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#76
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"You're not trying hard enough to be [birth sex/assigned gender]"
"You're going to hurt your family" "It's your own fault you're miserable" Dontcha just love it? ![]() |
#77
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*cis voice* Have u tried no t being trans?*
OuO
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Demiboy They/them/their Never compromise your identity for someone else. |
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#78
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"Yeah i know too lol, when I was a kid I wondered what it must be like to wear guy's pants"
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#79
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"You looked better as a girl"
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#80
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"What was your name before you changed it?"
I've also gotten the "so which bathroom do you use?" "so, when are you going to transition?" "how do you know you're really transgender and not just gay or a lesbian? It sounds to me like this is just because you're parents set standards for what a 'guy' and 'girl' should be." Yeah, these have all been said to me at some point this past semester.
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diagnosed: Autism ADHD-combined type PTSD CPD/SPD Bipolar disorder 1 gender pronouns: He, him,his/ they, them, their Transgender and Asexual... |
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diagnosed: Autism ADHD-combined type PTSD CPD/SPD Bipolar disorder 1 gender pronouns: He, him,his/ they, them, their Transgender and Asexual... |
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#82
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when I read these posts I'm frightened by the people's ignorance.
I'm a cis person (or I think so, well, don't really know, a little bit confused) but I've never been so stupid about this. I live in an area where there's absolutely (or practically and I don't know the ones who did) nobody who outed themselves as transgendered, and yet I've never seen trans people as "gay who are confused" or stuff like that. I'm more inclined to understand people who just don't like you, or fathers who disown you, they're just intolerant, but most of these thing you've written here are just exceptional proof of ignorance and close-mindedness, it doesn't even look like deliberate intolerance. |
#83
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Demiboy They/them/their Never compromise your identity for someone else. |
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#84
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#85
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"Well I am cis but I deserve to be a part of the trans conversation"
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“You are so brave and quiet I forget you are suffering.”. |
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#86
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Just wow....
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#87
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"Okay, but you have boobs! "
"Not until you've had the surgery......" "I'm not a lesbian. Wait, I mean you're a boy, but I don't like girls. Uuhh.." "This girl is a transvestite!" "It's hard okay, I have to use a new name and pronouns!" (After refusing to try..) "Transgendered" "Hermaphrodite" "Insert slur" "So you're like a drag queen?" |
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#88
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"We have the right to be in the trans forum even if we're not trans, don't make a scene and act like a baby!"
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#89
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*cis male voice* but what about me? aren't all people important?
(read "all people" as "I want to be part of this even though i am not trans or nonbinary and think my opinion should be considered")
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Demiboy They/them/their Never compromise your identity for someone else. |
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#90
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*cis voice* But those aren't real pronouns.
But technically that's not your real name. But technically that's not your real sex. But technically that's not who you really are. But technically I'm right. But technically ( insert ******** here). For real. If I had a nickel for every time I heard a cis person say "But technically" I'd have enough for top surgery and hormones for life.
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Demiboy They/them/their Never compromise your identity for someone else. |
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#91
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Stop making up words/genders/pronouns!
Like, bruh, do you understand that all words are made up. That's how we got words to start with.
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Demiboy They/them/their Never compromise your identity for someone else. |
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#92
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*religious cis voice*
God doesn't make mistakes
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Demiboy They/them/their Never compromise your identity for someone else. |
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#93
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Well, EXACTLY!
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#94
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How do they even think it would be a mistake? Do they know God? Maybe God uses people who are different and somehow "weak" (I don't mean that in a bad way, just thinking about the message that we should take care of them because they are closer to God) to test other people. If so, the bible bashers fail quite bad.
How do they know God didn't deliberately made me agender and some people trans? Why would it be a mistake? From the start all people had brown eyes. Then some people started having blue eyes. Was that a mistake? It wasn't according to the norm. Today we don't look down on blue eyed people. Sorry my talk is a little fragmented today. I hope someone can piece together what it is I'm saying. |
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#95
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"I prefer to not use pronouns." really now? are you suuuuuuuuuure about that? you want to try going for an hour without using pronouns when you talk?
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#96
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Well I don't see gender!
Why can't we all just be people? Why do we need to label ourselves with gender? We're all the same! This is similar to "color-blind" white people. Or white people that say they don't see race. Gender is a big part of a lot of people's identity. Especially trans/nb people.
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Demiboy They/them/their Never compromise your identity for someone else. |
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#97
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"you just had daddy issues"
one of the more creative ones I've heard lately tbh.
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#98
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In a meeting, discussing if and how to ask people for their gender in a survey.
Boss (who I'm out to): "So should we include more than two options for gender?" Colleague (who doesn't have a clue) : "WHAT? NO! There are just two genders. It's biology!" Me: Honestly, it's time I started playing cis-/heteronormativity bs bingo. |
#99
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Overheard a group of girls from my school talking about a trans boy I know (suprisingly in a fairly respectful way), and one of them says:
"If he likes girls why can't he just be a lesbian?" ![]() And, inspired by her friends who at least tried to explain to her that gender and sexuality were two different things: *Uses the pronouns of a trans person in a really smug voice like they're expecting an award for getting it right*
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#100
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