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#451
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I have slept all but about 8 of the last 48 hours. I will be so glad when this crud works its way out of my head.
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Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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#452
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Their broccoli kale and their cauliflower pizza crusts are gf and good. |
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#453
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I'm one of those stupid students who sent my professor an email yesterday telling her I might be looking at hospitalization (again) soon. I don't know if it'll happen, but I'm worried about it happening after last week with the pdoc. So I wanted to let her know just in case even though I told her I know I'll still get docked points if anything is late. I'm regretting sending it now and haven't even read her reply. Nice and relevant to discussing anxiety and mood disorders in class.
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#454
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I feel like ****. I want to ask for an extra session tomorrow but that seems excessive. He's probably sick of me.
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#455
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@NP_Complete - you're allowed to need as much support as you need. You're in a supremely uncomfortable spot at the moment. If it's not too late, I hope you will reach out. Your T would want you to.
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'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
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#456
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I met with t yesterday to talk about our issues. It didn’t really change the way I have been feeling about him or my therapy.
I am just stuck in this position that I am clinging to t because of what he represents to me and how it used to feel in therapy. And now, where there is this block between the two of us.
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"You decide every moment of every day who you are and what you believe in. You get a second chance, every second." "You fail to recognize that it matters not what someone is born, but what they grow to be!" - J.K. Rowling. Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire. |
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#457
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![]() If you needed to see T 5 times a week that would be okay. I'm a firm believer of you needing as much support as you need. Yes someone might only go every month but they're not you. I hope you can ask T for what you need,
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#458
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![]() What has he said about his part in this? Do you think you could be ready to try someone new or take a longer break from him?
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#459
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![]() I don't think it's stupid. I think it's best to be upfront if you can. Sometimes they can make small adjustments that do help.
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#460
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Una you broke the second rule of fight club.
1. Don't analyze SD. 2.never hug SD
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#461
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So far, not having any regrets about taking break from T. Honestly, my main regret is not doing it sooner--I could have saved myself a lot of distress (and money--the other T's I'm trying are all cheaper, even with T giving me a reduced rate). Phone consult with K2 at 10:15 today, meeting with M tomorrow, and think I may be able to see K1 (the consulting T) on Thursday. And lunch with a friend Friday.
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#462
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#463
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![]() Yerr not the only one who knerrs anatomy! ![]() Wait - i hugged her?? Oh no! ![]() Man i had weird dreams this morning. |
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#464
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K2 is a very very very bad mountain. More deadly than Everest, percentage-wise. Harder to climb. Wasn’t conquered till after Everest. Site of possibly the greatest single-person feat in Himalayan history: The Miracle Belay So, if there’s a chance the nickname might become self-fulfilling, avoid using K2. ![]() |
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#465
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Good point! Didn't realize it was deadlier than Everest (that's the one that gets all the movies and stuff). I'm now also torn on how to refer to the T I just left. Does he become "ex-T" and the T formerly known as "ex-T" become "ex-ex-T"? I don't talk about her that much, so might just go with that. (I suppose I could do "Ex-Dr. T" but that's a pain to type...) |
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#466
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I would just keep Dr. T and use the past tense.
There really needs to be a how-to for therapist monikers. |
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#467
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But yep you had hugged SD on a post. Dreaming of me again? ![]()
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#468
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If I end up going with the T I see tomorrow, he also works as an art therapist, so he could be AT for Art T. He also mentions loving cats in his profile, so Cat T (CT?) is another option...Don't know enough about the woman I'm talking to in a half hour (just her Psychology Today profile--doesn't have a website listed, whereas I was able to find CT's professional website and his LinkedIn page (which includes a cat in his profile photo...it's quite unique. CAT? ACT? |
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#469
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Also, I don't think any of the ones I'm interviewing (including the one who's not available till next month) are PhDs, so they can't insist I call them Dr. T. Well, I suppose they could, but... Bonus: they're also cheaper as a result of no PhD.
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#470
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I never knew of the K2 mountain. @@ It took me ages to realize that at one point you had two T's which alternated.
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#471
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But what about attachment T
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#472
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I saw R today. He emailed in the morning saying he had a slot at 10.40am today and commented having no fixed session seemed to be working better for me.
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#473
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[Woo alert] I seem to be seeing a lot of sequential numbers today - 11:11, 12:34 and just now 3:21...indication that I'm doing something right? [/Woo alert]
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'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
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#474
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I'd agree. ![]()
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#475
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Phone consult with potential K T was quite awkward, partly because she was driving. But she confirmed that she's psychoanalytically/psychodynamically trained, though also incorporates a bit of CBT and mindfulness to help with coping in present. Gonna set up session with her and see how she is in person. I was open in saying that I am interviewing other T's, too, and she was fine with that. I'll see how things go with her and can come up with a nickname as needed (not enough on her Psychology Today profile to go by).
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