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Old Jun 14, 2013, 10:52 PM
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I don't usually condone dishonesty, but in a matter of your safety...do you think you could perhaps skirt the details, or at the very least, convey the message that his guy is a threat without giving exact details? The details may prove extraneous...you could say this guy was an associate (not a lie) of yours who became too attached (not a lie) and you, not wanting what he wanted, distanced yourself (not a lie). He is now invading your personal space (sure as hell not a lie) and you feel threatened (not a lie). I don't know your parents well enough to know if that would suffice (and again, I don't like suggesting dishonesty...), but they'd be powerful assets to have on your side during this.
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Old Jun 14, 2013, 11:08 PM
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Go to the police right away. This man is threatening you and you won't be the last person he threatens. He is unstable enough to believe that you would reunite with him after blackmailing you. That is a very twisted mind and you need help managing him. If he is determined to Publish the pictures, it is going to happen if you do not act. By identifying him to the police, he will be aware that they know he is the source of the photos. You will also have him frightened to do anything else to you because the police will suspect him first.
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Old Jun 15, 2013, 04:24 PM
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Go to the police right away. This man is threatening you and you won't be the last person he threatens. He is unstable enough to believe that you would reunite with him after blackmailing you. That is a very twisted mind and you need help managing him. If he is determined to Publish the pictures, it is going to happen if you do not act. By identifying him to the police, he will be aware that they know he is the source of the photos. You will also have him frightened to do anything else to you because the police will suspect him first.
Lisa...she has already gone to the police, and they say there's "not enough evidence."
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Old Jun 15, 2013, 07:35 PM
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My apologies. First time reading these forums and I did not realize I was looking at the start of a thread, not the end. I am used to forums posted in reverse order so most recent is first on the page
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