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Mar 21, 2015 at 06:22 AM
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I am always kind of driftig, losing touch. I canīt help. try so hard to fight against but I guess maybe noone recognizes me beeing so heavily distressed. so noone reaches out his hand.. I also think people could be frightened getting in touch to me.. maybe I am frightening?am I? Or maybe I am simply kind of too strange, I often feel so different, difficultly understandable and I also donīt want to be a burden to others I donīt want them to feel worse I donīt want to cause trouble or difficulties...maybe thatīs the reason for I am hiding my needs for help and my troubles. I believe if it is me one reason for the world beeing less comfortable Iīd better keep myself away, I`d better hide away.
but itīs also difficult to me finding confidence to others... so Iīm stuck here in my tears-wet hiding place...sending a silent message out for to maybe find some help... yours cybheart |
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Mar 21, 2015 at 07:09 AM
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I have hid my deepest problems from people that care about me in order to not be a burden on them, and I am just beginning to realize now that at the end of the day it is not worth it - people who care for you will end up worrying for you anyways.
If you have a close friend or relative, confide in them with your problem. Or consider seeing a counselor if you can. I find that just by posting here on Psych Central I get support and it helps me so I encourage you to keep posting if it helps. |
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Mar 21, 2015 at 08:44 AM
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Nothing wrong with being different, and nobody has any justification to be scared of you if you are not like threatening them or something with aggression.
You DESERVE to have the support of others. Not everyone may be accommodating, but persevere to find those that are. Remember people cannot just read you if you do not tell them how you feel. But start slowly and gently, not all at once. Just my advice |
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Mar 21, 2015 at 02:50 PM
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Mar 21, 2015 at 04:04 PM
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itīs good to see I am not that alone.
thnx a lot to you for reacting. Quote:
itīs like I am locked up .thereīs a solid blockade. I feel unable to share my thoughts and feelings with someone like a friend or family member when I am currently badly in need for help. itīs kinda ambivalent. ..on the other hand I need to be saved, I cannot save myself all alone..I suppose. I guess this matters somehow are relating to my relationship-issues. I need relationships, friendships, but I am so much afraid of letting somebody near me. I donīt know how to solve this currently I try to find a therapist but itīs so much exhausting, everything but easy. . @hypermic: what you say is encouraging to me..I try not to give up...and slowly and gently telling.. |
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