Bill is very, very ill.

((((((((((((( Bill & Pat ))))))))))))))

You are both in my thoughts and prayers.

Hugs,

Jan

PS. Please keep us posted as often as you can.

{{{{{{{Pat and Bill}}}}}}}

Many prayers going up for you and keeping you in my thoughts.

{{{{{{{{{{{{fayerody & Bill}}}}}}}}}}}}

our h of 40 years died 5th March, if you want to talk PM anytime.
Sending as many healing vibes as we can to Bill.
Take care of yourself too fayerody, sending strengthening vibes to you too.

All things must pass.

((((((((((((((((Pat and Bill))))))))))))) My thoughts are with you.

thumping with all our hearts for you two
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(((fayerody, Bill and family)) you are in my thoughts. please keep us posted

Hi Fayerody,

You and your husband are in my thoughts and prayers.....so sorry to hear about this....

Take care,
ErinBear

Oh Ethel - I am so sorry. Sending positive vibes your way ~~~~~~~

thanks to all. he's been moving to a teaching hospital at a unversity.... i'm glad for the move, but it means it's very serious......

and of course, last night i had an episode of the immune sysytem. the headache, where i think i'm going to have a brain aneurysm, the fever of 104, the entire skeletal system hurting. not aching. hurting. i can't even touch my own knee..it hurts so much. i've had no sleep and no food.....gatorade is all tha will stay down. i hate to vomit.

now, the doc sure won't let me fly out to see him asap. well, i can't even walk straight, so that would be sorta stupid to even try.

thanks again.....i need some shoulders now...xoxo pat

You've got my shoulders, me ears, my eyes and my heart. I'm here for you whenever you need them.

Prayers going up for both you and Bill!

No, you can't fly the way you are.... not only with others not appreciate it, but it could and probably would make you much worse and take longer to heal

Please take care of yourself... hopefully you will both get through this, and your marriage will be even stronger.

{{{{{{{{{{fayerody}}}}}}}}}}

We have broad shoulders, & you are welcome to cry on them anytime.

Take care of yourself, it won't help Bill or you if you become ill from worry. That sounds rather harsh, but unfortunately we are speaking from our personal experience.

fayerody & Bill

thank you...i have't slept any in two nights. and i'm positive that worrying about B is cause the immune system thing to worse. my balance is awful today. robert comes to load me up....and i splurged and hired someone to help us. i felt like i had to it or not get moved........

oh geez, oh geez, oh geez bunnies thumping healing vibes for both of you oh geez

(((((((fayerody and bill)))))))))))) gentle gentle bear hugs to help you through this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers will be with you throughout this. Please let us know how things are going if you can.
PS... it is alright to cry, pain is pain and sometimes tears can help to wash away some ot the scariest things. Please take care, give Bill the love you have for him and know that you have many friends here praying for the both of you.
Linda

Pat, you both are in my prayers.

You know where to find me if you want to talk or to giggle.

Take care,

gg

Good thinking ((((pat)))) I don't think that is a "splurge" at all... I've had to rethink my stuff like that, if it's needed, so be it...not a splurge nope.

PLEASE make a smalll list of things you are NOT doing that you MUST do to perform better self care. (HOW will you try to get 8 hours of sleep each night? HOW will you make better plans to eat?) Gotta do it.

PLEASE take at least 30 min a day and calm yourself, meditate... clear your mind of all thoughts and breathe deeply. Ithink you will find it will recharge your energy, and also give your body time to fight FOR you and not against you.
How's Bill?

i'm getting ready to lie down. thank you for your generous thoughts.

Bill is a little better. He is eating! xxox pat

((((((((((((( Pat )))))))))))))))
((((((((((((( Bill ))))))))))))))

You have my shoulders anytime. Please take care of yourself. Try to get some Ensure or somthing down you. Try the high protein kind. It's worked for me before.

Hugs,

Jan

pat.........i'm so glad to hear that bill is a little better.....keep us informed...

((((Pat & Bill))))

So glad to hear Bill is eating

{{{{{fayerody & Bill}}}}}

((((((((((((((((Fayerody and Bill))))))))))))))))))))
Best wishes for speedy recoveries. Thinking of you.

How is he, and YOU today???

hot.............................hot................

we have word that a definitive answer will be given in two weeks on which direction Bill's treatment will go. tests and more tests. he's very comfortable now and is eating solid foods.

he is in third stage and fourth is the dialysis machine. i know that this has freaked me out more because i worked in the dialysis clinic and i know what that life is like.

i'm doing okay. moving is so stressful that you can't ever say you're great til all is unpacked and things are straight.....

thanks, pat