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Old May 26, 2008, 07:27 AM
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why?!? i cant take this anymore...i am tired of constantly having to talk to myself, comforting myself to get back the feeling that i belong here..that i am worthy of being loved by someone...like by the man that i am in love with..he says he loves me but i don't belive him. He is way too good for me..he can do so much better than me..i don't know where to turn..i feel like i cant cope with myself because i am not meant to do it..i am a loser and i have to give up eventually..but i cant ..?not yet?!?help!
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Old May 26, 2008, 07:49 AM
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sorry to hear this nyctophile, this reminds me of myself, and probably many more here on this forum i would think...

we also can be our own worst enemies, so self critical when we do not value ourselfs, without knowing you though, I would bet that you have so much of you thats great and good, and possess so much kindness to give, if only you weren't so low, in and about yourself ..

But ,here's the start!,, - a safe place to share, and a really warm welcome from me!
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keep sharing in PC if you can , i hope my welcome here will help your day a bit, for it is helping me,,,,

see,,,you have done a great thing already, making me smile! no self confidence what so ever

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Old May 26, 2008, 08:07 AM
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you are worthy of love. You are entitled and able to love yourself .... sometimes it takes time, but from one who knows you will achieve it. Please keep talking here amongst good people and people who have been where you are now. I wish you well, opening up, listening to others who have been where you are is a very good start, welcome to pc. hugs, Jinnyann xoxoxoxoxo no self confidence what so ever no self confidence what so ever no self confidence what so ever no self confidence what so ever no self confidence what so ever
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Old May 26, 2008, 08:27 AM
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Hello nyctophile, nice to meet you.
Everyone is worthy of love and deserves love. I hope that you find this site as helpful as I do. no self confidence what so ever
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Old May 26, 2008, 08:32 AM
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dear nyctophile: a warm welcome and a big hug for you. I sincerely hope - indeed i am sure - that you will be helped here to get back to your better self. Good luck with resolving your issues. I know what you're talking about, I was there, too, exactly there where you are....
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Old May 26, 2008, 09:39 AM
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Old May 26, 2008, 02:21 PM
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You're not alone nyctophile. I feel like I have to retract everything I say because I have no confidence that it's true. No one is "too good" for anyone!
Welcome and hang in there.
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Old May 26, 2008, 06:28 PM
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Old May 27, 2008, 12:27 AM
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Thank you all so much..i cant belive how much your warm words have helped me..i smiled and suddelny it all felt not so bad no self confidence what so ever thank you again and i wish you all the best.. no self confidence what so ever no self confidence what so ever no self confidence what so ever
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