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#352
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![]() ![]() ![]() Like una said rest, rest and rest as much as you can.
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#353
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![]() ![]() ![]() I'm sorry you're going through this. healed. It does seem a crazy amount to deal with.
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#354
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Thanks for the advice Una and Lemoncake i have been resting and trying to drink more water.
I just remembered a possible reason my cat would have been upset and peed on my bed. I replaced their dishes with low walled oval serving trays to reduce whisker fatigue to see if my daughters cat would be less angry using them. My cat didnt know how to eat out of the new dishes and was so funny trying different angles Last edited by Daffydungle; Jun 30, 2021 at 03:10 AM. |
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#355
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Hugs healed
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#356
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I hope you feel better soon. |
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#357
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Well, my visa to join my fiancé got declined. They claimed I did not submit a document, but I'd argue I did? There's no "we confirm this person isn't married" (I called my relevant governm body to check) but you have to apply for a notarised "official search result of no marriage records for this person" for visas. Just because different countries have slightly different but essentially the same thing...
Second claim is that they contacted my fiancé (he has power of attorney) twice on 2 specific dates regarding my "missing" document, but did not receive a response. He checked his email, his government inbox thing. Nothing! So maybe physical mail but then he's supposed to get an SMS notification from the government informing him they sent physical mail - no SMS or calls. They threw out the entire application based on that 2. We're going to appeal. |
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#358
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Ugh, I'm so sorry, QM. I hope your appeal is successful...
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#359
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Dramamine/Gravol (dimenhydrinate) apparently causes nightmares?
And my nearby pharmacy doesn't have meclizine, though I will see where else I can try. Did pick up a Sea Band though. ![]() |
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#360
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#361
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And there wasn't. My parents are going to wait to talk to my sister until the weekend maybe. I told them to do it on the phone where it can't be overheard by the children. I don't want any part of it. My part to play is to support my sister, even when I disagree with her. But my day yesterday, my actual birthday, was very nice. It was awkward because sister's BF was there and I don't know him so we had a lot of getting to know you type conversations instead of just a relaxed kick back day. But it wasn't as bad as I envisioned. We had pancakes for breakfast, pizza for lunch, and then spaghetti (my choice) for dinner. We didn't watch any movies or anything which I would have liked to do, but I did get to hang out with my nieces some and that was nice. I also bought some baby clothes for my sister's roommate and going baby clothes shopping is always fun. I also ordered a few things from her baby registry on Amazon so she'll have that. I'll probably take a box of diapers when I go up to visit in July. My parents sent me a huge thing of flowers for my birthday. Blue roses! I had never seen blue roses, and a huge bouquet of balloons. It was so nice. And a friend cross stitched me a flamingo patterned picture. It's so cool. I love it. I need to find a place to put it but I love it.
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#362
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I'm actually kind of missing Dr. K, my therapist. What is wrong with me? 20 days until I see him.
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#363
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It's OK to miss people in your support system, Kit. Nearly three weeks is a long time. Happy belated birthday, by the way!
Speaking of support systems, part of mine is going haywire. I paid to do another round of the grief writing course that I have completed a couple of times, to maybe help me deal with what I am trying to deal with. First off, I started getting course emails on the 24th, four days before it was due to start. Then I managed to alert them to the problem, and they put me in the correct group. Now I'm being told that some of the prompts have changed, and being asked to write to the 'correct' prompts, so that newcomers will recognise them. Thing is, the prompts so far have been identical to the ones I've written about in the past. I really don't understand what's going on, and it is putting me off sitting down to write to the prompt that I was going to do tonight.
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'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
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#364
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lol we are kinda snobby with that!! But I also live in a country where everyone hates winter but everyone also hates summer. Every year it’s the same complaints. Although right now we are in a heat dome with record breaking temps so complaints are welcome right now. Lol when I picture heat pumps im assuming you live in a home without a built in furnace and you use space heaters? Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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#365
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Don't know about whether CE is talking about the same thing, but where I live, heat pumps are usually used in combination with a sort of large pin that you put way down into the Earth, and in winter you pump heat from the Earth below into the house, in the Summer you can give heat back to the Earth. It's usually done through floor heating. Also not sure about the fact it wouldn't hold up with Canadian standards, Switzerland is doing fine with it ![]() Edit: The pin you put into the Earth is called a downhole heat exchanger. Last edited by ChickenNoodleSoup; Jun 30, 2021 at 01:40 PM. |
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#366
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Happy belated birthday, Kit! I'm glad you ended up having a nice day.
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#367
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Hugs, Lost, I hope they can get things sorted out in the group soon.
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#368
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Thank you LT.
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#369
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As someone who has had a therapist the meant the absolute world to me disappear and put an end to my therapy with no notice...how you feel is important regardless if you have no notice, one month, two months ect. Ending with a therapist is HARD and especially if its been long term with attachment as it seems for you. if you can try to be a little easier on yourself. Your feelings are valid. You are not whining. I hope you keep writing here about it if it helps you. |
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#370
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There's nothing wrong, or even unusual, in missing your T.
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Mr Ambassador, alias Ancient Plax, alias Captain Therapy, alias Big Poppa, alias Secret Spy, etc. Add that to your tattoo, Baby! |
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#371
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Mr Ambassador, alias Ancient Plax, alias Captain Therapy, alias Big Poppa, alias Secret Spy, etc. Add that to your tattoo, Baby! Last edited by CantExplain; Jun 30, 2021 at 05:36 PM. |
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#372
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There's an indoor box with a fan, an outdoor box with a fan, and hoses between them.
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Mr Ambassador, alias Ancient Plax, alias Captain Therapy, alias Big Poppa, alias Secret Spy, etc. Add that to your tattoo, Baby! |
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#373
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Do you mean a reverse cycle air conditioner? Or is this something different. I did try to google it and this was the best explanation
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#374
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Some homes have ducted heat pumps, which has ducts in the ceilings to multiple rooms. Ours are just straight through the wall.
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Mr Ambassador, alias Ancient Plax, alias Captain Therapy, alias Big Poppa, alias Secret Spy, etc. Add that to your tattoo, Baby! |
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