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Apr 20, 2006, 03:42 PM
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why is everything so hard?
What did I do to deserve this? Why is the very system that is supposed to help me tripping me and causing me more stress. Im so sad today 
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#2
Apr 20, 2006, 04:03 PM
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No answers but asking similar questions myself right now.
There with you; you're not alone. If that helps at all. |
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Apr 20, 2006, 04:05 PM
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oh Caro it helps so much. I dont feel nearly so isolated when I read posts like this.
Thank you, everything is just overwhelming me today. I am focusing too much on the future I think and not enough on right now. |
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#4
Apr 20, 2006, 04:11 PM
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Mine is the opposite I think - I am too triggered into the past and finding it hard to keep a grip on what is here and now.
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Apr 20, 2006, 04:21 PM
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I get that way from time to time too..
I tend to go to oppoosite sides of the spectrum - Im either so worried about when and if things are going to get woirred, or Im so upset about stuff in the past. (((caroline)))) |
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Apr 20, 2006, 05:15 PM
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Rainbowzz, my T says that is all-or-nothing thinking and Iwaaayyy know what you are talking about. You'd think such a concept would be easy to figure out, especially educated people like us - but, noooooooo. Everything has to be all higgildy-piggily in our heads!
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#7
Apr 20, 2006, 05:18 PM
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hey, your right.
id never made that connection before. Thanks. Though its still irritating me. Its funny how the smallest things happen and then im thinking, thats it! its the end of the world. |
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#8
Apr 20, 2006, 05:18 PM
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Rainbow, mine will go into a tail spin when some new form of stress comes on in a big way. I have not learned how too control them as of yet because alot of it is new too me but some of the things you may recently be going through may be new too your whole self and what normally is very controlled over situations may be learning how too deal with something new. Does this make any sense. I know what I am trying to say but not sure if this is helping. All in all I hope you are doing ok. And I send big hugs your way!
HUGSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS Cher
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#9
Apr 20, 2006, 05:20 PM
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it does, yes!
Im having a great deal of trouble with Employment Insurance and with Social Assistance, and Ive never had this problem before. So thats definetly got alot to do with it. Money problems make everything so much worse too. Thank you chery (((chery))) |
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#10
Apr 20, 2006, 05:27 PM
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You got that right, rainbowzz.
I know that having "information" doesn't always help, but sometimes it's a place to start. I have trouble, myself, when the world is spinning around (if you remember yesterday and the day before etc). I was in not good places and nothing helped except everyone here! Hugs, Songbird
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