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#51
Oct 01, 2009, 07:02 AM
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Sannah, D is bigger & stronger plus he is a guy. He is smarter. He is not autistic He is NOt mental ill. Yes sometime we can think clear enuf to think for herself but sometime we cannot and we have to have someone to look to for guidance. But he expect us to lissen to him ALL the time so we do because it is much easier then argueing we dont like that we dont like to be yelled at so we does what we has to so we can aviod it. At least he stays which is more we can say for a lot of other ppls qwhat has been in her life ya know. And he dont hit her he never has and dont think he would so it IS a improvement over what we has had in the past. Sometime it is just realkly hard to feel so small adn we cant seem to overcome THAT. We have NEVER beened goo d enuf for anyone anyway, so this is nothing new. Dont think we will ever be for anyone but that is just our dumb life.Some things never change.
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#52
Oct 01, 2009, 02:26 PM
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I don't know if he is smarter. He might be present all the time (doesn't lose time) but that is just about all that I will give him. I understand how it can be to need to take the easier route sometimes. So he will yell if you don't listen to him?
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Oct 01, 2009, 03:45 PM
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dunno Sannah, never thought of leaving the room when he yells. A lot of time tho when ye yell someone else comes out to take the yellling so that the rest inside can stay safe like not made to feel so bad
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#54
Oct 01, 2009, 08:37 PM
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So you want to try leaving the room when he yells?
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Oct 01, 2009, 08:48 PM
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Yep!. Maybe iffen we start walk away from him he'll at least get the point that we don't wanna lissen to it even tho we mite still be able to hearhim. We can even try totally ignoreing when we walk away.............like why not?! He has selective hearing. We can develop that to!
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#56
Oct 02, 2009, 09:45 AM
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Yah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Please keep me posted!
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#57
Oct 04, 2009, 08:19 PM
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:d:d:d:d:d
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Oct 05, 2009, 05:04 AM
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(((((((((((((((((((((((((beads)))))))))))))))))))))))))))
that sounds like a great idea - just dropped in to say i am htinking of you - please take care P7
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Oct 05, 2009, 02:23 PM
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AWWWWWWWWW hi p7 & thakn yuo for yuor supposrt! means much.
ummmmmmm we is haveign a gooder day today thigns have actualy been somewhat peaceful last few days as far as the yellign goes so have not had to deal with it. that is a very welcome releif! Me finally got all teh bills made uot an stuff so now we can relax some! Yay! love ye all, mary sue & all of us beadys
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Oct 05, 2009, 11:19 PM
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yay! happy things have calmed a bit for you
take care P7
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Oct 06, 2009, 08:59 AM
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Quote:
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Oct 06, 2009, 02:54 PM
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Thans Sannah!
rite now we is try to pass away teh tiem till wehn toniet adn we has to see teh new pdoc. except that he is not totaly new cuz T said beads talked to him at oen of teh times wehn we was in teh hopsitbleearleir this year but no noe eseems to remember him. adn grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr we just got a letter that we lost part of uor survivor benefits from social security cuz there is another claim ( guess from someone else of her family that we dotn no) beign made on the birth dad's s.s. now ( that is wear that part of her s.s. come from.) so now we will be gettign abuot $50.00 mothn a less now. thqatr does not suodn liek a lot but when u already catn maek ends meet now it will for sure make thigns even harder. mabe we will try to wqork on a bead project again but we is haveign truble concentrate on it today adn thzat stikns cuz this is the first dau wehn we has hzd tiem to work on it grrrrrrrrrrrrrr its rainign its puorign uor head feel liek it gonna explode! myself
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Oct 06, 2009, 10:37 PM
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(((Dont worry...it will all work out)))
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10-2009  A trademark of Sunny:P-productions.....sharing with the world....everybody wants to be in the sunshine! Dont they? __________________ Wish I WERE somewhere sunny.... Sunny :P  
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Oct 08, 2009, 01:04 PM
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Oct 14, 2009, 07:57 AM
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GGGGGGGGRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!
beads is soooooooo sick of ridign on this roller coaster we catn seem to get off of it. it is never-endign. but one thign we know: sooner are later it ALWAYS takes us back into the pits of hell. stephan
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Oct 14, 2009, 11:33 AM
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What is going on Stephan? I am sorry that you are struggling........
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Oct 14, 2009, 04:22 PM
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How much more garbage is the world gonna keep puttign on her plate..........it is already overflowign it is like a paper plate that simply cannot ho0ld no more adn now the specialist docter tells us that their is NO FIXING her injureis fro0m the churchbus accidetn.........NONE not ever adn it really sucks adn the worst part is tht we was actualy dumb enuf to have hope..........for waht to have it crash adn burn at teh bottome of the cliff.......................AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!
