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Old Jul 26, 2013, 05:13 PM
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Weird thing is I am not happy to have her here. I am very focused on my routine and developing one and all of a sudden she's here and its throwing my routine off.
I know that feeling. When I was in another city on contract, W came to visit me in my hotel room. It was a small room and I felt she was invading my personal space.
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Old Jul 26, 2013, 05:15 PM
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Stay away from my juniper bush SD. I'm watching you....
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Old Jul 26, 2013, 05:22 PM
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I tore the meniscus in my knee nine days ago, running in worn out shoes. [which makes me feel old and stupid anyway.] The doctor told me to take it easy "for a while." I did not ask him to define that term. I plan on wearing a knee brace and doing one of my Jillian Michaels videos this weekend. I am wondering if this is a good, health conscious thing to do, or something that my T would refer to as "a symptom." LOL.
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Old Jul 26, 2013, 05:22 PM
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OMG.... I am about to implode. The buyer wants an extension, the lender wants another month to close and we are already both moved out and in need of our funds. I am about to lose it. W is at the house too and I can't help but get angry and want to take it out on her, because she pushed the sale of the house and now look at the mess I am in. Financial ruin is in my near future. I emailed the lender both agents and underwriting and said If they need more time I need a date or I will NOT extend the contract ( they have had 7 weeks to close ) and Ill put it back on the market. Of course Ill file bankruptcy then as I cant afford to pay all my bills and my new place and the old place.... I have no one to talk to about this either.
It's a blasted nuisance and a serious pain.

You are quite right to ask for a date. You can then go to your creditors and give them a date.

I hope you will be able to avoid bankruptcy. You are not actually short of money, you just can't get your hands on it. Either the buyer will stump up or you'll get your old house back (and keep the deposit, too, yes?). You're illiquid, not insolvent.
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Old Jul 26, 2013, 05:25 PM
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I have no one to talk to about this either.
A sympathetic boss can be a great comfort at a time like this. Do you have a sympathetic boss?
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Old Jul 26, 2013, 05:31 PM
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A sympathetic boss can be a great comfort at a time like this. Do you have a sympathetic boss?
That's an oxymoron CE.
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Old Jul 26, 2013, 05:32 PM
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OK Now I'm away. See ya!!!!!
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Old Jul 26, 2013, 05:35 PM
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Yes SD Ill take a spanking... ( notice I hugged you ) and My new boss is like an akward 8th grade boy at graduation, hair perfect...dressed in Sunday best and a rule follower. You just wanna pinch his cheeks and give him a cookie, then sit him in front of a nice after school special .... Im going to rock his world... LOL
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Old Jul 26, 2013, 05:37 PM
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I tore the meniscus in my knee nine days ago, running ...
I have yet to pull anything going to the fridge and sitting on my fluffy arse!

BP.... it wasn't a wrath, God help all who feel my "wrath"
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Old Jul 26, 2013, 05:37 PM
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Lola...just don't go breastfeeding him!
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Old Jul 26, 2013, 05:38 PM
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MKAC....grrrr...can't you just wait a few more days? What's that? Oh, you want surgery? I see.
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Old Jul 26, 2013, 05:51 PM
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Lola...just don't go breastfeeding him!
So NOT going to happen... but I may lick my hand and rub it on his hair, if one is out of place
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Old Jul 26, 2013, 05:54 PM
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Lola...just don't go breastfeeding him!
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So NOT going to happen... but I may lick my hand and rub it on his hair, if one is out of place
I don't know which of these acks me out more
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Old Jul 26, 2013, 06:16 PM
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I think Lola always needs a good spanking.. Hang in there girl!!

My anxiety has subsided, 4 hours checking out customers and hanging clothes helped me to focus on something different. Have I mentioned I hate my summer job? Because really I do!!! I am already telling h that I gonna put in my two weeks notice!

Who wants to come massage my feet? They hurt like heck!!
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Old Jul 26, 2013, 06:29 PM
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I wish I could tell people NO... Why oh why do I not do what I need to do for me and my family first.... I always feel like whatever I do is not the right thing....

And now my anxiety is so high....

Going to pick up a friend then run errands
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Old Jul 26, 2013, 07:41 PM
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That's an oxymoron CE.
I have a sympathetic boss. I don't know how common they are...
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Old Jul 26, 2013, 07:54 PM
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Yes SD Ill take a spanking... ( notice I hugged you ) and My new boss is like an akward 8th grade boy at graduation, hair perfect...dressed in Sunday best and a rule follower. You just wanna pinch his cheeks and give him a cookie, then sit him in front of a nice after school special .... Im going to rock his world... LOL
In September, I'm about to experience my first boss/manager that is young enough to be my son. He graduated from college in 2008. I'm keeping an open mind. I've never met him or seen his picture. I did talk to him on the phone once several months back before I knew he'd get this position. I hope he isn't like yours....
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Old Jul 26, 2013, 07:59 PM
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Hi Bonnie!
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Old Jul 26, 2013, 08:00 PM
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I have a sympathetic boss. I don't know how common they are...
I am a sympathetic boss and I am pretty common.
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Old Jul 26, 2013, 08:01 PM
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Old Jul 26, 2013, 08:20 PM
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sh it.

I just had to call the police on a neighbor behind us. The mother was screaming expletives, and the little kids were screaming "daddy don't, please stop", and bawling. No idea what was going on, but it sounded horrid. I am shaking. And of course the cops come to my door first...so they'll know who called. What ever. I will not sit by and hear distressed kids and not do something. I probably should have just gone over there myself, but I was scared.

I am so shaky now. I want to puke.
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Old Jul 26, 2013, 08:22 PM
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sh it.

I just had to call the police on a neighbor behind us. The mother was screaming expletives, and the little kids were screaming "daddy don't, please stop", and bawling. No idea what was going on, but it sounded horrid. I am shaking. And of course the cops come to my door first...so they'll know who called. What ever. I will not sit by and hear distressed kids and not do something. I probably should have just gone over there myself, but I was scared.

I am so shaky now. I want to puke.
You did the right thing. There was nothing else to be done.
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Old Jul 26, 2013, 08:59 PM
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You did exactly the right thing, Wikid. You were right to not go over there.
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Old Jul 27, 2013, 05:14 AM
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wiki how horrible to have to be part of that .glad you called the cops.hopefuly that child id safe now . stupid people .glad you kept yourself safe also
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Old Jul 27, 2013, 06:49 AM
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There was one police car, and then three more came later. It looks like the guy was taken into custody. The woman was screaming bloody murder. It was the kids screams that got to me the most. Why should they have to live thru that? not fair. They yell a lot, she cusses the kids out all the time...they are preschool aged, maybe 4 & 5? She's a definite screamer, so it's hard to tell how bad it is. I won't ignore a child's cry for help. Really shook me up though...flashbacks and nightmares. Still shaking.

I think we are going to hit the fair today. Last night Tommy James and the Shondells played, darn we missed it. I think Steve Augeri is playing this afternoon.

I have a shiner. Sadie got nervous in the middle of the night and jumped in bed with us, she stepped on my eye and punctured my lower eyelid with her nail. ( Her recently trimmed nail.) Grrrr. Kind of swollen and really sore.
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