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Old Jan 27, 2016, 11:31 PM
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So a lot went down last night,
Noah contacted Vlad (they are twins, Noah is a horrible person)
But the interesting thing is that.. Carolinae is.. pregnant.. by me?? Now how does that even work. Well first of all it's biologically impossible because thou I identify as non-binary I do still have a vagina in my "perfect vision about me" and Carolinae is a female as well so.. yeah..
Does that happen? Did I became a parent to an alter baby?
How do you.. what do you do in this situation, it's not like I want to forget about it, I think it's cute, but what does it mean for Carolinae? Does that mean that she misses time with me?

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Old Jan 28, 2016, 01:28 AM
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So a lot went down last night,
Noah contacted Vlad (they are twins, Noah is a horrible person)
But the interesting thing is that.. Carolinae is.. pregnant.. by me?? Now how does that even work. Well first of all it's biologically impossible because thou I identify as non-binary I do still have a vagina in my "perfect vision about me" and Carolinae is a female as well so.. yeah..
Does that happen? Did I became a parent to an alter baby?
How do you.. what do you do in this situation, it's not like I want to forget about it, I think it's cute, but what does it mean for Carolinae? Does that mean that she misses time with me?
in my location it is not possible for an alter with in the ....same ....physical body and internal system of alters to impregnate each other.

in my location this happening is called psychosis\delusions\hallucinations.

my suggestion is contact your treatment providers they will explain to you what is happening with in your body and why your alters are saying they have a baby.
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Old Jan 28, 2016, 12:35 PM
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Okay I would like to clarify that she is pregnant inside the system. We have this thing called "perfect visions" for each other that are about our life, way of look, relationships and so on, so all of us have a different life. I do know that it is impossible for a body to get pregnant from the same body, but inside the system she is pregnant. And it's not just her saying so. She actually, on a mental level, is showing that she is pregnant. Of course we still get our period because the body does, but the way she acts and how she is, you can tell that she is pregnant.
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Old Jan 28, 2016, 01:00 PM
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Okay I would like to clarify that she is pregnant inside the system. We have this thing called "perfect visions" for each other that are about our life, way of look, relationships and so on, so all of us have a different life. I do know that it is impossible for a body to get pregnant from the same body, but inside the system she is pregnant. And it's not just her saying so. She actually, on a mental level, is showing that she is pregnant. Of course we still get our period because the body does, but the way she acts and how she is, you can tell that she is pregnant.
the only situation where alters are pregnant in the USA and not called delusions, hallucinations, psychosis, schizophrenia is when for example a person is assaulted and no birth control was used. this results in the physical body becoming pregnant. if during the assault the victim dissociated and an alter took control the resulting alter considers that pregnancy theirs. but they know the father of the baby is the abusers.

short version the diagnostics for having DID state reality testing remains intact. that means everyone body born and alters knows whats real and what isnt. they dont believe in things that cant possibly be real\ is impossible. they stay in reality mind and body.

example its physically impossible for two alters to impregnate each other because they reside with in the same physical body (a male or female physical body) it takes both male and female reproductive tissue to create a baby therefore this would knock out DID because of the diagnostic criteria here in the USA.

for some reason this alter seems to be out of touch with reality.

some suggestions to look into....

whether or not an assault happened when she was in control of the body.

medication check.....maybe side effects might be causing her reality to not be intact.

contact a treatment provider... bulgaria which is your location on your profile may have different diagnostic criteria that allows for this type of situation to happen.
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Old Jan 30, 2016, 08:21 PM
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I have heard cases that alters are married in the inside world. But since rules are a little different there and you do not feel like you made this pregnancy, she might be pregnant sort of by herself? If you have the feeling it is going to be a birth of a new alter, maybe that is what is happening. There are no DSM5 rules of exactly when and how alters come to be. We are not allowed to diagnose people as psychotic here, and I think we're not allowed to diagnose alters either. I wouldn't know how to medicate just that alter even if it was the case.
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Old Jan 31, 2016, 10:19 AM
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Susan:

You know, alters do seem to perceive themselves differently. I mean if they didn't, there wouldn't be a problem with mirrors, right?

If the physical appearance was accepted by all, then they would just be considered different versions of ones self....right?

A young version, a gay version, an older version, little versions... And versions of versions...and so on.

I guess you can call it a delusion if an alter views itself differently then what the body actually is, wouldn't you? Everyone has a different head voice, is they delusional too?

Idk what that's called, for there is a lot of confusion there. I know I "feel" (?) different then the others and my reflection is unacceptable.

I've also heard of false pregnancies where a girl thinks that they're pregnant, so much she can physically start showing. Wouldn't that be delusional too?

