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Today started off as a really great day.
it was going really well. my friend claire came over and the guy i sorta like, kenny. and my other friend kelsea. no one was home at my house so it was just us and we were working on a project mostly. then my older sister comes home around 8 and she flips out on me and curses and me and smacks me because the mac and cheese pot is on the stove and the bowls are in the sink and shes pissed. so my friends leave i clean up and then i call my mom in tears to tell her what happened and she says she has to go. then she calls me back a bit later and yells at me! she said that i need to learn to work these things out on my own with my sister and that i was in trouble for having boys in the house with out supervision. i am almost 17 i dont need a baby sitter! i hate my family. i am crying right now. its not fair. |
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((( HUGS ))) - I am so sorry that your big sister is being so mean to you right now..... and that you mom was not supportive - and while siblings do have to learned to get along together I feel that a parents should always step in when physical hitting is involved.
And while "as a parent" I do not condone hitting - I have to ask (as a once smaller younger sister) have you ever hit your sister back as to show her that you are not afraid or to put her in her place? |
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(((((((((((((((((( Court_knee )))))))))))))))))
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yeah she started by hitting me with the plastic measuring cup on my arm and so i grabbed her wrist so she couldnt hit me so the she used her other hand to smack me so i hit her back not hard thought
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Right now, I'm picturing the old black & white Abbot & Costello movies....slapstick comedy it was called....throwing pies into each other's faces.....lets see, you & your sister could get together...make a movie out of it & make some money out of the fighting......at least it would then be for a good cause.....lol.
I don't mean to make light of the fighting because I am sure it can be very hurtful.....but as an only child that I was.....not having that interfact with any sibling.......I have to say that if she wasn't around, you would miss having her.....it's lonely & boring being an only child & then the only ones you have to fight with ARE your parents & it's really much better & safer to fight with your sister. There will come a time when the fighting is over & there will be a closeness as most families end up that way in the long run.....you will get to that point in the future & will come to love the sister you hate right now...I am sure of it. Love will come when you are both adults, Debbie
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i understand ur hatred i have same problem but with younger brother he is always getting away with things and nothing i can do he always tells mom and i get in trouble yeah it sucks being young but it doesnt get better as you get older it is what you make of it
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<font color="purple">if it's any consolation I don't really like my older brother. But man, that's a load of crap. </font>
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