Hungery but got to lose weight

Got to lose weight.

When we moved in Jan 07 I was 102lb im now 125lb & have got soooooo FAT that I am having trouble getting in my clothes.

My husband cant understand how I feel he thinks I look fine as I am. I have my boys go on at me if I miss one meal with them as we sit down as a family every night for dinner I just want to lose some weight with out being nagged i dont want to kill my self but my husband says that I will if I carry on as I am loseing weight in the last 3 days I have had 3 slimfast shakes 2 bannana's & an apple I know its not right & I should eat but its making me lose weight I have lost 2lb in 2days so why should I stop

((((((((( Cat )))))))))

I understand.

I have put on 2st10 over the past year and I have gone up 2/3 dress sizes, I've had to buy new jeans & trousers, my coats don't fit properly because I'm now too big for them.

Now I've lost a couple of pounds and I'm just on the highest end of the 'normal' BMI range. grrr. So I am planning to lose all the weight I've gained and more if possible but I'm trying to work out a way that doesn't involve too much starvation, since for me last time, 1year's semi-starvation = 1 year's binging = way too much weight gain.

I know from what I remember of your past posts that you are not overweight at your current weight. So maybe do some exercising to tone yourself up a bit. Starvation strategies lead to fast weight loss and it is so exhilarating and confidence-boosting. I loved being a size 8 and wanted to be a size 4 &hoped and hoped there would be a pair of size 6's I could get into. Then I binged and ruined it all. So I think the best strategy is fairly sensible eating (ideally should be a minimum of 1000-1200 calories per day, better would be 1500-1800) plus moderate exercise. Though of course I am a total hypocrit since I'm not doing the advice I'm giving you. But perhaps it might help. And I know you got your GP involved too, perhaps you could go and have a chat with him?

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dcs_no1_fan said:
I know its not right & I should eat but its making me lose weight I have lost 2lb in 2days so why should I stop

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What's your hurry? You should go much slower or you will get sick. One should lose 2 lbs. in a week, not 2 days!

You are probably a fine weight for your height; health is not about looks at all. You only have this one body to get through your whole life and should consider it, not just how you want to look. What is best for it is best for you and not being too thin is best for it.