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#226
Nov 04, 2008, 12:21 PM
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{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{SAS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} I understand all too well how you are feeling. Like Recluse and you, I've been there myself. I've also turned my back on God, so many times I didn't understand how He could love me or forgive me. Even right now, after last night's study, FEELING His love and His joy, it's hard to take in. I certainly don't understand it because I feel so insignificant.
SAS, when a person doesn't receive the approval, the love and nurturing we need as we grow up, it's almost impossible to understand and even accept love and caring from others... and much more so God's love, understanding and caring because it is so perfect! We certainly weren't taught to accept ourselves, much less love ourselves. For a long time I struggled with the concept of God's grace, His unmerited favor. I didn't even understand those words! It simply means that He loves us NO MATTER WHAT. He keeps on forgiving us time after time because He forgets what He forgave us for the last time. THAT is what God's Grace means.  Of course, it's up to us to not do what we know is wrong. But God is patient with us, oh, so patient! There's many people here that can relate to where you are right now and most of us are eager to help. I know I am and I know Recluse is, too. Lean on us, SAS. We're here to help or if nothing else, just hold your hand.  
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#227
Nov 04, 2008, 05:50 PM
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(((((((recluse))))) ((((((((septembermorn)))))))))))
i'm so sorry that l feel this way.........l dont knoe what to do..........you are both right l dont feel worthy of His love and l certainly cant see why He would forgive me once again............l want to rid myself of these dark and bad thoughts but l just dont seem to be able to.........l have fought them and fought them denied that there are even here and now because of this they haunt my waking hours and also during resting hours...........l am so so lost ...so hurt and the memories are desroying my soul peice by piece....... wheat right do l have to ask for forgiveness and peace and love again and again.......nothing but nothing makes sense right now.............l feel such a failure...... my hope it fades away and im too tired to stop it...im so sorry that l am not beteer and stronger....... 
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#228
Nov 04, 2008, 08:18 PM
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{{{{{{{{{{{{{SAS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} You don't need to apologize for how you feel. It is what it is. God made us to need each other and to need Him. You needing someone to love you in turn helps you to recognize God's love for you.
Because we can't go into religion on this board, it stops me from posting publicly how Recluse and I can help you. I'll be PMing you, Hon. Recluse is a wise, loving, wonderful woman. You can count on her to support you very well, also. You're not alone, "Sassi". And you certainly are LOVED.
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#229
Nov 04, 2008, 08:58 PM
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(((((SeptemberMorn))))) & (((((Mandy)))))
Just the interaction between us here shows evidence of God's love and how He can work through other people to touch one anothers lives! God bless you both and be with you always! recluse1 |
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#230
Nov 09, 2008, 10:50 PM
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When in your own pit of darkness, put you eyes on God. Praise Him and give Him thanks for the many blessings in your life. Like the love of family, the comfort of friends, the blessing to live another day.
Soon you will see the blessings as God shines His light into the pit and chases away the darkness and reaches His hand to pull you out! Love to All recluse1 |
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#231
Nov 09, 2008, 11:00 PM
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 (((((((((((((((((( Mandy )))))))))))))))))))
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#232
Nov 10, 2008, 01:17 PM
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Another new day...........another new chance............another day to thank and pray for.........today l recognise the opportunity for the growth and acceptance which is being offered to me today......................... God bless you all May you all find inner Peace and Happiness Mandyxx
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#233
Nov 10, 2008, 02:42 PM
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(((((((((Fuzzy))))))))))) ((((((((((Mandy)))))))))))
I pray God's love and light be upon you always! |
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#234
Nov 10, 2008, 04:03 PM
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((((((((((FUZZY)))))))))  (((((((RECLUSE)))))))))) "forgiveness is a gift l give to myself" "l am willing to change and to grow" may love and happiness be with you both always Mandyxx
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Nov 10, 2008, 04:51 PM
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((((((((((((((Mandy))))))))))))))))))))) My thoughts are prayers are with you! Zen888
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#236
Nov 11, 2008, 08:49 PM
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"forgiveness is a gift l give to myself"
"l am willing to change and to grow" (((((Mandy)))))))) Beautifully said sweetheart! Forgiveness is the beginning of healing and where there is a will...there IS a way! And we are always here to lend a helping, loving, and supportive hand anytime you need it. Just reach out and we'll grab hold! |
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#237
Nov 12, 2008, 12:11 AM
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(((((((((((((( Recluse)))))))))))))  l am reaching out to you all Give me the strength to find my strength The Light is within........l just cant see Happiness and Peace to you all Mandyxxx
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#238
Nov 14, 2008, 08:11 AM
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((((((((((((Everyone ))))))))))) May we all be Blessed by the strength of Gods Mercy May we be Blessed with all its peace May we be Blessed by its warmth and happiness May we be Blessed by its Understanding and Forgiveness God lead me.....allow me to see the right way Allow me to see through different eyes To find the Good within the Bad So that l may acknowledge the Blessings of each new day Peace to you all May Gods love shine upon you Today and always Mandyxx
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#239
Nov 14, 2008, 02:12 PM
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(((((((((Mandy))))))))) You have such strength and courage dear one! Though it may be hard for you to see it within you at this moment, it is there! And more apparent to each of us with every post you make!
