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Default Jul 07, 2024 at 01:58 PM
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Another rupture. 5 now. And you eluding to me being disrespectful of you, your experience and your feelings just makes me so much more angry at you. You don't get it and this all just proves it!

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Default Jul 08, 2024 at 03:35 AM
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You have an email, and I feel like I have a deadline in order to be able to manage over the summer.

This is the time of year I need more support, not measurably less.

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Default Jul 08, 2024 at 03:18 PM
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I'll tell you tommorow about what happened today since I had already emailed you that question about what time our appointment was and then you sent 2 emails on your own. Idk why you didn't just combine the 2nd and 3rd one instead of sending them an hour apart.
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Default Jul 09, 2024 at 08:42 AM
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Thanks for acknowledging my email.

I didn't give you much to go on.
Understanding is meant to be a good thing, but in this case it's not.

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Unhappy Jul 09, 2024 at 09:18 PM
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Dear A1,

The closer your surgery date gets the more scared I get. I need you to be okay and I need you to be alive.



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Default Jul 10, 2024 at 03:28 PM
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With my transference T 4 years ago, I would have been begging for her to fit me in somehow. But I understand now you are booked and will fit me in if you get a cancellation.

But ok I'll admit. I am a tiny bit jealous of your clients who do get to see you next week.

I know my physical health is more important right now anyways.
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Default Jul 10, 2024 at 04:17 PM
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Dear T,

I'm really struggling with your suddenly taking vacation next week. I know you're still seeing clients virtually, but it's not the same. Especially with all the chaos and unknowns of the move. And when you said a month ago you didn't expect to take a vacation at all.

And I'm struggling, too, with the "I really need the money" response to my feeling bad for see you while you're on vacation. Which focuses on the transactional nature of the relationship. I know that's how it is, but it's still difficult.

And OF COURSE my parents' condo isn't available the time of your actual move. (Though who knows if it will happen then anyway?) I imagine R won't be available next week either... I'd ask if she'd be available the day you're moving Dr. H, but of course, you don't know when that day is, so not like I can schedule with her... And I guess she'd be packing anyway.

Trying not to email you about all this...Or to ask about availability tomorrow (though maybe you'd find a way to fit me in due to needing the money!)

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Default Yesterday at 03:10 AM
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So sorry you're dealing with this LT.

I hope a path emerges that allows you to feel more at ease with what's going on.

Feel free to PM if you want to vent.

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So sorry you're dealing with this LT.

I hope a path emerges that allows you to feel more at ease with what's going on.

Feel free to PM if you want to vent.

Lost

Thanks, Lost, missed this earlier!
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Default Yesterday at 11:47 AM
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Thank you for understanding the magnitude of this.

I appreciate your ability to translate the things I couldn't say.

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