I Know You Hate Me.

Look. I realize that the good majority of the people here do not want me here and try to deter me from posting by lashing out at me for the slightest of remarks that I may make in them. I don't care for this at all as you can imagine and I'm sure sadly that some of you will try to respond to this one and make me look like the bad guy. I just want to make it clear to those of you that don't like me not to bother reading my posts and stuff, just steer clear of anything that I write and it will make it a lot easier on all of us. We all hurt, and we all have problems so let's not make it worse by taking things out on each other.

Please let it go and avoid me if you need to. You know who you are.

Sorry you are experiencing such feelings, Dude. Yes, there may be ppl who are not stable enough to respond as adults... but you are right, we all have our problems.

I find it interesting to read on this site all the views of "forgiveness"... and seemingly noone who agrees with my viewpoint on it: we are not required to ever forgive; to forgive requires the other to ask for it; it's probably in our best interest to forgive, but it doesn't require we accept the offense as "ok."

I am curious to see who understands, and "forgives" ... vs all those sage ideas previously posted.

<font color=blue> meditation is a true way to connect to the Source </font color=blue>

Oh, Sky. I want to answer you so bad, but I don't dare. PM me if you like. I won't be antagonistic.

<font color=blue>"Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we oft might win by fearing to attempt" --Shakespeare</font color=blue>

Ian, hate is a very strong word. I don't hate you. I just don't want to be verbally abused by you anymore.

BTW, thanks for the PM.

<font color=blue>"Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we oft might win by fearing to attempt" --Shakespeare</font color=blue>

please tell me what this means, I haven't been reading all the posts.
Here is what you wrote : I am curious to see who understands, and "forgives" ... vs all those sage ideas previously posted.

Sky feel free to PM me about this if you wish

In giving advice seek to help, not please your friend [/i]
SOLON

Your welcome for the PM. You deserved it. I think when you said that you wanted to respond so badly to Sky's comment but didn't want to be antagonistic, you should apply that with me as well. Obviously I am going to want to jump all over "I just don't want to be verbally abused by you anymore". I will hold my own though and not respond.

Thanks, Ian. Maybe someday soon we can both discuss this without taking up arms, ok?

<font color=blue>"Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we oft might win by fearing to attempt" --Shakespeare</font color=blue>

Deal. I question whether now would be the apropriate time for that, but I think that for sure in the future we should so that we can make each others lives that much easier on this forum.

((((((((((((((((((( Sept ))))))))))
(((((((((((((((((( Dude/Ian ))))))))))))))

Yeah, I vote for "peace"

In giving advice seek to help, not please your friend
SOLON

You got it!

<font color=blue>"Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we oft might win by fearing to attempt" --Shakespeare</font color=blue>

<font color=blue>"Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we oft might win by fearing to attempt" --Shakespeare</font color=blue>

***Hugs for anyone who wants one***

Me! Me! Uh... can I have two?

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<font color=blue>"Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we oft might win by fearing to attempt" --Shakespeare</font color=blue>

I second that! {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{free hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

I am so happy with all of you! I was afraid to read this thread and see what new conflict would break out again, and then I did and all my friends are making peace with each other! I'm impressed.

Wendy

<font color=orange>There is an easy answer to your problem that is neat, plausible, and wrong.

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lol. geez.

I don´t hate you Dude. You have expressed stuff that reminds me of how I felt when I was a teenager, and I can kind of relate to your disappointment in people in general. I do want you to know that I no longer feel the frustration that I felt when I was your age (well, actually I was a bit younger than you are now when I felt that way), and am actually really happy with my life, myself, and with the friends I´ve made. I hope that you find that, too. I know that you have been really unhappy over the past 6 or 8 months that I´ve known you, and it makes me sad. I hope that you feel better soon.

We are ALL going to be a-ok!

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{LMo}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} Good to see you posting! Are you gonna catch us up on your adventures in South America? I sure hope so!



<font color=blue>"Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we oft might win by fearing to attempt" --Shakespeare</font color=blue>

Sept, you´re the best! You´re the only one who ever notices when I´m gone , so I´ll PM you the details. I´ve been updating my blog, though - do you still have the link? More pictures next Thursday!
Love,
LMo

We are ALL going to be a-ok!

What did you write that was bad, Dude ?

Fellow canadian



Born in 1963 of French mom and Canadian dad. Studied a lot (Majors in History, Theology, M.A. in Sociology). Jobless for now. Just been diagnosed Borderline.

I wonder where it will go from here... But I'll try nonetheless.