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Old Jan 27, 2015, 03:58 PM
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I am much better spoken in text... I have time to google the least offensive response haha. Or think of the least offensive thing to say.

I am pretty much a social disaster. Even my husband who I have been with over 10 years (and was best friends with first) doesn't understand me. LOL
Ten years is a good score.

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Kudos to him who can love a woman he doesn't understand.
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Old Jan 27, 2015, 04:04 PM
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Ten years is a good score.

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Kudos to him who can love a woman he doesn't understand.
Hah... I don't understand him either. It is a wonder we have lasted this long. lol
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Old Jan 27, 2015, 04:07 PM
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Hi.. Not been too active lately. Hanging out in the frozen tundra of my state, but at least we aren't getting a blizzard right now. *sigh* is it spring yet?

In other news.. after getting used to running into T at school, and at our kid's dance studio, I thought I was used to seeing him outside of his office. Until, I ran into him at the grocery store yesterday. I went to a store I don't usually go to, and who is standing at the check out two people ahead of me? T.. Weird. It struck me so differently than seeing him at school or at the studio.. maybe I am always prepared to see him. I can't get a way from the guy!!
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Old Jan 27, 2015, 04:08 PM
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Ten years is a good score.

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Kudos to him who can love a woman he doesn't understand.
For some of us, it is the lack of understanding that makes love possible.
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Old Jan 27, 2015, 04:16 PM
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Hah... I don't understand him either. It is a wonder we have lasted this long. lol
Haha. I don't understand my DH either - and he doesn't understand me. We are a match made in heaven!
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Old Jan 27, 2015, 04:45 PM
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I'm feeling a bit paranoid for no very good reason.
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Old Jan 27, 2015, 04:48 PM
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I'm feeling a bit paranoid for no very good reason.
I hope you feel better soon, CE.
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Old Jan 27, 2015, 04:55 PM
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Haha. I don't understand my DH either - and he doesn't understand me. We are a match made in heaven!

Funny how that is... I remember reading somewhere that you need some mystery to maintain love. Kinda makes sense, I understand the stbx far too well.

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Old Jan 27, 2015, 05:02 PM
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I don't buy the "mystery is necessary" theory. It sounds like romanticising to me.
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Old Jan 27, 2015, 05:06 PM
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I'm having to watch my mouth/fingers (thumbs!) these days. The urge to tell people to cop on and grow the f- up is strong lately. And yes, I know the answer to that one is if it was so easy to cop on and grow up I'd have done it already...

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Old Jan 27, 2015, 05:07 PM
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I don't buy the "mystery is necessary" theory. It sounds like romanticising to me.

But romance is romanticising

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Old Jan 27, 2015, 05:10 PM
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I'm hitting some sort of wall in T lately. Something is missing from the connection. I'm missing something and I don't know what it is... I suspect whatever-it-is is related to whatever-it-was that made previous T so upset with me.

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Old Jan 27, 2015, 06:36 PM
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Hi couchies iwas having a good morning til my ex rang and went on about being friends. This someting i am working on in T as I have suc rigid boundaries with everyone.
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Old Jan 27, 2015, 06:45 PM
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Old Jan 27, 2015, 06:49 PM
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I don't know why I let him make me feel like this. It stupid I am shaking and anxious, I feel he's going to do something. I tried to be friends but obviously my (scewed up) idea of friends is different to his. He was talking about him being the girls father and I couldn't tell him that the girls don't want to go over and visit him. I really don't want to hurt him but whatever I do he gets upset and if we ignore things he gets upset. I can't win...
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Old Jan 27, 2015, 06:49 PM
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OK enough of my griping. What is everyone doing today?
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Old Jan 27, 2015, 06:55 PM
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I'm just relaxing. Mondays are long days for me as I have chorus rehearsals in the evening and don't get home until around 10:45PM. So Tuesdays I'm usually pooped.

Now I'm waiting for a call from my son who is studying chemistry with a friend. I'll go pick him up and then get supper going. Hope he calls soon. I'm getting hungry.

All in all, today's been pretty uneventful.I like it that way.
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Old Jan 27, 2015, 07:01 PM
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I'm just relaxing. Mondays are long days for me as I have chorus rehearsals in the evening and don't get home until around 10:45PM. So Tuesdays I'm usually pooped.

Now I'm waiting for a call from my son who is studying chemistry with a friend. I'll go pick him up and then get supper going. Hope he calls soon. I'm getting hungry.

All in all, today's been pretty uneventful.I like it that way.
Uneventful days are nice. I treasure them but probably waste them too. Hope your sons home soon and you can eat. Have good evening. I have to hang the washing out its frecast thunderstorms this afternoon.
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Old Jan 27, 2015, 07:10 PM
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I don't know why I let him make me feel like this. It stupid I am shaking and anxious, I feel he's going to do something. I tried to be friends but obviously my (scewed up) idea of friends is different to his. He was talking about him being the girls father and I couldn't tell him that the girls don't want to go over and visit him. I really don't want to hurt him but whatever I do he gets upset and if we ignore things he gets upset. I can't win...

Sounds like his idea of friends is you doing whatever he wants. Don't let him get to you BPA, and don't worry about hurting him. You're just telling him the truth. How he handles it is his own problem.

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Old Jan 27, 2015, 07:18 PM
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Sounds like his idea of friends is you doing whatever he wants. Don't let him get to you BPA, and don't worry about hurting him. You're just telling him the truth. How he handles it is his own problem.

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Thanks JS I think i need to constantly remind myself of this. I think he is trying set me up for being bad guy(girl does suit that staement) So he can say I tried but BPA wouldn't let the girls see me etc.
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Old Jan 27, 2015, 07:19 PM
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JS hows the house hunting going?
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Old Jan 27, 2015, 07:27 PM
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JS hows the house hunting going?
I have a place. Now I just need to prove income. I found a slightly iffy part time job that I hope will help. I only need it to work out for long enough to get the apartment approved, so hopefully...


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Old Jan 27, 2015, 07:37 PM
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Ok embarrassing question part two. Once one has worn the aforementioned panty hose, how should they be laundered?

I threw the package away so I haven't the foggiest.
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Old Jan 27, 2015, 07:37 PM
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I have a place. Now I just need to prove income. I found a slightly iffy part time job that I hope will help. I only need it to work out for long enough to get the apartment approved, so hopefully...


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Good luck! I'm hoping it works out just as you want.
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Old Jan 27, 2015, 07:41 PM
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today I wrote up the rest of that horrible dream that I couldn't talk to t about last Tuesday without panicking .just in case im brave
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