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Old Sep 25, 2017, 12:46 AM
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Awesome idea!!
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Old Oct 01, 2017, 09:26 PM
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So did you make them yet?Did you give them to your T yet?
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Old Oct 01, 2017, 09:36 PM
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So pretty and very thoughtful!! Let us know how it goes?
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Old Oct 02, 2017, 11:42 AM
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Not yet. I've only made a couple practice ones so far. I'll have the actual ones ready to give when he gets back from his trip a month from now.
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Old Oct 26, 2018, 06:35 PM
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Resurrecting this old thread for no good reason (except I'm re-reading it). I never made those origami flowers, but I did buy my therapist a bouquet of yellow roses in May. He liked them. I wish I had time to bring him more flowers more frequently. Next May, I'm going to bring flowers to his grave.

If my therapist were alive and healthy, I would bring him flowers all the time. And postcards of art, poetry, trinkets, and other little things. He wouldn't accept expensive gifts from me, but he accepted little things. If only I had more time with him...

If I could do things over again, I would have brought him flowers when I first posted this thread. I wouldn't have waited months and months. I would have let him know early on how much he meant to me. But I was so afraid.

Afraid of looking crazy or stupid or ridiculous. Afraid of rejection. I was afraid he'd terminate me if I told him that I loved him. How silly! But that was the process. That was therapy.

If I could do it over again, I would not have doubted him.

If I had more time with him, I would trust him completely.

If only, if only, if only...
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Old Oct 26, 2018, 07:43 PM
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Hugs...I am so sorry you are in so much pain.
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Old Oct 26, 2018, 08:23 PM
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Not weird at all. I have given my therapist flowers.
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Old Oct 26, 2018, 10:40 PM
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Maybe around 2.
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Old Oct 27, 2018, 01:57 AM
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I'm glad you were able to give these yellow roses to him in May.
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Old Oct 27, 2018, 05:16 AM
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Resurrecting this old thread for no good reason (except I'm re-reading it). I never made those origami flowers, but I did buy my therapist a bouquet of yellow roses in May. He liked them. I wish I had time to bring him more flowers more frequently. Next May, I'm going to bring flowers to his grave.

If my therapist were alive and healthy, I would bring him flowers all the time. And postcards of art, poetry, trinkets, and other little things. He wouldn't accept expensive gifts from me, but he accepted little things. If only I had more time with him...

If I could do things over again, I would have brought him flowers when I first posted this thread. I wouldn't have waited months and months. I would have let him know early on how much he meant to me. But I was so afraid.

Afraid of looking crazy or stupid or ridiculous. Afraid of rejection. I was afraid he'd terminate me if I told him that I loved him. How silly! But that was the process. That was therapy.

If I could do it over again, I would not have doubted him.

If I had more time with him, I would trust him completely.

If only, if only, if only...


I'm sure your T knew how much you cared about him.
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Old Oct 27, 2018, 07:09 AM
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I have mixed feelings about this I am unable to explain. Somehow I think that a plant would be more appropriate than flowers.
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