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#576
Jan 09, 2023, 02:38 PM
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Yeah, she said she forgot to tell me the building was going to be locked and we would have to reschedule. She said she was so incredibly sorry. Shrug. I'm just kind of numb to it all. Then she said it is the biggest thing she has forgotten and maybe she needs to check with her doctor because she had a concussion last year to see if this was related to that. IDK.
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#577
Jan 09, 2023, 04:06 PM
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I'm sorry, Kit. That is ridiculous.
I've forgotten how old you said she is, but there's no excuse for sending a client on a 2.5 hour round trip to a session that they're not going to have. Even if it was a severe concussion, I don't think memory lapses on that level can be explained away like so. There is a definite difference between what you are used to, and what you are worthy of...what you deserve. You deserve care and support that you can absolutely rely on.
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#578
Jan 09, 2023, 04:09 PM
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Ugh, wow, that's a huge thing to forget, considering it required more than 2 hours of travel on your part. I'm sorry...I know I'd be really upset. But I can also understand your feeling numb. Hugs... |
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#579
Jan 09, 2023, 04:28 PM
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#580
Jan 09, 2023, 04:31 PM
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I assume your dad was short? My parents are the exact same height (5'8"). My mom has said if my dad were an inch shorter, she wouldn't have married him. Both Dr. T and ex-MC are short for guys (maybe 5'7" and 5'5", respectively?) and both seem to have hangups about it. |
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#581
Jan 09, 2023, 04:37 PM
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Me and parents were all 5'4", from the time i was in maybe 6th grade? I wore my dad's suit for halloween one year, and none of the girls in my class believed it fit me!
My last t was about my height, i think. Previous was a foot taller! Update - dang my gut is just killing me today. Pretty sure its just gas pains, cuz i can use a heating pad and it stops for a while, but dang its like having labor pains for a baby that never arrives! |
| ArtieTheSequal, NP_Complete, ScarletPimpernel, SlumberKitty
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#582
Jan 09, 2023, 04:43 PM
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Ugh, I'm sorry about your gut. Hope you feel better soon. Maybe call your doctor? And I'm also 5'4"! H is 6'3". |
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#583
Jan 09, 2023, 05:49 PM
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For as long as I live, I will never understand (some) straight people's weird hang-ups about the height of their partners.
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#584
Jan 09, 2023, 05:57 PM
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A little side bar but kind of related. My uncle is a few months younger than my aunt and it really bothers her that she is older. I don't know why.
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#585
Jan 09, 2023, 06:02 PM
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I had one boyfriend who was slightly shorter than me. I should have married him. Not that he asked. But we were young then. Still in school. Actually I broke it off. He moved to the Windy City and this was hard to deal with whilst in high school in California. He later joined the military, worked for the government and is now married and has a maybe grade-school-aged daughter. I'm happy for him.
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#586
Jan 09, 2023, 06:02 PM
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My other high school boyfriend was about a head taller than me. He, like me, is still single. He was the one that broke it off.
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#587
Jan 09, 2023, 06:03 PM
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That seems to be a hangup people have as well. I'm around 9 months older than my H, but that's fine! Though D will be like, "Why are you older than Daddy?" |
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#588
Jan 09, 2023, 06:14 PM
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H is shorter than me. It really bothers my dad. He says he should have put a height requirement for our dating... H and I both don't care: about my dad's comment or about our heights.
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#589
Jan 09, 2023, 06:43 PM
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My ex was the same height as me 5'8"ish. H is 6'4", our son is somehow almost 6'8". He towers over me! His gf too, she's a little shorter than I am.
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#590
Jan 09, 2023, 06:49 PM
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#591
Jan 09, 2023, 06:59 PM
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#592
Jan 09, 2023, 07:12 PM
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OMG, Artie! Your son is 6’8 !!!! That is nuts, especially to someone who is 4’11
Kit-I agree with the others; it is absolutely not ok how T treats you-like you are dispensable. |
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#593
Jan 09, 2023, 07:28 PM
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#594
Jan 09, 2023, 09:33 PM
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My maternal grandparents—he was 6’3”, she was 4’9”. They had separate beds in the same bedroom to accommodate their different heights. |
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#595
Jan 09, 2023, 09:37 PM
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So today I:
-submitted four reference letters for a student (woke up in a panic thinking I had missed a deadline) -taught one in-person class -checked in on my two online courses for a couple hours -chaired a committee meeting -was told my arm isn’t broken and I should get PT -and helped rescue a cat from a tree I better sleep well tonight. Last edited by atisketatasket; Jan 09, 2023 at 10:10 PM. |
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#596
Jan 09, 2023, 09:47 PM
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I come from a long line of hobbits (but not nearly as hairy). 5'8 is a giant in my family
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Jan 10, 2023, 04:41 AM
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#598
Jan 10, 2023, 07:00 AM
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Wow, that's quite the day! Glad your arm isn't broken. Hope you did get some sleep. |
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#599
Jan 10, 2023, 09:09 AM
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#600
Jan 10, 2023, 11:03 AM
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I'm having a little bit better of a day today. I had several system issues while working yesterday that aggravated the dickens outta me (our IT dept is worse than useless at best) that I finally got resolved this morning. And for now I think my best course of action with h is just to let go of all expectations period.
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