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#176
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![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Often, that's how the healing happens. You tear open the stitches and the wound bleeds. But then it heals properly.
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#177
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![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Much of our mental pain is a broken bone set crooked. The bone much break again before it can be set straight.
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#178
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When I was a juvenile therapy was not on a first name basis but it has been since I've been an adult. Call her dr, they seem a tad full of themselves in my opinion.
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"Although the world is full of suffering, it is also full of the overcoming of it.” – Helen Keller |
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#179
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I call T by his last name... In my mother tongue we also differ between "you" for family/friends and "you" for strangers. T and I use the "you" for strangers (Uh... I hope that makes some sense)
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#180
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I can't call him by name, just "you". |
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#181
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Yes, that makes sense. But I'm surprised. I would expect the French, for example, to use "tu" in therapy. It's an intimate relationship.
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I'm still trying to figure out how long do you boil an egg. I hear it's not until all the water evaporates. Is that true?🤔
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#183
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I keep having recurring dreams that I'm trying to talk to my T but he just ignores me and goes to talk to someone else
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#184
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Not to the therapist.
Last edited by atisketatasket; May 25, 2017 at 08:33 AM. |
#185
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So was I... I looked it up in some other forums. Most people wrote that they'd be more uncomfortable with the T using their first name and the more personal version for you ("tu" instead of "vous" for the french :P)
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I do not wanna be afraid I do not wanna die inside just to breathe in I'm tired of feeling so numb |
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At first I was super uncomfortable with my T using "tu", but now I can't imagine him using "vous" with me. I use "vous" because..because he is T.
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I guess that's something I am starting to learn recently w/in my own t relationship. She's definitely changing how she works with me. A part of me knows that she's needed to make these changes for a long time... if she hadn't I can see I would probably never leave. And I need to leave one of these days.
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#188
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anyone on the couch watching The Handmaid's Tale?
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#189
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i'm still trying to adjust to being home
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#190
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No, but I would like to tape it if possible, what channel is it on?
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#191
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And I don't have a problem if both parties are going to be formal/both address each other by last name -but there's no way in hell I would address a therapist by their title/last name and let them use the familiar with me
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Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. Last edited by stopdog; May 25, 2017 at 08:59 AM. |
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#192
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It's only on hulu
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#193
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My puppy
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I'm off today and somewhat cleaned my house. I didn't mop the floors but it's raining and just doesn't make sense to mop them with the dogs running in and out. I did however dust, clean the bathroom and kitchen. It's not my best work but it's clean and calm enough till I scrub it on Sunday morning. My plan for the rest of the day is to catch up on the couch, nap watch TV and just let my mind be blank. I was considering drafting a letter to XT to mail to her office. It won't be a mean a letter. It would just be a letter to say all the things I didn't get a chance to say to her. Not sure if its a good idea or not. It's been 7 months since I saw her last. Should I let a full year go by before I do something like that?
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#195
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Could you write the letter and wait a month or two before deciding to send it?
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Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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#196
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I can do that for sure. I think that would be best.
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You know ...once you realize how much money is spent on therapy it's insane. I paid XT 80 bucks a sesssion. That's on the cheaper side. Our sessions were weekly. So that's like what 4 grand a year? And then spending 8 years there..it's like 30 something grand total on therapy? Wow, imagine if I saved that money. Therapy is a total money suck.
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Eta: although as we all know therapists are perfect, so no one would need to write them a letter, because they never do wrong! ![]() |
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