Maybe I'm too sensitive

all this talk of mothers day. quite a few friends have sent me mothers day greetings...like it never entered their head that might hurt?

i'm struggling hard enough as it is atm to keep my head above water...stay clean blah blah blah...i don't need reminding i failed as a mother on top.

((((Roz)))) your a really good gal!

peace, love, flower-power, sunshine, grass, feather-cut, hot-pants ... hold fast !

sending images of these things back to you!

peace and love,
nightbird

(((((((((((((((( Roz )))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
I am sorry you are hurting.

((((((nightbird))))))

thank you! sometimes i need somebody to throw my siggy line back at me like that, it reminds me of something that helps.

much peace, love, happiness and hugs to you,
roz

Roz, you didn't fail. You succeeded in making the best decision for your kids. That makes you the most awesome mom ever!!



Dee

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((((((((((((( Roz ))))))))))))))

dont worry, nothing wrong with being sensitive. I am a natural basket case so you can just imagine what a mess i am most of the time.

((((((gimmeice))))))

thank you for caring

((((((Dee))))))

thank you for understanding, it's just hard sometimes but that's natural...you care, you hurt sometimes. thanks again.

((((((Kaika))))))

((((((((Fuzzy))))))))

((((((BalishBun))))))

hope you're good today

(((((((RozG))))))))))))) i see no failure hon....

((((((nowheretorun))))))

thank you, my kids don't see any failure here either...just enough love to do the right thing.

maybe I should start listening to my kids huh?

they sound pretty smart to me : )

((((((((((Roz)))))))) I don't think you are a failure, either! I think you did your best for your kids, thus makes you a wonderful parent who cares enough about her kids to give them the best right now.

Love and hugs, my friend...I know it hurts....

BJ

(((((( BJ ))))))

thank you got caring and understanding. yes it hurts but doing the right thing frequently does. most days i'm able to take solace knowing my kids understand and still love me to pieces...just some days are harder than others, which i know you understand.

Lots of love and hugs to you too

(((ROZ))). I am sorry that you are struggling at this time. It is not the rules of motherhood that make us stronger but the wisdom to make the decisions necessary when things get the toughest for the betterment of humanity. It is sad that someone that makes the right decisons in life feel punished by the rules of motherhood, ahen nothing is written in stone. I hope you feel better soon Roz. Take care. Soidhonia..

((((Soidhonia))))

Thank you, the way you explained it doesn't sound like i should be punishing myself over it. In fact i think i'm the only who does think bad of me for it.

Thanks again and you take care too.

(((((((RozG )))))))))))))))))))))
listen to your kids awwwwwww

((((((muffy))))))

i know you're right coz they're way smarter than me

thank you for caring

(((Roz))))
I think you are very smart
awww

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all this talk of mothers day. quite a few friends have sent me mothers day greetings...like it never entered their head that might hurt?

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Not only that, but it's not Mothering Day in England, they missed that by a couple months! Little insensitive to "local"/person's customs :-)

When people hurt me with well wishes, I always try to give them credit for doing it because they love/like me? It is hard for other people to fit inside our shoes and/or know which way we feel about something like that. You have wonderful children for whom you're doing the best you can; take people's well wishes as acknowledging and applauding that?

I never thought of it that way Perna. Thank You for helping me see it from their side.