God is with us always, continually working for us and in us. We truly are a work in progress. I send you much love and many hugs! May you continue to find your strength, your hope, and your peace in God! God bless you always sweetheart! recluse1 |
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#240
Nov 14, 2008, 02:44 PM
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Please please help me someone please........why cant l see and feel l see the words the appear onthe paper but the feelings l cant feel... oh Lord why cant l feel you.........please please please the sadness has engulfed me and is swallowing me whole.........   today l know l cant make someone love me.....just be someone who can be loved no matter how much l care.....some just wont care back it takes years to build trust.......it taken away in a second you can do something in an instant....have heartache forever to be forgiven by others......l need to forgive myself first learning to forgive me takes practice we are responsbile for our actions.......no matter how we feel its easier to react....... than to try and think not to forgive will mean l am imprisoned in my past "True guilt says l have done badly.... the shame tells me l am bad" Dear Lord please love me despite what l have done or failed to do Please forgive me my sins and Lord Jesus , Please come into my life once again so l may feel you in my heart So you may be my Lord and Saviour. Help me to try to forgive myself.....to rid myself of this shame and guilt so l may never shame others Give me strength to fight these bad thoughts that are flocked in my head.... to fight the evil that is surrrounding me Lord hear my prayer Amen
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#241
Nov 14, 2008, 02:49 PM
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"May we all be blessed with Guardian Angels".......I know I've had a few.
(((((((((((Hugs to ALL)))))))))))) 
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#242
Nov 17, 2008, 06:56 AM
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(((((((((((((((((((((Hugs to everyone))))))))))))) So try now to remember Each day to start anew To seek and search the darkness In the hope that we see through God Bless you all May He forgive us our sins and bring us everlasting life Amen Mandyxx
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#243
Nov 17, 2008, 05:16 PM
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#244
Nov 17, 2008, 08:03 PM
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The Love of God is our soul's greatest refuge!
Much Love To All! recluse1 |
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#245
Nov 18, 2008, 05:03 AM
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(((((((((((Everyone))))))))) O God, and Mary, your mother who have brought me and mine safe from the depths of sleep to another day, bring us safely through every trouble of this day and protect us, body and soul from all evil Amen
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"never tell a child their dreams are unlikely or outlandish.... few things are more humiliating and what a tragedy when they believe you"
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Nov 18, 2008, 06:13 AM
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Nov 18, 2008, 01:51 PM
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None taken, luvdog. May your day be blessed with peace!
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#248
Nov 18, 2008, 02:07 PM
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There was a notice on this thread about no religious posting. So please, I know at times it is hard, but try to stick to the guidelines so this thread won't be locked.
Just a gentle reminder for everyone, we are allowed to say God but we can't talk about anything that is religion or faith specific. We can only do that in our social groups, blogs, pm's, or private chats. I appreciate each of you that have participated in this thread and I pray that you will continue to share your love and insight as inspiration for us all. Much Love recluse1
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#249
Nov 18, 2008, 02:11 PM
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Sorry think that was me........it wont happen again.......l made a mistake so please dont lock this thread Doc John l will not do it again and its not fair that the others should suffer because of me.........l was just desparate l suppose....................sorry silentandscaredxxxxxxxx
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#250
Nov 18, 2008, 02:24 PM
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((((((((Sassy))))))))))) Noone is in trouble sweetheart, noone is pointing fingers, and noone is placing blame.
Trust me, many of us have needed "gentle reminders", myself included. Don't be scared away....please continue to come here and share. sending you much love recluse1 |
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