Couch 113 - Sofa, So Good

There were too many to pick favourites, some of them are just beds which is cheating a bit I think.

Agreed. I can do that now! But some were pretty cool.

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Fml. All of it. Every single bit. Nothing gets better it just gets worse.

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Sorry, Ellahmae.

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((EllahMae))

What's up?

Yeah, that's pretty much what happens at my house. Tonight I told him that very tearfully. And I told him that I don't want money issues to tear us apart. He is thinking about getting the insurance.

He's a contractor and as long as he proves that he has insurance they look the other way as to whether it is commercial or not. I think it's one of those gray areas for them. I don't understand it. But you're right - I do worry too much. We've worked on it in therapy before and it's time to bring it up again. Because it's not healthy either you're absolutely right.

thank you.

Thanks.... and yeah, I do know that, because when we went through bankruptcy 4 years ago we kept the house we were living in at the time (the one we recently traded as part of buying current house). We lost the one we had owned in CA through the bankruptcy though. And that's what scares me so much. We wouldn't be able to file bankruptcy again for however many years if the worse did happen. I don't know why my mind always goes to the worst thing. I do need to work a lot more on this.

While talking with my h this evening, after I told him I was afraid that money was going to tear us apart, he was being very rational and calm with me and didn't yell at me or get frustrated which was unusual. He said that he thinks we should go to a Financial Peace University course because it would help me a lot with my fear of money> I admit that, I hate money, I am afraid of money, etc. It controls me, not the other way around. It's how I was brought up. Money was always held over my head in every way, shape, and form. I think he's right, that course would be very good for me to learn how to be in control of my money, instead of letting it control me.

Thank you my friends, I so appreciate every one of you here.

I'm sorry, Ellahmae. Sending hugs your way.

Many of them look more like beds than comfortable reading areas. Many just looked flat uncomfortable. Nookish yes, comfy no.

Personally I like to sit upright on an at least semi-firm surface while reading. Otherwise I'll fall asleep.

Just got out of the Garth Brooks/Trisha Yearwood concert. AMAZING SHOW!!!and my bff who bought the tickets made sure we were WAY up high by the aisle which made the crowd way more manageable to be. But when Trisha Year wood came out I realized my T looks like her and then I sat there girl crushing on Trisha Yearwood. Therapy is weird...

I'm glad you had a good time.

Situation normal. I have been made personally responsible for an urgent crisis and no one has time to return my calls.

Second thoughts

Wow trailrunner thanks for trusting us enoough to not only share but invite us into your haven. It looks restful.

Thank you!! I was about to have a panic thing after I touched reply. Can't explain that. Thank you again. It is my safe place.

Thank you again but I went back and tried to delete my post but I don't k ow how. Not that I don't want to invite you here it was just different to see my space on this screen. Hope that makes sense.

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Totally understand.

The problem with 1 is that books should not be exposed to that much sunlight, but it does look rather pleasant.

I like the ones that are very secluded and where you can't be seen from the outside - but I also think that the lighting seems to be a bit poor in many of those. Not much of a reading nook if you can't see the book.

Btw, the numbers change because they are based on people's votes... the one with the too-small door is now number 3 rather than 4.

So do I. It is important to remember that this is not a secluded area. Many many people read this forum without ever posting.

You can delete a post up to four hours after you write it: it's the "Edit" button (which goes away after four hours) and then "Delete", mark "Delete this messge" and click the "Delete" button. You don't have to fill out the reason, nobody will see that anyway. (I delete a lot of my posts very quickly so I know the proceedure quite well )

Well. That changes things. But, you don't have to have the books right there where the sunlight is. And you could maybe ads a light somewhere. As for the windows, I could totally agree with that.

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I understand that. I've shared pictures of things before and then freaked out as soon as I saw them on the screen - same thing not that I don't want to share with you guys but.. yeah.

Thank you!! I will remember that. Was looking for those options but couldn't figure it out, in the moment.

Thank you for reminding me that you guys are not the only ones "there." I get so comfortable talking with you that I forget that. I will remember now.

Feel drugged don't know what my evening included last night. So out of it and tired.

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