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Oct 31, 2007, 12:30 AM
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I am taking a class in human sexuality and our next paper is to be on any topic of interest in regards to sex. I have decided to do my paper on erotic transference and countertransference. I just ordered two books from amazon.com. I cannot wait to start researching this. I will, of course, update you all with any interesting findings.
Ahhhh, there is nothing like erotic transference to help you see the light at the end of a tunnel in a depression. Eeeek, time for bed. |
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Oct 31, 2007, 02:44 AM
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pinksoil,
I lurk around here alot and I don't post often mostly due to depression. But, I just wanted to say how much I like you and admire youe honesty. You make me smile many times! Thank you for being you......
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Oct 31, 2007, 09:45 AM
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That should be interesting, do keep us informed. You starting from this?
http://www.guidetopsychology.com/ero...ansference.htm
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Oct 31, 2007, 03:22 PM
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Pink,
Should be stimulating reading! |
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Oct 31, 2007, 03:37 PM
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I was told to stop therapy with my pdoc because of the erotic transference. Too close. :-(
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Oct 31, 2007, 05:53 PM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
pinksoil said: IAhhhh, there is nothing like erotic transference to help you see the light at the end of a tunnel in a depression. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post">That is very positive and hopeful. Enjoy!
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#7
Oct 31, 2007, 07:07 PM
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Secret Garden!!! You're back!! Are you ok???
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Oct 31, 2007, 10:22 PM
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pink... is this going to be x-rated? i am interested in what you uncover, the topic is one that i am wanting to know more about. If you find anything that talks about what to do about it let me know. i had two instances of it and it just nevers goes away, you just learnt to live around it... can we get to read some of your paper maybe?
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Oct 31, 2007, 10:45 PM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
gerber said: i had two instances of it and it just nevers goes away, </div></font></blockquote><font class="post">I think maybe I had some of it early in therapy. But it did go away. I thought about T and therapy every waking minute. I looked at pics of him all the time on my computer. I searched out information on him on the Internet. Kind of like the flush of new love. But I passed through that really intense, almost obsessive phase and came out the other side with a really strong relationship with a lot of love and trust. I am never jealous of his wife or other clients and never have been. Maybe I needed to go through that more obsessive phase in order to attach so strongly to him? Anyway, I think it is possible to have some transference and then move beyond it. Pinksoil, I will be interested to hear what you find out with your research. What books did you order from Amazon? I have seen a book there about erotic transference and it has a pic of a really scary, leering woman on it. Did you get that one?  ETA: here is the link to that book (please note I've never read this book so this is not a recommendation!): transference book
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Oct 31, 2007, 11:37 PM
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Pink, I am sitting on the edge of my seat! This is still an untouched area in my therapy. I need to get over this first intense wave.
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My new blog http://www.thetherapybuzz.com "I am not obsessing, I am growing and healing can't you tell?" |
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Nov 01, 2007, 06:57 AM
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I use to want to be T's lover. She and I both female, and I'm a middle aged married mother and she is a middle aged mother. Eventually the "eroticism" faded, as my emotional needs got met. Can you imagine a 3yr old having consious sexual feelings? Mix that with the attachment needs a child has and it all becomes a real mix of feelings. I think thats all thats about, the 3yr inside us also now has adult sexual awareness and attachment triggers all, its not really a "i love you truely" sexual thing, its just like being touched in the right place by anyone blindfolded and the body will respond??
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Nov 01, 2007, 01:38 PM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
What books did you order from Amazon? I have seen a book there about erotic transference and it has a pic of a really scary, leering woman on it. Did you get that one? </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Hahaha, Sunny that is the one I got! The leering woman, yes. I also got: Psychotherapy-- An Erotic Relationship--Transference and Countertransference by David Mann. He has written quite a few books on the subject. |
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