Roll Call 100: Centennial Edition

i went on a date today...

How the heck did it go Kori??? I hope it went well. It takes courage to give the scene a try.

Online dating tips: Make sure they are smiling in at least one photo. If all their photos are selfies beware. If they are holding a baby in one of their pictures then they want a family, like yesterday. If the book they like on their profile is to kill a mockingbird then they haven't read a book since high school. If a guy isn't wearing a shirt in his photos then he's about skin deep.

So true

I need to throw away the blade it's sucking the life out of me one moment at a time I need to throw it out it's my last one I need to stop it rid it from my life need to stop it...

I threw it out. It was my only one. And I don't have ready access for more so I'm just going to have to deal. I can't keep going down this path I've been here before. Impulsively hurting myself it has to stop I'm putting my foot down. No more.

it went okay,
he was really nice and i had fun talking to him,
but i dont know if i want to pursue a relationship with him

Good for you. It's hard to break that relationship. It's like a bad breakup.

Well I'm sure a lot of guys are stuffing your inbox at any given time. No pun intended. Online dating for women can be overwhelming. Take your time. Can't rush into these things.

It's okay to just date. Your young take the time to find the right one. In the meantime have fun!

You're not your

I only have selfies bc I have no friends lol

Thank you. I'm nervous to tell my doctor that I did it again. He wanted me to call the office if I got the urge. But I didn't. I did it impulsively didn't even think about it. I'm not going to call because I see him in two days. I will tell him I threw it out.

It is so hard to stop. I've been on again off again cutting myself for... almost ten years holy ****.

But I just can't I hate the scars and the shame...

On the subject of dating...

I really want to have sex with this guy and be intimate with him. Ive been talking to him for a month and a half now and i pretty much consider him my boyfriend even tho we arent together. Ive told people im dating him. Like my family and my friends.

We want to have sex with each other.

But my pss thinks im moving too fast.

Meanwhile i feel like im falling in love all over again.

What do i do?

That never stopped me from dating women with only selfies. lol It's just something to ponder "why?"

If you were a guy and wanted to wait to have sex I would be laughing at you. The absurdities of sex cracks me up.

I know them feels.

Only you know when you are ready.
I think "taking it slow" would be longer than a month but if you're ready...
I'm glad you feel like you are falling in love. It's a great feeling. One you'll enjoy more with someone that treats you right.

Fwiw I was hanging out with my husband for 2 months before we got together then had sex pretty much right away.

Not sure what you mean

Same....

I really want subway but my aunt brought over meatballs so we are having spaghetti instead. Bummer.

Well im confused.

How long is someone supposed to "take it slow"?

How long IS taking it slow?

Its been a month and a half. About.

Like i said my pss thinks i need to take more time. And yea im not trying to use him for my gratification. So thats why ive been taking it slow this whole time. Plus wasnt sure if i liked him, but thats changed. Everyday i talk to him i like him more and more. Hes all i can think about lately. He says he thinks about me all day too.

We havent even made out. Weve kissed only twice. Im dying to kiss him.

Girls have A LOT more to worry about when it comes to sex. And pregnancy, even tho its the biggest thing, is only ONE issue.

I updated my post. My husband and I hung out for a couple months before we got together and had sex.