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#701
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![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() One of the hardest lessons I had to learn was that a T cannot read minds. Some have shown quite incredible ability to misunderstand me. If you can't reach your T, maybe there is an emergency support organisation you could call? Maybe we should all ask our Ts who to call in a mental health emergency, so as to be ready for the worst.
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#702
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How do you deal with knowing there's a secret but not knowing what it is? I'm so insanely curious. My mom mentioned tonight that she has a secret about two of my aunts out of the three. No one knows but the husbands and the sisters. Not even their kids. She said it's a secret that could ruin the family. She said I don't want to know, and that it could change my view of my aunts. She said telling me would ruin her relationship with them. I know it's not her secret to tell, and I would never want to ruin her relationships with her sisters, but I can't stop thinking about what the secrets might be. I don't want her to tell me, but at the same time I do. How do I get over this and stop obsessing about it? I keep imagining these terrible things, and I don't know what to think. What should I do?
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Also, how do you deal with holding other peoples' secrets? I know eight secrets about people, and part of me wants to tell someone. But I know it's not my secret to tell. But it's hard for me to hold it in and not talk about it. How do you deal with that?
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#704
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I don't know why people have this need to control other people by saying they know a secret and they can't tell. Just keep it to themselves and don't cause unrest by teasing.
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#705
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#706
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#707
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Glad you have good relationship with your mum |
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#708
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The puppy just stole half of my ham and cheese sandwich. I may have to put a smear of vegemite on t deter him. And I just won't eat that corner.
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#709
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#710
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Try to forget about it. Or maybe tell her this is bugging you and ask her to reassure you it's nothing too bad. |
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#711
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I'm having one of those weeks where I'm curled up in a fetal position inside my head. If that makes sense.
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#712
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http://www.theonion.com/article/fami...be-boring-1263
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Mr Ambassador, alias Ancient Plax, alias Captain Therapy, alias Big Poppa, alias Secret Spy, etc. Add that to your tattoo, Baby! |
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#713
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So that's what I mean by it being individual. I simply don't enjoy gossip so for me it's easy not to do it - that's not because I am a better person, it's no different from how I don't like swimming so I don't do it, and that doesn't make me a worse person. I might be a little jealous of people who enjoy swimming, but I don't think they are more morally upstanding for having a different set of hormones. ![]() |
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#714
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#715
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Some threads. *shakes head in wonder and bafflement*
(Being specific would be against the rules, but I'm sure I'm not the only one whose non is occasionally plussed?) |
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#716
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Up early this morning going to watch a family member get married in New Jersey and sometime by the ocean, and time with family we actually like! Although I have the next 6hrs to sit next to my husband and stew in the nasty comment my husband said about me a couple of nights ago..
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"You decide every moment of every day who you are and what you believe in. You get a second chance, every second." "You fail to recognize that it matters not what someone is born, but what they grow to be!" - J.K. Rowling. Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire. |
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#717
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I do enjoy The Onion.
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Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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#718
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I am heading into campus to inspect my new office. I'm hoping it has a trapdoor down to a shark pool (a la James Bond) to dump students through if need be.
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#719
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I should have gone in this week but I haven't found the energy. I start teaching on Monday.... have been assigned a student who writes in a language I'm not actually qualified to teach in (although I do speak it, natively - not the same thing, though). Joy. |
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#720
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And laser beams - you want the sharks to have frickin' laser beams.
I would have settled for an ejection chair where I could just eject students out of my office in an arc. But so far, my requests have been ignored.
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Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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#721
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Ellahmae, did your T get in touch with you? I hope you're feeling better!
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#722
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I just ate a few spoonfuls of Greek yogurt and then saw the date was June 15!! Threw it out of course! Do you think I'll get sick? I'll ask the dr. when I go today. I thought all my yogurt in the fridge was new.
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#723
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Lots of products with expiration dates are perfectly good for some time afterwards if they are sealed, and if they are perishable, sealed and kept in the freezer/fridge. |
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#725
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No, unless it tasted or smelt really bad, it won't make you sick. It is generally a waste to throw away foodstuff because of an expiration date, if it looks, tastes, and smells okay. (Raw meat and fish being exceptions - you don't want to take any risks with those.)
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