Me will not stop yellign at me "itelled yuo so......yuor suppost ta expect the woprst so that when it happen yuo doesnt get down let" juist like will NOT put a cork in it adn everyoen else is argue agian too just watn all the noise to stop it is .........no words sory....... to maek it worser the case worker that comes over ta help her with the beadwork stuff expects us to take a BIGGER risk then we is willign to take. she is askign us to go ahead adn jump offa the cliff knowign that their prollyu wotn be no one are nuthin to catch her at teh bottom and not gonna do it she can promise the moon all her watns but nope dotn buy it.............dotn thikn this is a unneeded TRUST issue hear it fits teh risk her tell us to take............these ppls has telled us to do stuff liek this before adn we not lissen cuz of waht s.s. office say somethign diffrent so how yuo suposd ta no who to beleive are trust? dotn even trust the ss people they wuodl LOVE to taek it all away adn save some money im sure........... feels like NONE are NOWHER are NOTHING is safe rite now it is just plane gobbeltygook! so what is goign on???????beign expected to keep carry a laod that is gettign wayyyyyyyyyy tooooooooo heavy to carry any moer dunno hwo to keep doign this it is too much specialy when we know that now NONE of uotside pain will EVER get any gooder adn the insied pain just gets worse .stephan  
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...can.. .....will..... just.............see come visit my photo albums and see some pictures of mary's beadwork http://forums.psychcentral.com/album.php?albumid=305 Problems are only opportunities with thorns on them." ~ Hugh Miller |
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Oct 14, 2009, 04:30 PM
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((((((((((((((((((((((((stephan Beads and and all the beads)))))))))))))))))
I am so sorry you are all so stressed - can you see another specialist? somtimes it is good to get a 2nd opinion.. I dont know what injuries you have - i dont have a lot of words today - i just want to say that we care nad that we are here for you ok this is a time to be gentle wiht you - no shouting - please try and do somthing nice and relaxing for you - this time above all others you need to be kind to you - please take care and know i am thining of you all 
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Its not how many times you fall down that counts its how many times you get back up! (Thanks to fenrir for my Picture )When you have come to the edge of all light that you know and are about to drop off into the darkness of the unknown, Faith is knowing One of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on or you will be taught to fly. by Patrick Overton, author and poet |
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Oct 14, 2009, 04:40 PM
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TY P7!!!!!!!!!
how can we bes NICE to each other??????? we keeps blame each ohter far all of this. that suonds very far away rite now.....peice adn quiet i mean.stephan p.s. we is kinda short on words rite now too............. 
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Oct 14, 2009, 05:01 PM
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Stephan, I am so sorry that things are crazy right now
. That must be really disppointing to hear that doctor tell you that . I am sorry! Did you tell that worker what the social security office said????
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Oct 14, 2009, 05:08 PM
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thanks Sannah.
ummmmmmmm we did more then tell her we show her wear don find it in the book so she cuodl read it adn she still pushign us!!!!!!! p.s. we just lost part of her child surviver benfits too cuz soemone else is maked a claim on bd's s.s. and so they taked money away from beads to pay whoever THAT is........no clue adn dont realy care tho just another thign that sucks!
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...can.. .....will..... just.............see come visit my photo albums and see some pictures of mary's beadwork http://forums.psychcentral.com/album.php?albumid=305 Problems are only opportunities with thorns on them." ~ Hugh Miller |
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#72
Oct 14, 2009, 05:25 PM
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If you don't mind me asking, what does she want you to do?
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Oct 14, 2009, 05:29 PM
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why is it your fault? we all have to hope somtimes.... you did nothing wrong - you hoped for a good outcome - you didnt get the answer you wanted - it is ok to be sad - to be angry - to shout and scream and throw pillows at the wall grrrrrrrr - when you hope and you dont get the outcome you want it can be devestating - especially where health is concerned
what does the case worker want you to do? cna you tel them youre not ready? and the Social Security? whats up with them? do you nwant to talk about it? you need to ground yourself - take a liong shower - go smell some flowers - watch a funny movie - listen to calming music - or call a friend and rant and rave till you feel better - or come bakc here and let it all out - we are listening ...... P7
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Its not how many times you fall down that counts its how many times you get back up! (Thanks to fenrir for my Picture )When you have come to the edge of all light that you know and are about to drop off into the darkness of the unknown, Faith is knowing One of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on or you will be taught to fly. by Patrick Overton, author and poet |
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Oct 20, 2009, 07:43 AM
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 ((((((((((((((((( beads ))))))))))))))))) Thinking of you Sorry I missed you in chat the other day. How are you doing now my friend?
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Oct 20, 2009, 03:50 PM
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hi Sannah sory it take us so logn to get bak hear............
she is want to start somethign call a PASS plan it has ta do wiht self-eployment while u are on disablilty adn beads does NOT trust her are her stupid papers thanx, \beads
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