Disappointment Rains Down On Me :(

For about 7 months now, I've been patiently waiting for a windfall of sorts to come in to me. According to the attorney I spoke with in December, I was to expect to receive 1/3 of the money in July and the balance in November.

So, stupid me of course plans her life around this. Most of which was going to be an extended trip to Romania to be with my husband for a few months, and hopefully attend his interview at the Embassy and get his visa to come to the States. I had it all figured out.....my daughter and grandson would stay in my apartment while I'm away, I would pay the rent, she would pay the other bills. All my other bills would be taken care of before I left. I would have been able to support both my husband and I very nicely and he could have quit his 80 hour a week job so that we could spend some quality time together and make up for some of the time we haven't been able to connect.

Now, this morning, I was told I won't see it until November by this same attorney and I am so livid and disappointed and ticked off and sad and and and I could just spit nails right now

I am able to get a little bit of money, but just barely enough to catch up on a few things and make a 3-4 week visit to Romania instead of a couple of months. I can't support us both on what I will get this month so he can't quit that damned crappy job of his while I'm there. That means I get to sit in his apartment for 16 hours a day alone while he's working and cherish the few hours a week we will have together. Maybe he'll get Sunday's off....I can only hope and pray.

I don't know why it is, but every time we make a plan to be together, something always screws it up. It's not as if we are doing anything wrong for crying out loud. We are very much in love, we appreciate each other, we love being together and talking about anything and everything. We connnect on so many different levels...I mean what in the world is happening and WHY?????

This just isn't fair...and before you say it, yes I know that life isn't fair, but we've been working on this for 3 1/2 years now. How much longer will we have to suffer before we can spend our lives together in relative obscurity and peace?

*SIGH* I'm just going to go to bed and cry myself to sleep I guess.....there is nothing more I can do at this point.

(((((((((((((((((sabau))))))))))))))))))))))))))

sorry for your dissappointment sabau,

(((((sabby)))))

I am sooo sorry about your news. My heart really goes out to you and I pray that God will reach down and comfort you both. I know you were looking so forward to this trip. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers and I send you lots of love. You know God works in mysterious ways. Keep looking up, you never know what may happen. I hope you know that my heart goes out to you, and Florin.

I love you sabby. You are always in my prayers.

purplesecrets

Thank you ((((((((((((((Katheryn freewill purplesecrets))))))))))))))))))

purple, I know you are right, God does work in mysterious ways and I try so hard to remember that and go with the flow. But this one really really hurts. I can't stop the tears from falling, even as I type this....
I love you too purple...thanks for letting me lean on you for a moment!

xoxoxo
J

(((((((((sabby)))))))))))

I "hate" when bad things happen to wonderful people

I am sorry!

(((((((((((((Sabau))))))))))))))))

oh jean.....what a bummer but cherish the time you DO have with him................your reward is yet to come

(((((((((( Sabau )))))))))))

I'm so very, very sorry. I hope you and your beloved are reunited permantly very soon.

Hugs,

Jan

Thank you very much everyone.

I'm not used to being so dang sad....I have got to get out of this feeling....it not very becoming on me *sigh*

((( sabau2 )))

How frustrating and disappointing, after waiting so long!!



ECHOES

Sabau, im sorry. I hope it all works out for you and you two can be together.

chalmette70043

sabbie hon I am so sorry.

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Jean}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

I'm am SO SORRY, Jean! You have a right to be mad, sad and everything else in between. If there's anything I can do or say, don't hesitate to tell me, okay?

Well this just sucks sabby......I am so sorry you received this disappointing news.
((((((((sabby))))))))))
hang in there!
Snowy

Thank you all my friends



I'm trying so hard to get over this blow...but it hurts....it really physically hurts this time. Oh man, I don't know how I'm going to get through this. My head is pounding....my hands are unsteady and I don't know how to deal with it. I've always considered myself a strong woman....one who can deal with anything that's thrown my way, but this is really hitting me harder than I thought anything could hit me (aside from anything happening to my children and other loved ones). I don't know, maybe I'll feel better in the morning and have a new perspective on things....maybe something will come to me in a dream.

But I do thank all of you for your love and support. You mean the world to me and you lift me up....you really do! I don't know how I would get through this without you all! Thank you!

xoxoxo
Jean

sorry sabau, im sorry you have been let down again. i hope that you get it sooner rather than later.....want me to have a few "words" with the lawyer?

Thank you so much ((((((((((((((((((((((((((((joe joe)))))))))))))))))))))))

Do you think those words would really help???? If so, have at it my friend!



Hugss
J

i am so sorry..........can i do anything? PM me? xoxoxo pat

Thanks so much (((((((((((((((((((Pat))))))))))))))))))))))

Unless you have magical powers to be able to get my hubby here, I'm not so sure what you could help me with. But I can say that knowing you care means a lot to me and helps!



J

Hi Jean, I just read your thread. I am sorry you are going through this--it must be very frustrating. Please know that I am thinking of you and sending you positive thoughts.

Sabau,

I understand. I will PM you.

EJ

Thanks so much DePressMe, I surely appreciate all your positive thoughts!

EJ, thanks sweety...I look forward to hearing from you!


J

Sabau...One never realizes what others are going thru. Thanks for sharing, and I am thinkng of you!
You are so encouraging and positive here...
Love
Patty