

Our motherboard has been programmed incorrectly...

No blame or shame here...

Hugs to you and all who are in need on the AS IS bus
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Old Sep 27, 2019, 01:59 PM
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We can drink deeply of healing waters here on the bus..
No blame or shame..
(Unlike so often irl )

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Old Sep 28, 2019, 04:50 PM
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what helps me the most...
not to attack others or me......
i hate violence
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Old Sep 28, 2019, 05:59 PM
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what helps me the most...
not to attack others or me......
i hate violence
good post little turtle
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Old Sep 29, 2019, 11:51 PM
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i continue to blame everyone and everything....
how about my little problems...how am i causing my depression...
I do the same little turtle
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Old Sep 29, 2019, 11:52 PM
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what helps me the most...
not to attack others or me......
i hate violence
I should remember this...at times I get carried away.
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