Welcome to couch number 23!

It would be silly to say that I am going through a mid-life crisis at the age of 28, wouldn't it??

Who the hell am I?

forgive me, I am going through something.

Healed , you will change many times through your life as you grow. People are not static, we all evolve over time...give your self a break .

Bifocals, Mid life crisis's.

I guess no time like now to report that I think I am going thru menopause at age 33.

All right, Chopin just practiced the piano for 30 minutes. Now, I can't type. It's as if my fingers are going, "You no longer know this language called English. You are now in piano mode." Seriously...it's weird!!

Boss knows that fear no longer works with me. He knows a good challenge will!

Um, no.

How do you feel about that?

Um, no. [/quote]

Ahhhh..Whatever. No kids coming my way. I'm damaged goods. So if it happens, it happens.

Don't say that Jersey, you are not damaged goods!

I'm going to hug you anyway.

((Jersey))

Thanks Lola..but I am.

Hey, look at my numbers. I am not too far away from 3000.

omg i am trying so hard to not have anything to do with the horror that is my family. they keep making such a big deal about what is going on between me my aunt and grandmother. they are horrible people and have never ever made me feel like any part of there family. now that i have said i want nothing to do with then suddenly everyone is intrested in me and my son .they are sending me B-day presents i dont want they have invited me to my grandmothers b-day party. thet want my sons address to send him stuff. they never wanted to do any of this stuff .we didnt matter to them. why do we now .i'm getting the, life is to short crap from my farther and uncle but they are not the ones being treated like this. and i am doing just fine not talking to them. i'm over it, i'm not angry i am happy without them being able to be mean to me. life is to short to let people treat me like that. to short to waste my time on horrible people who doesnt want anything to do with me.but doesnt want to look bad. i want them to all leave me alone. i was having a good day why keep reminding me i was treated like this

Okay - I am going to have use my stern couch voice -
Stop criticizing yourself. All of you. You are worthy of goodness, happiness and fulfillment. You may have been damaged by others, but that does not make you damaged goods.
Jeepers. Stop it now.

Gee whiz, no one has to deal with family members who treat them badly. You don't deserve it and you don't have to take it.

Granite. You don't have to let them into your life if you are truely happier without them. Tell them they made their decision and now you made yours.

granite

Sorry I've been such a train wreck today.
Been doing lots of thinking tonight.

Sconnie...I read your thread. I would be upset by that to. You have every right to call and complain. That is a lot to deal with in an already uncomfortable situation.

they all keep acting like my grandmother is the victom. i should let it go because she is so old i should know she is just stupid and all this and acting like anything my grandmother does is ok and i'm the one who is being horrible for not talking to any of them and they keep saying this and my farther feels the need to inform me of all this .i love my farther but if he keeps up i wont be able to talk to him. i'm just horrible tonight.

i'm sorry guys i know people are hurting
i'm sorry sconnie and jersey tonight seems to be so bad for you.do you both have T tomorrow?

be back tomorrow love you all it is time for me to step out. have a safe evening my couch peeps

All right...group hug.



Well, except stopdog and pbutton.

I don't have t until Thursday. I almost called today to ask if there were any earlier appointments.... I should have done that.

Good night couch, it is back to work for me tomorrow.