I find all this a bit confusing, but not sure of what to make of it other then that it's crazy :/

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Old Jan 31, 2016, 02:48 PM
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So a lot went down last night,
Noah contacted Vlad (they are twins, Noah is a horrible person)
But the interesting thing is that.. Carolinae is.. pregnant.. by me?? Now how does that even work. Well first of all it's biologically impossible because thou I identify as non-binary I do still have a vagina in my "perfect vision about me" and Carolinae is a female as well so.. yeah..
Does that happen? Did I became a parent to an alter baby?
How do you.. what do you do in this situation, it's not like I want to forget about it, I think it's cute, but what does it mean for Carolinae? Does that mean that she misses time with me?
First, I think that's cool. I would we where it goes, youmight have an alter baby. Does Caroline like you? I think something happened. Keep us posted.
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Old Jan 31, 2016, 04:06 PM
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I wouldn't be so quick to call this hallucinations/delusion/or psychosis....It sounds like creative description of her inner world, I call it other realm.....At the same time though, you might want to investigate whether or not this about memories alter are trying to get answers on letting you know who might have experience child birth, labor, all that during the times you was pregnant first........If you the host have no children, then it is on to explanation number 2....I would only call psychosis if it is causing a lot of turmoil inside and it seems like you can't really get a grasp on what might be prompting this subject matters. If you want to figure it out you have to ask questions, not the same questions to get to the bottom of what is happening inside......

I had this exact example several months ago! If I (Host) had gotten pregnant by mistake it wouldn't be my child I had made an agreement to allow some other alter be the parent especially on the one that like to claim certain boyfriends (dating in groups)...Of course, though it is just something we do it makes it more interesting our reality I don't really see any harm in it......Alter 1, 2, 3, and host dates our current boyfriend....Of course if any pregnancies happen all of us are parenting if that happens cause it is unavoidable sometimes!
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Old Feb 01, 2016, 12:40 AM
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Susan:

You know, alters do seem to perceive themselves differently. I mean if they didn't, there wouldn't be a problem with mirrors, right?

If the physical appearance was accepted by all, then they would just be considered different versions of ones self....right?

A young version, a gay version, an older version, little versions... And versions of versions...and so on.
Well said. All alters in all systems don't seem to have an idea about how they look, but it seems like many alters actually have this idea, that they are a different gender, maybe even different hair color, and different age would show for sure. If all alters could accept the body that would mean they have no inner pictures of what they look like. And in many cases, the don't accept the body.

I don't see the point of splitting down someones issues in smaller and smaller part and saying Oh this is anxiety this is DID this is a flashback this is a "delusion". That means the person looking at the person with DID or looking at any person with different issues, will not see the other person as a whole. That person will see the person as pieces of diagnoses and not as a person. I don't know if there is a term for not being able to see another person and accept them as a person or a system, but rather go so deep into detail thinking that this person or system is just 7-10 soulless diagnoses.
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Old Feb 08, 2016, 11:33 AM
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This isn't really an answer to your question, but this reminds me of this theory I once had. I was writing in my journal one day when I began to ask myself if it was possible for alters to have individual disorders. It got me thinking and the theory explained a lot of my unanswered questions, but I wasn't sure if it was possible. But if it is possible to have one of your alters get pregnant, I am now beginning to think that my theory is now possible.
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Old Feb 09, 2016, 12:49 AM
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This isn't really an answer to your question, but this reminds me of this theory I once had. I was writing in my journal one day when I began to ask myself if it was possible for alters to have individual disorders. It got me thinking and the theory explained a lot of my unanswered questions, but I wasn't sure if it was possible. But if it is possible to have one of your alters get pregnant, I am now beginning to think that my theory is now possible.
I don't know if this would help you but each one of us have allergies that vary alter to alter and Evee has ADHD, Waidth has PTSD, I have Depression so I think it is possible
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Old Feb 09, 2016, 08:15 PM
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I don't know if this would help you but each one of us have allergies that vary alter to alter and Evee has ADHD, Waidth has PTSD, I have Depression so I think it is possible
Hey, yeah, that does help. It's pretty interesting how that works. And here I was thinking I was crazy for believing such a thing was possible!
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Old Feb 10, 2016, 06:34 AM
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This isn't really an answer to your question, but this reminds me of this theory I once had. I was writing in my journal one day when I began to ask myself if it was possible for alters to have individual disorders. It got me thinking and the theory explained a lot of my unanswered questions, but I wasn't sure if it was possible. But if it is possible to have one of your alters get pregnant, I am now beginning to think that my theory is now possible.
From what I know and understand, yes.
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